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This is based on my observation, and also heard from other people. maybe some of you have read about it, notice it, or even happen to some of u.
Being in a relationship is a happy thing in life. I notice that those girls in a relationship looks prettier and "brighter" than before, i'm not saying that those that are single are not beautiful o... Physically wise, they look prettier, is it coz they wan look the best when got a bf? look prettier coz want to keep her guy? or is it the hormones release make her look prettier?
i notice that their "mountain" looks nicer, rounder, and bigger... It is not tat i always notice it, but so happen it has big changes and people can tell the difference.
In the past, i have heard female friends saying those things. Where in a relationship, they receive the Love nutrition that make them prettier, and making it bigger and more attractive.
Not too long ago, my friends mother said that her(my fren's) breast has become bigger. The shape like has change already. Then her mum asked if she had a boyfriend, coz her mummy say if got boyfriend then will become bigger, coz of the body hormones that are release.
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This few days, every night also see her in my dreams. I dare not message her or look for her, as i'm scared she will disappoint me by not replying my message or just replying it in a very cold way...
Friday, December 26, 2008
Friday, December 19, 2008
Farewell quote
while looking for some farewell quote to write on the Picture frame that i would be giving to William, i came across some Love quote and would like to share it with my readers...
to share something on him. i have known him for more than 2 years now... we met by Fate or the will of God in a place called KDU CG, also known as House of Manna...
“People so seldom say I love you And then it's either too late or love goes. So when I tell you I love you, It doesn't mean I know you'll never go, Only that I wish you didn't have to.”
“Remember me and smile, for it's better to forget than remember me and cry.”
“Distance never seperates two hearts that really care, for our memories span the miles and in seconds we are there. But whenever I start feeling sad cuz I miss you I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss.”
“Never say goodbye when you still want to try, never give up when you still feel you can't take it. Never say you don't love the person anymore when you can't let go.”
“Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.”
Dr. Seuss quotes (1904-1991)
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Of course, i would also like to share some on Goodbye my friend..
“Saying goodbye doesn't mean anything. It's the time we spent together that matters, not how we left it.”
“So many faces in and out of my life; some will last, some will be just now and then. Life is a series of hellos and good byes, I'm afraid it's time for goodbye again.”
“You and I will meet again, When we're least expecting it, One day in some far off place, I will recognize your face, I won't say goodbye my friend, For you and I will meet again”
“Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget.”
(http://thinkexist.com/quotations/goodbye/)
to share something on him. i have known him for more than 2 years now... we met by Fate or the will of God in a place called KDU CG, also known as House of Manna...
“People so seldom say I love you And then it's either too late or love goes. So when I tell you I love you, It doesn't mean I know you'll never go, Only that I wish you didn't have to.”
“Remember me and smile, for it's better to forget than remember me and cry.”
“Distance never seperates two hearts that really care, for our memories span the miles and in seconds we are there. But whenever I start feeling sad cuz I miss you I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss.”
“Never say goodbye when you still want to try, never give up when you still feel you can't take it. Never say you don't love the person anymore when you can't let go.”
“Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.”
Dr. Seuss quotes (1904-1991)
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Of course, i would also like to share some on Goodbye my friend..
“Saying goodbye doesn't mean anything. It's the time we spent together that matters, not how we left it.”
“So many faces in and out of my life; some will last, some will be just now and then. Life is a series of hellos and good byes, I'm afraid it's time for goodbye again.”
“You and I will meet again, When we're least expecting it, One day in some far off place, I will recognize your face, I won't say goodbye my friend, For you and I will meet again”
“Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget.”
(http://thinkexist.com/quotations/goodbye/)
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
命中注定我愛你quote
sorry，你可以骂我，可以打我，但是不要讨厌我。。。
每个baby都是上帝牵手带到这世界的
怀孕：
男人面前没行情，
女人面前被同情。
还像球踢来踢去。
你可以利用我，
你可以讨厌我，
你可以不喜欢我，
但是你不可以骗我。
人生就像一场赌局，不可能把把都赢。
孕育一个生命不是意外，是命中注定的，所以一定要珍惜在一起养儿育女的机会
我错在世界的女人那么多，非要你不可，偏偏就是只要跟你在一起。。。
不要以为没有喊痛就是没有感觉
机会就跟小偷一样，来的时候不晓得，等到走了之后你才知道损失惨重
保证已经不值钱了
重要的是如何生存，而不是如何死去 "Samuel Johnson(18th century)"
如果参与你的过去是上帝的安排，那么我真心的希望我们的相遇是有意义的
女人被骗
第一次是纯真
第二次是无知
第三次是愚蠢
第一次是偶然
第二次是必然
第三次是命中注定
。。。和你的相遇，让我知道什么叫缘分。在我们的一生中会遇到很多人，而谁才是你的另一半，其实一却已经早已命中注定了。
my own idea/ inspiration from the show
如果爱上你是一个错误，那么就让我继续错下去吧
if beauty was a person, it would be (name)
每个baby都是上帝牵手带到这世界的
怀孕：
男人面前没行情，
女人面前被同情。
还像球踢来踢去。
你可以利用我，
你可以讨厌我，
你可以不喜欢我，
但是你不可以骗我。
人生就像一场赌局，不可能把把都赢。
孕育一个生命不是意外，是命中注定的，所以一定要珍惜在一起养儿育女的机会
我错在世界的女人那么多，非要你不可，偏偏就是只要跟你在一起。。。
不要以为没有喊痛就是没有感觉
机会就跟小偷一样，来的时候不晓得，等到走了之后你才知道损失惨重
保证已经不值钱了
重要的是如何生存，而不是如何死去 "Samuel Johnson(18th century)"
如果参与你的过去是上帝的安排，那么我真心的希望我们的相遇是有意义的
女人被骗
第一次是纯真
第二次是无知
第三次是愚蠢
第一次是偶然
第二次是必然
第三次是命中注定
。。。和你的相遇，让我知道什么叫缘分。在我们的一生中会遇到很多人，而谁才是你的另一半，其实一却已经早已命中注定了。
my own idea/ inspiration from the show
如果爱上你是一个错误，那么就让我继续错下去吧
if beauty was a person, it would be (name)
Saturday, December 13, 2008
In life destiny to love you
Currently donno what to watch, then happen to come acrosss this show again, so just started watching it...
quite fun lo... but i dun think such things happen in life... at least nt in my life(for now).... i dun even get anything close to that... wat a sad life i have...
i want to share with u all this... maybe u have known it already... in tat case, u can just press the X on the right top corner...
三从四德
sán cóng sì dé
so what is this all about....?
it is the three obedience and four virtues that a couple have to "promise" to each other when they get married...
The three obedience
obey her father before marriage,
her husband when married,
and her sons in widowhood
The four virtues
morality,
proper speech,
modest manner,
and diligent work
“三从”：
未嫁从父，
既嫁从夫，
夫死从子。
“四德”：德、容、言、工
第一要紧是品德，能正身立本;
相貌（指出入要端庄稳重持礼，不要轻浮随便，);
言语（指与人交谈要会随意附义，能理解别人所言，并知道自己该言与不该言的语句);
治家之道（治家之道包括相夫教子、尊老爱幼、勤俭节约等生活方面的细节）。
现代的【三从四德】
============女朋友的三从四德============
男友言行要听从 Bf advice must listen
男友无知要盲从 Bf "blur blur" just forget
男友主意要服从 Bf idea must follow
男友多情要忍"得" Bf "extra love" must tahan
男友薄行要受"得" -
男友多疑要记"得" -
男友小气要就"得" Bf "small gas" is a NO
============男人的三从四德============
女朋友出门要跟"从" Gf go out must follow
女朋友命令要服"从" Gf command must follow
女朋友讲错要盲"从" Gf say wrongly, must act deaf
女朋友化妆要等"得" Gf put make up must wait
女朋友花钱要舍"得" Gf spend money must be generous
女朋友生气要忍"得" Gf angry must tahan
女朋友生日要记"得" Gf birthday must remember
版本二：男人的三从四德
何为‘三从’？就是‘服从，听从，跟从’；何为‘四德’？就是‘生日要记得，心思要懂得，花钱要舍得，挨打要忍得
Source: Baidu
quite fun lo... but i dun think such things happen in life... at least nt in my life(for now).... i dun even get anything close to that... wat a sad life i have...
i want to share with u all this... maybe u have known it already... in tat case, u can just press the X on the right top corner...
三从四德
sán cóng sì dé
so what is this all about....?
it is the three obedience and four virtues that a couple have to "promise" to each other when they get married...
The three obedience
obey her father before marriage,
her husband when married,
and her sons in widowhood
The four virtues
morality,
proper speech,
modest manner,
and diligent work
“三从”：
未嫁从父，
既嫁从夫，
夫死从子。
“四德”：德、容、言、工
第一要紧是品德，能正身立本;
相貌（指出入要端庄稳重持礼，不要轻浮随便，);
言语（指与人交谈要会随意附义，能理解别人所言，并知道自己该言与不该言的语句);
治家之道（治家之道包括相夫教子、尊老爱幼、勤俭节约等生活方面的细节）。
现代的【三从四德】
============女朋友的三从四德============
男友言行要听从 Bf advice must listen
男友无知要盲从 Bf "blur blur" just forget
男友主意要服从 Bf idea must follow
男友多情要忍"得" Bf "extra love" must tahan
男友薄行要受"得" -
男友多疑要记"得" -
男友小气要就"得" Bf "small gas" is a NO
============男人的三从四德============
女朋友出门要跟"从" Gf go out must follow
女朋友命令要服"从" Gf command must follow
女朋友讲错要盲"从" Gf say wrongly, must act deaf
女朋友化妆要等"得" Gf put make up must wait
女朋友花钱要舍"得" Gf spend money must be generous
女朋友生气要忍"得" Gf angry must tahan
女朋友生日要记"得" Gf birthday must remember
版本二：男人的三从四德
何为‘三从’？就是‘服从，听从，跟从’；何为‘四德’？就是‘生日要记得，心思要懂得，花钱要舍得，挨打要忍得
Source: Baidu
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Bad patch of life
bad luck has fallen upon me again... OMG~~~~ why so dao mei...
first, i got a sms this morning saying..:
"Hey, its X. We rally apologize that the coming PC fair@KLCC, our company can't let you be part of it. bcoz our amount already out of the limit.. really sorry..." :'(
i knows it really late, but if anybody stil need people.. for either the KL or JB pc fair... please do contact me... thanks...
then when i wan go out for lunch, i notice my socks was on my slippers... 0.0
find find my shoes... eh, looks like its missing o... look again... really not there... and the gate was ajar... WTF~~~~ my shoes is STOLEN~~~~ i now cure my shoes... the brown shoes tat i brought from TS... may who ever stole it and wear it be cures... and maybe he keep falling down... =p
anyway, i wanted to throw the shoes soon, just waiting for me to buy another new pair of shoes...
first, i got a sms this morning saying..:
"Hey, its X. We rally apologize that the coming PC fair@KLCC, our company can't let you be part of it. bcoz our amount already out of the limit.. really sorry..." :'(
i knows it really late, but if anybody stil need people.. for either the KL or JB pc fair... please do contact me... thanks...
then when i wan go out for lunch, i notice my socks was on my slippers... 0.0
find find my shoes... eh, looks like its missing o... look again... really not there... and the gate was ajar... WTF~~~~ my shoes is STOLEN~~~~ i now cure my shoes... the brown shoes tat i brought from TS... may who ever stole it and wear it be cures... and maybe he keep falling down... =p
anyway, i wanted to throw the shoes soon, just waiting for me to buy another new pair of shoes...
Tuesday, December 09, 2008
Half day out at the ParkS
went to pick her at 8 something in just now... after tat straight away headed to KL... drove until sogo, then donno the way, so turn back to Jalan Parliment then go from there, hitting Jalan Pahang or Jalan Genting Klang then slowly manage 2 find the way there... its nt tat hard, just need to try 2 recall some of the roads...
after turning for nt tat long actually, we finally reach there... headed to the office to get what need to be done, and took a short scroll in the campus for awhile...
went over to TBR for brench.. makan at one of the chinese shops... had wan tan mee... but only manage 2 eat half of it... hehe...
when wanna leave, my car was block by another car behind me, horn and horn stil nobody come out... finally when my fren said v scroll awhile more here, SHE came out to move the car... not too bad looking la... of course the 1 beside me is better =p
went back the same road where we came from, and stop over at Tasik Titiwangsa... Eyes on Malaysia has been remove, now the place is just so bare... sit there for awhile, then decided to go to National monument or around tat area where there is a park also... i think is Lake Garden gua...
lepak there, took some pictures... then had to come back to PJ coz she was working in the afternoon...
after having such fun, mana stil wanna go work o... i also feeling tired, maybe coz sleep not enough...
after turning for nt tat long actually, we finally reach there... headed to the office to get what need to be done, and took a short scroll in the campus for awhile...
went over to TBR for brench.. makan at one of the chinese shops... had wan tan mee... but only manage 2 eat half of it... hehe...
when wanna leave, my car was block by another car behind me, horn and horn stil nobody come out... finally when my fren said v scroll awhile more here, SHE came out to move the car... not too bad looking la... of course the 1 beside me is better =p
went back the same road where we came from, and stop over at Tasik Titiwangsa... Eyes on Malaysia has been remove, now the place is just so bare... sit there for awhile, then decided to go to National monument or around tat area where there is a park also... i think is Lake Garden gua...
lepak there, took some pictures... then had to come back to PJ coz she was working in the afternoon...
after having such fun, mana stil wanna go work o... i also feeling tired, maybe coz sleep not enough...
Monday, December 08, 2008
Poppy @ 7 Dec 2008
its 5.07AM...
just got back from Poppy Collection...
first time hitting the dance floor and dancing in groups with total strangers...
had a damn fun time dancing with them...
some wanted to exchange numbers, but can't hear properly, and i didn't bring my name card along... so just forget bout it... most was there with their bf... anyway, dance with few girls...
open Dawart 12 years last time @ RM 312 + 1 cover of RM40...
People involve: Jac, Henry, Sharon, Joan, Martin, Melinda and ME...
later added: on sat night, had a private party with my classmates and some seniors.. then on sunday night, some of them wanted to go dance, and so i was called... first time clubbing with this group of frens... last time got also is have a drink and chit chat only...
there was not many people at Poppy... was not cramp at all... kinda spacious lo, except for the dance floor... but had a great time dancing with total strangers... groups of guys and girls, dancing in circles... my first experience... 跳到high翻天了。。。一天比一天的high。。。
next friday, if nothing stops me, Maison here i coming after 2 years... (my classmate's birthday)
just got back from Poppy Collection...
first time hitting the dance floor and dancing in groups with total strangers...
had a damn fun time dancing with them...
some wanted to exchange numbers, but can't hear properly, and i didn't bring my name card along... so just forget bout it... most was there with their bf... anyway, dance with few girls...
open Dawart 12 years last time @ RM 312 + 1 cover of RM40...
People involve: Jac, Henry, Sharon, Joan, Martin, Melinda and ME...
later added: on sat night, had a private party with my classmates and some seniors.. then on sunday night, some of them wanted to go dance, and so i was called... first time clubbing with this group of frens... last time got also is have a drink and chit chat only...
there was not many people at Poppy... was not cramp at all... kinda spacious lo, except for the dance floor... but had a great time dancing with total strangers... groups of guys and girls, dancing in circles... my first experience... 跳到high翻天了。。。一天比一天的high。。。
next friday, if nothing stops me, Maison here i coming after 2 years... (my classmate's birthday)
Sunday, December 07, 2008
Party @ 6 Dec 208
its 3.10AM, and i just got back for a party with classmates at one of their house...
i'm consider tipsy ba....
we had open a total of about 5 bottles..
Chivas 12 years; JW Black label limited edition, 12 years; JW Green label 15 years; a rum; red wine Merlot; Absolute Vodka peach.
i myself drank bout 11 cups... those paper cup size of alcohol mix with cola or sprite....
4 cups of Chivas, 2/3 of black label, few green label, 1 cup mix with rum, few cups of absolute peach flavor...
in the afternoon, i had a product briefing, and it was at the highest floor of Menara TM... WOW~~~ everything seems so small... and it is like, i'm looking down on the world...
i'm consider tipsy ba....
we had open a total of about 5 bottles..
Chivas 12 years; JW Black label limited edition, 12 years; JW Green label 15 years; a rum; red wine Merlot; Absolute Vodka peach.
i myself drank bout 11 cups... those paper cup size of alcohol mix with cola or sprite....
4 cups of Chivas, 2/3 of black label, few green label, 1 cup mix with rum, few cups of absolute peach flavor...
in the afternoon, i had a product briefing, and it was at the highest floor of Menara TM... WOW~~~ everything seems so small... and it is like, i'm looking down on the world...
Thursday, December 04, 2008
Tagged A-Z
A - Age: 20
B - Band listening to right now: Heaven (Candlelight)
C - Career future: Where ever Fate brings me to
D - Dad’s name: Mr. Ng
E - Easiest person to talk to: If AIR was a person
F - Favorite song: Nice songs tat suit my mood
G - Gummy Bears or Gummy Worms: Gummy bears
H - Hometown: Johor Bahru
I - Instruments: -NIL-
J - Job: is student a job?
K - Kids: mayb 2
L - Longest car ride ever: JB to Penang.
M - Mom’s name: Mrs. Ng
N - Number of people you slept with: I always sleep alone
O - O what? OIC...
P - Phobia[s]: Ghost, and Fail in Exam
Q - Quote: "u sure or nt..."
R - Reason to smile: $$$$
S - Song you sang last: Dao dai by Jolin
T - Time you wake up: i think was 8 something...
U - Unknown fact about me: donno what people donno
V - Vegetable you hate: carrot, onion
W - Worst habit: I can't control myself to stop thinking of Food
X - X-rays you’ve had: its been too long...
Y - Yummy food: As long as it call "food"
Z - Zodiac sign: Aries
I tag: my loyal reader or who ever wants to have a go at it...
B - Band listening to right now: Heaven (Candlelight)
C - Career future: Where ever Fate brings me to
D - Dad’s name: Mr. Ng
E - Easiest person to talk to: If AIR was a person
F - Favorite song: Nice songs tat suit my mood
G - Gummy Bears or Gummy Worms: Gummy bears
H - Hometown: Johor Bahru
I - Instruments: -NIL-
J - Job: is student a job?
K - Kids: mayb 2
L - Longest car ride ever: JB to Penang.
M - Mom’s name: Mrs. Ng
N - Number of people you slept with: I always sleep alone
O - O what? OIC...
P - Phobia[s]: Ghost, and Fail in Exam
Q - Quote: "u sure or nt..."
R - Reason to smile: $$$$
S - Song you sang last: Dao dai by Jolin
T - Time you wake up: i think was 8 something...
U - Unknown fact about me: donno what people donno
V - Vegetable you hate: carrot, onion
W - Worst habit: I can't control myself to stop thinking of Food
X - X-rays you’ve had: its been too long...
Y - Yummy food: As long as it call "food"
Z - Zodiac sign: Aries
I tag: my loyal reader or who ever wants to have a go at it...
Tuesday, December 02, 2008
i think when u r out of luck, things really don't come your way....
i) was looking forward to meeting her again this thursday, man tau just now drop by to see her, then she said her thursday day off cancel d, change to another day and took extra day coz wan go back hometown... suddenly change of plan... so sad wei, coz donno after this stil got chance to see her or nt... just have to leave it to fate lo...
ii)PC fair recruitment looks like is not my luck.... the person told me wil finalise on Monday then contact back, but til now stil nothing... looks like i not on their list ba... stil keeping my finger cross for now... again, leave it to GOD and fate...(KL)
JB's also dun seems to be my luck too... looks like its just not many people wanting the samething...
fingers cross...
iii)the korean boss tat i work for previously also haven't got back to me yet... also keeping finger cross, he wil call me soon...
hope my luck wil be better la...
*just now went to see my classmate who is in hospital... he ask me to press the bell to call the nurse. and you know wat happen? 5 nurse came to the bed.. hahaha... but then o, my other fren press the bell, and 7 came the other day... (most of them r just student nurse la) =p
i) was looking forward to meeting her again this thursday, man tau just now drop by to see her, then she said her thursday day off cancel d, change to another day and took extra day coz wan go back hometown... suddenly change of plan... so sad wei, coz donno after this stil got chance to see her or nt... just have to leave it to fate lo...
ii)PC fair recruitment looks like is not my luck.... the person told me wil finalise on Monday then contact back, but til now stil nothing... looks like i not on their list ba... stil keeping my finger cross for now... again, leave it to GOD and fate...(KL)
JB's also dun seems to be my luck too... looks like its just not many people wanting the samething...
fingers cross...
iii)the korean boss tat i work for previously also haven't got back to me yet... also keeping finger cross, he wil call me soon...
hope my luck wil be better la...
*just now went to see my classmate who is in hospital... he ask me to press the bell to call the nurse. and you know wat happen? 5 nurse came to the bed.. hahaha... but then o, my other fren press the bell, and 7 came the other day... (most of them r just student nurse la) =p
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Feeling of loneliness
dunno why this morning, i woke up with a feeling of loneliness... its been a long time since i last felt so...
my dad is away for the weekend again... and come Jan 2009, he won't be here with me anymore... is it because of that? i doubt so, or maybe it plays a small part...
maybe the feeling of loneliness comes/ hits me after a day out with fren(s)...
yesterday i went out with someone special, for almost the whole day.. all the way from morning til evening.. mainly we went to watch movieS [Bolt 3D & Twilight] and also catch up with each other... its been months since i last saw her... since end of April til almost end of Nov... had a great day out with her... Glad that she looked me up...
looking forward to meeting her again, IF possible... coz next year, she would be going away to another place to study... her course is relocating...
my dad is away for the weekend again... and come Jan 2009, he won't be here with me anymore... is it because of that? i doubt so, or maybe it plays a small part...
maybe the feeling of loneliness comes/ hits me after a day out with fren(s)...
yesterday i went out with someone special, for almost the whole day.. all the way from morning til evening.. mainly we went to watch movieS [Bolt 3D & Twilight] and also catch up with each other... its been months since i last saw her... since end of April til almost end of Nov... had a great day out with her... Glad that she looked me up...
looking forward to meeting her again, IF possible... coz next year, she would be going away to another place to study... her course is relocating...
Sunday, November 23, 2008
26 letters representing Love
A - Accept（接受）
世界沒有十全十美的人」這句話是千真萬確的，尤其是兩個人一起並不等如兩塊合得來的積木，必需互相遷就記著，你愛他/她，就必需接受他/她的一切包括他/她的缺點。
B - Believe（相信）
不信任對方，經常以懷疑的語氣盤問對方，這種互相猜度的愛情，就只有分手下場，既然跟他/她一起就應該完全信任對方才對。
C - Care（關心）
關心的程度正好表現你對對方的重視程度，打個電話給對方，關心式問候一句，這些關心未必有實際用途，但肯定令對方暖在心頭。
D - Devoted （全心全意）
愛一個人當然要全心全意，一腳踏數船不會是個好辦法，結果多數亦是分手，不要令他/她難過嘛！也不要浪費你們兩個的時間嘛！
E - Enjoy（享受）
你應欣賞對方的一切，享受這段愛情帶給你的開心、快樂、幸福，這樣，你便會愛得更愉快，不要只懂埋怨，在雞蛋裡挑骨頭。
F - Freedom（自由）
雖然大家在一起，也應給予對方應有的自由及保持秘密的權利，你的另一半不是你的奴隸，不要讓他/她認為跟你在一起，就如被困在籠裡的寵物。
G - Give（付出）
愛情這東西不一定是你付出這麼「多」，便會收回這麼「多」，但不付出，便一定沒有收獲，對你的情人，應該對自己一樣，毫無保留的付出這才算得上是真愛。
H - Heart, Honesty（心，誠實）
愛情最重要的道具是心，你必需真心對待、用心去愛你的另一半，大家又可必要收收埋埋呢？沒有心，又怎能稱得上真心相愛？
I - Independence（獨立）
甜言蜜語的人會說﹕「我是為你而生的。」，其實，每個人都有自己的生存空間，不應過份依賴對方，成為對方的沉重負擔，甚至負贅。
J - Jealousy（妒忌）
適當的妒忌、呷醋能表示你對對方的重視，但切記是合情合理的呷醋，假如是毫不講理的大發雷霆地呷醋，導致的必然是惹人反感。
K - Kiss（吻）
和情人深深一吻來代替講話．．好嗎？」，一吻勝過千言萬語，輕輕的一吻已能代表你惜他/她，愛護他/她，所以請不要吝嗇你的紅唇。
L - Love（愛）
都說是愛情，沒有愛又怎會有情呢？愛跟喜歡不同，愛一個人，你必定願意為他/她做任何事，這是最高的境界，間中不妨跟他/她說一句﹕「我愛你」，擔保比任何禮物來得甜蜜開心。
M - Mature（成熟）
為什麼大多數的人的初戀總會無聲無色地慘敗？因為年輕人都戀愛得較幼稚，況且，沒有人會喜歡對方長年沒頭沒腦地蹦蹦跳，人成熟一點，你的愛情亦會早熟一點，直至開花結果。
N - Natural（自然）
很多人初拍拖的時候都會把一切缺點收起來，變成另一個人，日子久了，缺點就一籮籮地出現，令對方吃不消，其實，不做作，流於自然的愛情才會細水長流啊。
O - Observe（觀察）
經常細心觀察對方的喜好，不但能更了解對方，更能間中給他/她一些驚喜，好像愛侶看雜誌時無意讚某明星的錶漂亮，你便可留待他/她生日的時候買給他/她，那份心意一定比禮物來得珍貴。
P - Protect（保護）
做男朋友的當然要保護女朋友，但做女朋友的亦要保護對方的尊嚴，不要讓他人中傷，或者侮辱你的另一半啊！
Q - Quarter（寬恕）
愛情裡面怎可以沒有寬恕，對他/她的錯誤，你應該以寬大的態度原諒他/她，為什麼？因為你是最愛他/她的人嘛。
R - Receive（接收）
對於愛侶為你做的一切，請不要表現得無動於衷，令他/她氣餒，他/她付出，你便應該以欣賞的態度去接收，這才能令感情更進一步。
S - Share（分享）
若你愛他/她，就必需於他/她分享他/她的喜、怒、哀、 樂，不要只顧著自己才可以嘛，這是作為一個伴侶的最簡單的責任。
T - Try（嘗試）
兩個人一起久了，可能會覺得跟對方一起很沉悶，這是很平常的，但這多數是邁向成功愛情的其中一個階段，而且是重要的一個，過了這個階段，你前面就是一條又平又直的大路了，嘗試用不同的方式去溝通溝通吧！（什麼方式？你自己想想啦．．）
U - Understand（明白）
對於你的另一半，首先請你明白他/她的為人，否則你根本不可以跟他/她好好的在一起，另外，雖然你不是他/她，不知道他/她在想什麼，但是，有時候，也可以猜猜嘛．．，常常要對方說出來，好像沒什麼情趣似的。
V - Vow（誓言）
人人都可以發誓，「我發誓，我會愛你一生一世，否則．．．」，否則有舍用？誓言是，是可以令對方覺得你好愛他/她，令對方覺得好甜蜜可是，請你們不要當發誓真的是吃生菜，否則，就請你不要作出無謂的誓言，帶來的效果只會更差。
W - Willingness（願意）
有時候你的另一半可能會作出一些要求，這些要求不一定是合理的，就算是合理的也好，假如你不願意的話，就請你說﹕「不！」，如果他/她真的是喜歡你的話，他/她亦會樂意接受。(不要想歪啊！這個是可以應用在不同的Situation的！）
X - eXpression（表達）
兩個人相處，有什麼想說的，不管是對的、不對的、關於他/她的、關於你的、關於大家的，你都可以跟他/她表達你的意見或者看法，雖說有時候可以讓對方猜一下你心想的，但如果這樣行不通，那你就要嘗試表達一下你自己了。
Y - Yield（退讓）
兩個人在一起，難免有爭拗，但是「忍一時，風平浪靜；退一步，海闊天空」，不要跟你的伴侶計較這麼多吧！還有，不要沒想清楚就對對方說﹕「分手吧！」，嘗試下跟對方談一談，找出解決的方法啊！
Z - Zest（熱情）
大慨沒有人想他/她的另一半常常好像沒有心情似的，有時候對你的另一半熱情些，對增加你們之間的感情都會有幫助的，不過，不要太過份就可以了，免得他/她以為你吃錯藥啊！
*for those that can't read Chinese, just read those words, and think about it... i'm sure you can get the answer, and explanation.=)
世界沒有十全十美的人」這句話是千真萬確的，尤其是兩個人一起並不等如兩塊合得來的積木，必需互相遷就記著，你愛他/她，就必需接受他/她的一切包括他/她的缺點。
B - Believe（相信）
不信任對方，經常以懷疑的語氣盤問對方，這種互相猜度的愛情，就只有分手下場，既然跟他/她一起就應該完全信任對方才對。
C - Care（關心）
關心的程度正好表現你對對方的重視程度，打個電話給對方，關心式問候一句，這些關心未必有實際用途，但肯定令對方暖在心頭。
D - Devoted （全心全意）
愛一個人當然要全心全意，一腳踏數船不會是個好辦法，結果多數亦是分手，不要令他/她難過嘛！也不要浪費你們兩個的時間嘛！
E - Enjoy（享受）
你應欣賞對方的一切，享受這段愛情帶給你的開心、快樂、幸福，這樣，你便會愛得更愉快，不要只懂埋怨，在雞蛋裡挑骨頭。
F - Freedom（自由）
雖然大家在一起，也應給予對方應有的自由及保持秘密的權利，你的另一半不是你的奴隸，不要讓他/她認為跟你在一起，就如被困在籠裡的寵物。
G - Give（付出）
愛情這東西不一定是你付出這麼「多」，便會收回這麼「多」，但不付出，便一定沒有收獲，對你的情人，應該對自己一樣，毫無保留的付出這才算得上是真愛。
H - Heart, Honesty（心，誠實）
愛情最重要的道具是心，你必需真心對待、用心去愛你的另一半，大家又可必要收收埋埋呢？沒有心，又怎能稱得上真心相愛？
I - Independence（獨立）
甜言蜜語的人會說﹕「我是為你而生的。」，其實，每個人都有自己的生存空間，不應過份依賴對方，成為對方的沉重負擔，甚至負贅。
J - Jealousy（妒忌）
適當的妒忌、呷醋能表示你對對方的重視，但切記是合情合理的呷醋，假如是毫不講理的大發雷霆地呷醋，導致的必然是惹人反感。
K - Kiss（吻）
和情人深深一吻來代替講話．．好嗎？」，一吻勝過千言萬語，輕輕的一吻已能代表你惜他/她，愛護他/她，所以請不要吝嗇你的紅唇。
L - Love（愛）
都說是愛情，沒有愛又怎會有情呢？愛跟喜歡不同，愛一個人，你必定願意為他/她做任何事，這是最高的境界，間中不妨跟他/她說一句﹕「我愛你」，擔保比任何禮物來得甜蜜開心。
M - Mature（成熟）
為什麼大多數的人的初戀總會無聲無色地慘敗？因為年輕人都戀愛得較幼稚，況且，沒有人會喜歡對方長年沒頭沒腦地蹦蹦跳，人成熟一點，你的愛情亦會早熟一點，直至開花結果。
N - Natural（自然）
很多人初拍拖的時候都會把一切缺點收起來，變成另一個人，日子久了，缺點就一籮籮地出現，令對方吃不消，其實，不做作，流於自然的愛情才會細水長流啊。
O - Observe（觀察）
經常細心觀察對方的喜好，不但能更了解對方，更能間中給他/她一些驚喜，好像愛侶看雜誌時無意讚某明星的錶漂亮，你便可留待他/她生日的時候買給他/她，那份心意一定比禮物來得珍貴。
P - Protect（保護）
做男朋友的當然要保護女朋友，但做女朋友的亦要保護對方的尊嚴，不要讓他人中傷，或者侮辱你的另一半啊！
Q - Quarter（寬恕）
愛情裡面怎可以沒有寬恕，對他/她的錯誤，你應該以寬大的態度原諒他/她，為什麼？因為你是最愛他/她的人嘛。
R - Receive（接收）
對於愛侶為你做的一切，請不要表現得無動於衷，令他/她氣餒，他/她付出，你便應該以欣賞的態度去接收，這才能令感情更進一步。
S - Share（分享）
若你愛他/她，就必需於他/她分享他/她的喜、怒、哀、 樂，不要只顧著自己才可以嘛，這是作為一個伴侶的最簡單的責任。
T - Try（嘗試）
兩個人一起久了，可能會覺得跟對方一起很沉悶，這是很平常的，但這多數是邁向成功愛情的其中一個階段，而且是重要的一個，過了這個階段，你前面就是一條又平又直的大路了，嘗試用不同的方式去溝通溝通吧！（什麼方式？你自己想想啦．．）
U - Understand（明白）
對於你的另一半，首先請你明白他/她的為人，否則你根本不可以跟他/她好好的在一起，另外，雖然你不是他/她，不知道他/她在想什麼，但是，有時候，也可以猜猜嘛．．，常常要對方說出來，好像沒什麼情趣似的。
V - Vow（誓言）
人人都可以發誓，「我發誓，我會愛你一生一世，否則．．．」，否則有舍用？誓言是，是可以令對方覺得你好愛他/她，令對方覺得好甜蜜可是，請你們不要當發誓真的是吃生菜，否則，就請你不要作出無謂的誓言，帶來的效果只會更差。
W - Willingness（願意）
有時候你的另一半可能會作出一些要求，這些要求不一定是合理的，就算是合理的也好，假如你不願意的話，就請你說﹕「不！」，如果他/她真的是喜歡你的話，他/她亦會樂意接受。(不要想歪啊！這個是可以應用在不同的Situation的！）
X - eXpression（表達）
兩個人相處，有什麼想說的，不管是對的、不對的、關於他/她的、關於你的、關於大家的，你都可以跟他/她表達你的意見或者看法，雖說有時候可以讓對方猜一下你心想的，但如果這樣行不通，那你就要嘗試表達一下你自己了。
Y - Yield（退讓）
兩個人在一起，難免有爭拗，但是「忍一時，風平浪靜；退一步，海闊天空」，不要跟你的伴侶計較這麼多吧！還有，不要沒想清楚就對對方說﹕「分手吧！」，嘗試下跟對方談一談，找出解決的方法啊！
Z - Zest（熱情）
大慨沒有人想他/她的另一半常常好像沒有心情似的，有時候對你的另一半熱情些，對增加你們之間的感情都會有幫助的，不過，不要太過份就可以了，免得他/她以為你吃錯藥啊！
*for those that can't read Chinese, just read those words, and think about it... i'm sure you can get the answer, and explanation.=)
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
愛情最難的16件事
1)最難遇的.....
是碰上那種他會非常愛你，你也愛他，但不用愛得像他那麼用力的人。
2)最難為的.....
是同時愛上兩個人，終於決定捨棄其一。
3)最難辦的.......
就是同時愛上兩個人，但又不願捨棄任何一方。
4)最難忍的......
是當街遇到舊情人摟著一個品味比你差太多的新歡，而你那位比對方體面許多的情人，卻剛好不在身邊。
5)最難堪的......
是你自作多情對人好，卻被對方指控騷擾。
6)最難辯的......
是你明明對他毫無感覺，但他卻大肆對周遭友人宣揚你對他有意思。
7)最難難拿捏的.......
是關心太少，被視為冷漠無誠意，太多又有雞婆管閒事之虞。
8)最難拒絕的.......
是被人一廂情願的暗戀，暗戀到讓你沒有機會向對方*不良字句*明自己不能接受。
9)最難接受的.....
是你早已嫌棄對方，卻被對方搶先一步提出分手。
10)最難控制的.....
是情人的胃與心，該吃該愛的都只能由他。
11) 最難演練的.....
是欲擒故縱，巧稍有疏失，就成了"放生"。
12)最難表達的.....
是讓對方知道，其實你正在等他前來示愛。
13)最難決定的....
是你面前出現了有財無才，有才無財，及才財兼備，偏偏又不夠愛的人，讓你任選其一時。
14)最難啟齒的....
是你主動提出分手，說得太絕會被罵負心，太婉轉又怕對方沒能體會，還要繼續和你手牽手，做"好朋友"。
15)最難收放的.....
是為愛付出，太多恐有血本無歸之風險，太少又怕投資不夠，回報無期。
16)最糟糕的......
是你才剛和他許下了山盟海誓，永不分離，就又發現了另一個讓你無法自拔，深深迷戀的對象。
是碰上那種他會非常愛你，你也愛他，但不用愛得像他那麼用力的人。
2)最難為的.....
是同時愛上兩個人，終於決定捨棄其一。
3)最難辦的.......
就是同時愛上兩個人，但又不願捨棄任何一方。
4)最難忍的......
是當街遇到舊情人摟著一個品味比你差太多的新歡，而你那位比對方體面許多的情人，卻剛好不在身邊。
5)最難堪的......
是你自作多情對人好，卻被對方指控騷擾。
6)最難辯的......
是你明明對他毫無感覺，但他卻大肆對周遭友人宣揚你對他有意思。
7)最難難拿捏的.......
是關心太少，被視為冷漠無誠意，太多又有雞婆管閒事之虞。
8)最難拒絕的.......
是被人一廂情願的暗戀，暗戀到讓你沒有機會向對方*不良字句*明自己不能接受。
9)最難接受的.....
是你早已嫌棄對方，卻被對方搶先一步提出分手。
10)最難控制的.....
是情人的胃與心，該吃該愛的都只能由他。
11) 最難演練的.....
是欲擒故縱，巧稍有疏失，就成了"放生"。
12)最難表達的.....
是讓對方知道，其實你正在等他前來示愛。
13)最難決定的....
是你面前出現了有財無才，有才無財，及才財兼備，偏偏又不夠愛的人，讓你任選其一時。
14)最難啟齒的....
是你主動提出分手，說得太絕會被罵負心，太婉轉又怕對方沒能體會，還要繼續和你手牽手，做"好朋友"。
15)最難收放的.....
是為愛付出，太多恐有血本無歸之風險，太少又怕投資不夠，回報無期。
16)最糟糕的......
是你才剛和他許下了山盟海誓，永不分離，就又發現了另一個讓你無法自拔，深深迷戀的對象。
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
The week pass so fast... i just notice tat my last post was posted 1 week ago....
anyway, yesterday(monday) and today(tuesday) i had my presentation... it was just so-so...
just nows presentation kena critic from the lecturer kao kao lo...
my classmate was saying tat when v started presenting, it was loud and clear, but after awhile as the lecturer ask questions and comment on it, it become softer and powerless... coz all lost confidents d...
after class, i drop my groupmate home, then went to IKANO to have a look at the Padini Group Sale... discount is alot la... ranging up to 70% off, mostly is 50-70%... those that i liked didn't have my size, its either L or XL, if nt then is the "left-a-few" S.... few design also like tat... in the end, i manage 2 get a M, which is also left a few, around 2 or 3 more only... i think thats all la.. o ya, i was only looking at the office clothings, buy for my presentations and functions... Looking forward to the Year end sale... hope can get what i want then...
anyway, yesterday(monday) and today(tuesday) i had my presentation... it was just so-so...
just nows presentation kena critic from the lecturer kao kao lo...
my classmate was saying tat when v started presenting, it was loud and clear, but after awhile as the lecturer ask questions and comment on it, it become softer and powerless... coz all lost confidents d...
after class, i drop my groupmate home, then went to IKANO to have a look at the Padini Group Sale... discount is alot la... ranging up to 70% off, mostly is 50-70%... those that i liked didn't have my size, its either L or XL, if nt then is the "left-a-few" S.... few design also like tat... in the end, i manage 2 get a M, which is also left a few, around 2 or 3 more only... i think thats all la.. o ya, i was only looking at the office clothings, buy for my presentations and functions... Looking forward to the Year end sale... hope can get what i want then...
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
joke for the day
some joke before i head to bed...
why crocodile don't eat the pig?
1.为什么鳄鱼不吃猪 ？
because they are islam
因为他们是Islam....
why the crocodile don't eat the chicken?
2.为什么鳄鱼不吃鸡？
because they ber-puasa
因为他们puasa
why crocodile knock 2 times then die?
3.为什么鳄鱼敲2下就死？
because kok kok die (crocodile)
kok kok = knock knock
why crocodile don't eat the pig?
1.为什么鳄鱼不吃猪 ？
because they are islam
因为他们是Islam....
why the crocodile don't eat the chicken?
2.为什么鳄鱼不吃鸡？
because they ber-puasa
因为他们puasa
why crocodile knock 2 times then die?
3.为什么鳄鱼敲2下就死？
because kok kok die (crocodile)
kok kok = knock knock
Monday, November 10, 2008
don't want go fill form, if nt consider u want
One day, some1 walks in to a coffee shop.
he sits down and think what he want to have... what to eat leh?
then the shop worker brings a cup of coffee, and says: RM1.20 please!
that some 1, 0.0 : i never order any drinks yet...
shop worker: u dun want coffee, then go fill form, if not consider u want...!
think for urself.. i joke on the latest EPF announcement....
he sits down and think what he want to have... what to eat leh?
then the shop worker brings a cup of coffee, and says: RM1.20 please!
that some 1, 0.0 : i never order any drinks yet...
shop worker: u dun want coffee, then go fill form, if not consider u want...!
think for urself.. i joke on the latest EPF announcement....
Happy Birthday List
Happy Birthday to:
Chooi Han & Raymond Khor- 10 Nov
Anil Benedict- 11 Nov
Clara Ho- 12 Nov
Andrea Cheong- 13 Nov
Chad Gan & Alvin Chwee- 14 Nov
Kitt Yap- 15 Nov
Pooi Mun- 17 Nov
Michelle Sit- 18 Nov
Jasmine Lai- 22 Nov
Jamie Tan- 23 Nov
Chooi Han & Raymond Khor- 10 Nov
Anil Benedict- 11 Nov
Clara Ho- 12 Nov
Andrea Cheong- 13 Nov
Chad Gan & Alvin Chwee- 14 Nov
Kitt Yap- 15 Nov
Pooi Mun- 17 Nov
Michelle Sit- 18 Nov
Jasmine Lai- 22 Nov
Jamie Tan- 23 Nov
Sunday, November 09, 2008
Saturday, November 08, 2008
First Nuffnang cheque
finally got my first cheque from blogging... the company that is paying is Nuffnang...
A BIG BIG thanks to NUFFNANG...
it took me 9 months before my first cash out in Sept 2008...
i wil go cash it soon... YEAH~~~ finally after days of dreaming when i wil get it...
A BIG BIG thanks to NUFFNANG...
it took me 9 months before my first cash out in Sept 2008...
i wil go cash it soon... YEAH~~~ finally after days of dreaming when i wil get it...
Friday, November 07, 2008
"Birthday" celebration for CH
meet up with my ex classmate just now at 1-U... there was 4 of us in total, another 2 pull out coz they say no money shopping... (it was suppose to be their shopping spree ba...)
anyway, it was Me, Jamie + her mum, and CH.... donno where 2 eat, so v ended up in WK again... LOL~~~ the food came as usual, but then forgot to take any photo since my fren's mum was there, so also shy la...
so what her present was? a Pink Bag, + a Pink rose in a brown teddy bear box...
only can see the outside, coz after putting the present, forgot to take photo.... very forgetful this days...
since the box was 31cm X31cm X31cm... and she had class after that, and when she goes back, it would be rush hour, and she has to take public transport, so she ask me to keep the box, and her old bag first.. next week when her dad fetch her after class, she will get it from me...
she is using the new bag tat i gave her, coz just now Jamie and her mum keep asking change to the new bag... then help her move over her stuff...
O ya.. its an early celebration, coz her birthday is only on Monday...
anyway, it was Me, Jamie + her mum, and CH.... donno where 2 eat, so v ended up in WK again... LOL~~~ the food came as usual, but then forgot to take any photo since my fren's mum was there, so also shy la...
so what her present was? a Pink Bag, + a Pink rose in a brown teddy bear box...
only can see the outside, coz after putting the present, forgot to take photo.... very forgetful this days...
since the box was 31cm X31cm X31cm... and she had class after that, and when she goes back, it would be rush hour, and she has to take public transport, so she ask me to keep the box, and her old bag first.. next week when her dad fetch her after class, she will get it from me...
she is using the new bag tat i gave her, coz just now Jamie and her mum keep asking change to the new bag... then help her move over her stuff...
O ya.. its an early celebration, coz her birthday is only on Monday...
Thursday, November 06, 2008
Malaysian dream?
Now tat even United States of America, after 43th presidents, its 44th President of the United States has gone from the white American to an Afican-amarican... it shows that the country don't choose its president by the colour of his skins in the 21th century.... Now that it has change, when will the people of Malaysia see its change.... Will Malaysia ever have a chinese/ indian Prime Minister then? or will it still be the U Must Not Object party holding on to the PM position, and that other races won't have a chance.
Americans have their dreams? what about Malaysia then? can Malaysian even dream of changes?
Americans have their dreams? what about Malaysia then? can Malaysian even dream of changes?
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
squeezey squeezey up the bus
just now after class, went to the library to look for some materials, and after quite sometime, decided to head home, thinking can beat the traffic jam...(it was raining too, so waited for it to stop as i look for materials)
there was not much jam on the way road, just the normal traffic since its KL/PJ... but there was massive amount of people waiting for the school bus.. and the sun has come back out and shinning so so damn hot, maybe want to shine out wat she was owned just now...
anyway, fast forward from where people was melting away, coz many of us are "snow-man/woman" since like to talk so much, like can't kena some sun... then the bus appears:>>
and people all rush up, even faster than what u see on TV, when a star appears for the red-carpet picture.... and crowd around the side of the bus... it was like so many people, and people was pushing and pushing, and i nearly fell down.. to my right is girlS, and my left has a guy... so those girls on my right, push push push, coz the school bus door was considered to their left.... and so push push, and i was going towards the left, i didn't push back to the right, thinking that i can stil be steady, many tau wat those girls eat de, or maybe i had a small lunch... i was push by them, and pushing againts the guy to my left, and he was making so much noise, so i also made noise to those girls la... i think if it was a girl pushing againts him, he wil just shut up and "enjoy" maybe like a massage...
anyway, i was thinking o, don't people who come from richer family have a more systematic way of doing things? don't they know how to Q-up.. or is it, coz u r richer than people then no need to Q-up is it.... maybe coz every1 think its Airasia boarding where IF you pay more, u can hop on first.... making things worst is the checking of student ID since few days ago... where each time u get up the bus, some1 will ask for the ID... donno what happen, suddenly like tat.... maybe they want to use their labor to the fullness..
there was not much jam on the way road, just the normal traffic since its KL/PJ... but there was massive amount of people waiting for the school bus.. and the sun has come back out and shinning so so damn hot, maybe want to shine out wat she was owned just now...
anyway, fast forward from where people was melting away, coz many of us are "snow-man/woman" since like to talk so much, like can't kena some sun... then the bus appears:>>
and people all rush up, even faster than what u see on TV, when a star appears for the red-carpet picture.... and crowd around the side of the bus... it was like so many people, and people was pushing and pushing, and i nearly fell down.. to my right is girlS, and my left has a guy... so those girls on my right, push push push, coz the school bus door was considered to their left.... and so push push, and i was going towards the left, i didn't push back to the right, thinking that i can stil be steady, many tau wat those girls eat de, or maybe i had a small lunch... i was push by them, and pushing againts the guy to my left, and he was making so much noise, so i also made noise to those girls la... i think if it was a girl pushing againts him, he wil just shut up and "enjoy" maybe like a massage...
anyway, i was thinking o, don't people who come from richer family have a more systematic way of doing things? don't they know how to Q-up.. or is it, coz u r richer than people then no need to Q-up is it.... maybe coz every1 think its Airasia boarding where IF you pay more, u can hop on first.... making things worst is the checking of student ID since few days ago... where each time u get up the bus, some1 will ask for the ID... donno what happen, suddenly like tat.... maybe they want to use their labor to the fullness..
Monday, November 03, 2008
bump into frens day again
started my day in uni with the submitting of ptptn form to the officers.... manage 2 settle it fast and smoothly.. thank GOD... coz i was just so afraid that it will encounter some problem...
after that went to library to sit awhile, then went to class for consultation of the assignments... then off i went for some discussion which took quite long coz there was just so many things 2 be done.. but the time was well spend...
after tat went for lunch, and then back to wisma... use the comp there for awhile, then my fren said wan go lv5 the reading room to do some work... and i also was there... actually suppose to have a meeting, but can't find them so forget bout it...
at the reading room, i bump into some of my frens, tat i haven't seen for awhile.. and surprise surprise, i saw a girl tat looked like my ex classmate from high school... and it sounded like her... but i dare nt call her(she was sitting at the next table only), coz scared is not my fren, then paiseh d... then i took the courage to ask one of the person on the same table as her... then she turn to me, (coz i asked quite loud gua...) and called out my name... confirm is her lo... its been so long since i last saw u, Melanie Ng.... so happen she also come the same uni as i'm o.... wat a small small world... how small can a world be o... all the way from jb, yet end up in the same place... anyway, not the same course la...
also saw in the reading room are my ex-roommate, sharon kong, mandy, aili, and gang... then Joanna Ti, and Zi Jie... all was sitting around my table...
i think tats all gua... tired tired day....
so much things 2 be done...
after that went to library to sit awhile, then went to class for consultation of the assignments... then off i went for some discussion which took quite long coz there was just so many things 2 be done.. but the time was well spend...
after tat went for lunch, and then back to wisma... use the comp there for awhile, then my fren said wan go lv5 the reading room to do some work... and i also was there... actually suppose to have a meeting, but can't find them so forget bout it...
at the reading room, i bump into some of my frens, tat i haven't seen for awhile.. and surprise surprise, i saw a girl tat looked like my ex classmate from high school... and it sounded like her... but i dare nt call her(she was sitting at the next table only), coz scared is not my fren, then paiseh d... then i took the courage to ask one of the person on the same table as her... then she turn to me, (coz i asked quite loud gua...) and called out my name... confirm is her lo... its been so long since i last saw u, Melanie Ng.... so happen she also come the same uni as i'm o.... wat a small small world... how small can a world be o... all the way from jb, yet end up in the same place... anyway, not the same course la...
also saw in the reading room are my ex-roommate, sharon kong, mandy, aili, and gang... then Joanna Ti, and Zi Jie... all was sitting around my table...
i think tats all gua... tired tired day....
so much things 2 be done...
Sunday, November 02, 2008
2 nov 2008
Got back from jb this afternoon around 3pm... then waited for the bus back home... it took so so so long to start moving...
while waiting, met a guy from Philipines tat was also waiting for the same bus...
then v chit chatted....
from what v was doing currently, to things back in his home country, cost of living, of course not forgetting the transportation....
he then asked me something tat i dun think i would like to mention here...
anyway, he asked me bout clubs as well... and with clubs comes those things...
*donno wat 2 say la... so for conclusion, i think he is Bi-... coz he said he did both He & She b4... since Philipines is a much open minded country than here... (quoting him only)
while waiting, met a guy from Philipines tat was also waiting for the same bus...
then v chit chatted....
from what v was doing currently, to things back in his home country, cost of living, of course not forgetting the transportation....
he then asked me something tat i dun think i would like to mention here...
anyway, he asked me bout clubs as well... and with clubs comes those things...
*donno wat 2 say la... so for conclusion, i think he is Bi-... coz he said he did both He & She b4... since Philipines is a much open minded country than here... (quoting him only)
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
10 Promises to My Dog
日本寵物店門口掛這10條建言
1. My life likely to last ten years. Any separation from you will be painful for me.
請記得，我的壽命約有10~15年；你的離棄，會是我最大的痛苦。
2. Give me time to understand what you want of me.
請給我一點時間，讓我了解對我的要求是什麼。
3. Place your trust in me--it s crucial to my well-being.
信賴我--那對我非常重要。
4. Don t be angry for me for long and don t lock me up as punishment. You have your work，your entertainment and your firends. I have only you.
請別對我生氣太久，也別把我關起來當作是懲罰。你有你的工作，你的娛樂，你的朋友，但你是我的僅有。
5. Talk to me sometimes. Even if I don t understand your words. I understand your voice when it s speaking to me.
請偶而對我說說話，縱使我不懂你說的內容，但我聽的懂，那是你的聲音在陪伴我。
6. Be aware that however you treat me. I ll never forget it.
你要知道無論你如何對待我，我將永遠不會忘記。
7. Remerber before you hit me that I have teeth that could easily crush the bones of your hand, but that I choose not to bite you.
當你打我時請記得，我其實擁有可以咬碎你手骨的尖銳牙齒，我只是選擇不咬。
8. Before you scold me for being uncooperative，please ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I m not getting the right food, or I ve been run in the sun too long or my heart is getting old and weak.
當你因為責罵我的不合作、固執或懶惰之前，請你想想，是否有什麼正困擾著我。或許我沒獲得我應有的食物，我已經很久沒在溫暖的陽光下奔跑，又或者我的心臟已經太弱及太老。
9. Take care of me when I get old. You too, will grow old.
在我年老時請好好照顧我，因為你也是會變老的。
10. Go with me on difficult journeys. Never say I can t bear to watch it or let it happen in my absent. Everything is easily for me if you are there. Remember, I love you.
當我要捱過最辛苦的歷程時，請千萬不要說：「我不忍心看他。」或者「讓我不在場時才發生。」只要有你和我在一起，所有的事都會變得簡單容易接受。請你永遠不要忘記，我愛你。
it is something similar to this...
She wants a dog, then she gets a dog.. The mum make her do the promises..then happy start, til she gets busy 7 years later.. & things start 2 change after she gets a bf.. Often neglecting it..
Early years, very happy, play wit it everyday..
1. My life likely to last ten years. Any separation from you will be painful for me.
請記得，我的壽命約有10~15年；你的離棄，會是我最大的痛苦。
2. Give me time to understand what you want of me.
請給我一點時間，讓我了解對我的要求是什麼。
3. Place your trust in me--it s crucial to my well-being.
信賴我--那對我非常重要。
4. Don t be angry for me for long and don t lock me up as punishment. You have your work，your entertainment and your firends. I have only you.
請別對我生氣太久，也別把我關起來當作是懲罰。你有你的工作，你的娛樂，你的朋友，但你是我的僅有。
5. Talk to me sometimes. Even if I don t understand your words. I understand your voice when it s speaking to me.
請偶而對我說說話，縱使我不懂你說的內容，但我聽的懂，那是你的聲音在陪伴我。
6. Be aware that however you treat me. I ll never forget it.
你要知道無論你如何對待我，我將永遠不會忘記。
7. Remerber before you hit me that I have teeth that could easily crush the bones of your hand, but that I choose not to bite you.
當你打我時請記得，我其實擁有可以咬碎你手骨的尖銳牙齒，我只是選擇不咬。
8. Before you scold me for being uncooperative，please ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I m not getting the right food, or I ve been run in the sun too long or my heart is getting old and weak.
當你因為責罵我的不合作、固執或懶惰之前，請你想想，是否有什麼正困擾著我。或許我沒獲得我應有的食物，我已經很久沒在溫暖的陽光下奔跑，又或者我的心臟已經太弱及太老。
9. Take care of me when I get old. You too, will grow old.
在我年老時請好好照顧我，因為你也是會變老的。
10. Go with me on difficult journeys. Never say I can t bear to watch it or let it happen in my absent. Everything is easily for me if you are there. Remember, I love you.
當我要捱過最辛苦的歷程時，請千萬不要說：「我不忍心看他。」或者「讓我不在場時才發生。」只要有你和我在一起，所有的事都會變得簡單容易接受。請你永遠不要忘記，我愛你。
it is something similar to this...
She wants a dog, then she gets a dog.. The mum make her do the promises..then happy start, til she gets busy 7 years later.. & things start 2 change after she gets a bf.. Often neglecting it..
After awhile she notice tat she had treat it badly lately & apologize.. The death of it was the saddest part of all.. Many was tearing already..
Early years, very happy, play wit it everyday..
When it is old, she shut it out.. & got bz, then 4gt bout it.. It accompany though her life.. Always there 4 her..
So sad when he was about 2 die, & she said tat she was bz, can't rush back..
He hurt his finger, then the dog heal by making him play it again..
女人与车
女孩（模型车）可看不可用
少女（展览车）好看不许用
老婆（私家车）只许自己用
情妇（无牌车）只能偷偷用
酒女（计程车）有钱就搭用
妓女（巴士车）每天多人用
人妖（电单车）前后能使用
老妇（老爷车）常坏不敢用
少女（展览车）好看不许用
老婆（私家车）只许自己用
情妇（无牌车）只能偷偷用
酒女（计程车）有钱就搭用
妓女（巴士车）每天多人用
人妖（电单车）前后能使用
老妇（老爷车）常坏不敢用
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Day of 26 Oct
SS 2 -> Greenbox Sg. Wang -> Asia Cafe -> Sunway pyramid -> Williams Mamak
first i set off just before 12 for my lunch... then headed down to KL, sg wang to meet up with frens...
after finding a parking, and walking over, started singing bout 1.30 til 4... then chat chat chat, ended up in AC in subang before heading to Pyramid for steamboat BBQ at 6.30.. but had some misunderstanding, so v split up and ended up in Nandos... then walk awhile, drove back, ask my fren want go out or nt, coz just nw he was very unhappy over something, then i asked him call me back if he want to go somewhere.. after awhile, another fren called me, and said lets meet up with him.... so went over... and my day ends there.. coz reach home is deepavali d...
first i set off just before 12 for my lunch... then headed down to KL, sg wang to meet up with frens...
after finding a parking, and walking over, started singing bout 1.30 til 4... then chat chat chat, ended up in AC in subang before heading to Pyramid for steamboat BBQ at 6.30.. but had some misunderstanding, so v split up and ended up in Nandos... then walk awhile, drove back, ask my fren want go out or nt, coz just nw he was very unhappy over something, then i asked him call me back if he want to go somewhere.. after awhile, another fren called me, and said lets meet up with him.... so went over... and my day ends there.. coz reach home is deepavali d...
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Block my car
damn it la.... 2day after finish my class at 11 something, then ask my fren drop me off at the car park to pick up my car... thinking can come back and do my work liao... how i noe, when i reach my car, it was block totally... there is only 1 way out, 1 is forward, which was block by 2 cars, coz of the angle, and back out, but was too small space coz this stupid driver go park like he owns the whole road... there is no way out liao... only wait for that idiot to come lo... and worst of all is, there was no number of anything to contact... tried to come out both ways, but failed... damn angry d...
i asked the guard to clamp tat car, but he said they left no clamps, coz a few cars have been clamp d...
waited until 1 something, then saw my fren going back, so chit chat with him... and i said my car kena blocked, he terus say, scratch the car la... if nt just crash it and come out... he asked where i park, i said behind, then he also said he park the most behind also... i was thinking, if its the 2 car tat is blocking the forward path, then i can go out d... then i asked wat car? he said the H brand lo..(2 blocking, 1 is P brand, 1 is H brand) then i said, good lo, u go out, then i also can go home d... Happy happy... reach my car, he saw it, "where got people park like tat de o, number also never leave, too much la... B****or B*x X"
he throw the bottle againts the car lightly lagi... hahaha... i wanted to make the alarm sound de....
anyway, just left a courtious note for tat car owner...
i was thinking, dunno is it a retribution coz i argue until very heated this morning in class with my group mate. then my fren wrote the paper, and it flew away as soon as he finish it... LOL
God has his way.... why not GOD, U GIVE ME TAT CAR LA.... i'm sure can drive it better than tat person, and if i park like tat, wil leave a note(which i always do now, if i feel i wil block people)....
O ya... before going, i shall announce the Glamorous car plates...
NBX８２２８－satria neo
and the other car tat park alongside my frens car
kembara WLJ ２８８３
(my fren said he park first, before the kembara came and block the path out)
i asked the guard to clamp tat car, but he said they left no clamps, coz a few cars have been clamp d...
waited until 1 something, then saw my fren going back, so chit chat with him... and i said my car kena blocked, he terus say, scratch the car la... if nt just crash it and come out... he asked where i park, i said behind, then he also said he park the most behind also... i was thinking, if its the 2 car tat is blocking the forward path, then i can go out d... then i asked wat car? he said the H brand lo..(2 blocking, 1 is P brand, 1 is H brand) then i said, good lo, u go out, then i also can go home d... Happy happy... reach my car, he saw it, "where got people park like tat de o, number also never leave, too much la... B****or B*x X"
he throw the bottle againts the car lightly lagi... hahaha... i wanted to make the alarm sound de....
anyway, just left a courtious note for tat car owner...
i was thinking, dunno is it a retribution coz i argue until very heated this morning in class with my group mate. then my fren wrote the paper, and it flew away as soon as he finish it... LOL
God has his way.... why not GOD, U GIVE ME TAT CAR LA.... i'm sure can drive it better than tat person, and if i park like tat, wil leave a note(which i always do now, if i feel i wil block people)....
O ya... before going, i shall announce the Glamorous car plates...
NBX８２２８－satria neo
and the other car tat park alongside my frens car
kembara WLJ ２８８３
(my fren said he park first, before the kembara came and block the path out)
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
6 bloody Assignments + 3 scary Presentation
i have got all my assignments.... total of (Individaul x 1 + Group x 1 + Group Presentation x 1) x 3 subjects... and yes its a stressful NINE....
the break down and its due date wil be written, and can be seen til i hand up all of it...
the break down and its due date wil be written, and can be seen til i hand up all of it...
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Studying at MCD
just now, there was 5 person studying at MCD centerpoint, and all was drinking from a single cup of coke, with 5 straw in it... each straw had a little piece of paper, stating their name gua... look like 5 little flags on the cup... so cute thinking of those form 5 student...
they was studying chem...one of the girl, who has a little bit look of my fren, can't even concentrate gua, coz every few minutes, she will turn to the tv and see the football match... why choose a sat night where there is a match, and so noisy to study at MCD... study at home better ba... coz all also had earphone on... maybe study together will make u study ba...
they was studying chem...one of the girl, who has a little bit look of my fren, can't even concentrate gua, coz every few minutes, she will turn to the tv and see the football match... why choose a sat night where there is a match, and so noisy to study at MCD... study at home better ba... coz all also had earphone on... maybe study together will make u study ba...
Saturday, October 18, 2008
DESCO ball + Poppy Garden
@ 4.45am on 18 Oct 2008
just got back from clubbing at Poppy Garden
DECSO annual ball @ Flamingo by the lake... the food and atosphere is just ok ok only... the fun part is always after tat... which was clubbing down in kl..
the last time i went with a big group was after the Foundation ball @ Maison...
so i ended up in Poppy, which was the place tat i had always wanted to go... went there after Quotto @ Avenue K was packed with people and it was already almost 1.20am....
so headed over to Poppy Garden which another big group was there...
open at least 4/5 bottles of Dewarts 12...
dance dance dance and more dance... most of us drink til quite high, then automatic dance de... only not tat many girls lo....
good experience lo... damn alot of people.... pack till full full.... i did puke a little, coz ate too much at the prom + now drink...
after tat went to mamak to cool down a little @Jln Yap Kwan Seng
@ 5.05am, just came out from a cold shower.. damn refreshing now, but head stil a bit pain, coz drink quite abit gua... and its been a long time since i last went... & my housemate just got back from Beach club...
Just some of the photos... can't post so many, if nt post sure load very slow
just got back from clubbing at Poppy Garden
DECSO annual ball @ Flamingo by the lake... the food and atosphere is just ok ok only... the fun part is always after tat... which was clubbing down in kl..
the last time i went with a big group was after the Foundation ball @ Maison...
so i ended up in Poppy, which was the place tat i had always wanted to go... went there after Quotto @ Avenue K was packed with people and it was already almost 1.20am....
so headed over to Poppy Garden which another big group was there...
open at least 4/5 bottles of Dewarts 12...
dance dance dance and more dance... most of us drink til quite high, then automatic dance de... only not tat many girls lo....
good experience lo... damn alot of people.... pack till full full.... i did puke a little, coz ate too much at the prom + now drink...
after tat went to mamak to cool down a little @Jln Yap Kwan Seng
@ 5.05am, just came out from a cold shower.. damn refreshing now, but head stil a bit pain, coz drink quite abit gua... and its been a long time since i last went... & my housemate just got back from Beach club...
Flamingo by the lake
Poppy Garden
Just some of the photos... can't post so many, if nt post sure load very slow
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
給懂 〝珍惜〞的人
1. 遇到你真的愛的人時… 要努力爭取和他相伴一生的機會 …！
因為當他離去時 …一切都來不及了 ……！
2. 遇到可相信的朋友時… 要好好和他相處下去……
因為在人的一生中 …可遇到知己真的不易 … ！
3. 遇到人生中的貴人時… 要記得 好好感激 …
因為他是你人生的轉折點 …！
4. 遇到曾經愛過的人… 記得微笑向他感激…
因為他是讓你更懂愛的人 …！
5. 遇到曾經恨過的人時… 要微笑向他打招呼 …
因為他讓你更加堅強 …！
6. 遇到曾經背叛你的人時… 要跟他好好聊一聊 …
因為若不是他 ……今天你不會懂這世界 … ！
7. 遇到曾經偷偷喜歡的人時… 要祝他幸福唷 …！
因為你喜歡他時 …不是希望他幸福快樂嗎？
8. 遇到匆匆離開你人生的人時… 要謝謝他走過你的人生 …
因為他是你精采回憶的一部分 …！
9. 遇到曾經和你有誤會的人時… 要趁現在解清誤會 …
因為你可能只有這一次機會解釋清楚 …！
10. 遇到現在和相伴一生的人… 要百分百感謝他愛你 …
因為你們現在都得到幸福和真愛 …
因為當他離去時 …一切都來不及了 ……！
2. 遇到可相信的朋友時… 要好好和他相處下去……
因為在人的一生中 …可遇到知己真的不易 … ！
3. 遇到人生中的貴人時… 要記得 好好感激 …
因為他是你人生的轉折點 …！
4. 遇到曾經愛過的人… 記得微笑向他感激…
因為他是讓你更懂愛的人 …！
5. 遇到曾經恨過的人時… 要微笑向他打招呼 …
因為他讓你更加堅強 …！
6. 遇到曾經背叛你的人時… 要跟他好好聊一聊 …
因為若不是他 ……今天你不會懂這世界 … ！
7. 遇到曾經偷偷喜歡的人時… 要祝他幸福唷 …！
因為你喜歡他時 …不是希望他幸福快樂嗎？
8. 遇到匆匆離開你人生的人時… 要謝謝他走過你的人生 …
因為他是你精采回憶的一部分 …！
9. 遇到曾經和你有誤會的人時… 要趁現在解清誤會 …
因為你可能只有這一次機會解釋清楚 …！
10. 遇到現在和相伴一生的人… 要百分百感謝他愛你 …
因為你們現在都得到幸福和真愛 …
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
6110 "hospital" bill
last week while half way through class, my phone just shut off, and went sot... and refuse to start-up after tat... then just now send to nokia direct shop to service....
masuk "hospital" at 4 something, then the guy said wil check it and see what prob... then 6 something before i came home, coz went to MPH to lepak awhile see see books lo...(for my assignments la, see can get any idea or nt) then i just pop by to see how things is progressing, and he said it is done, can "discharge" liao... so happy...
they upgraded the firmware to 5.11 from 4.x... and this "hospital" bill made me poorer by rm50... :'(
anyway, while in the shop, just had a look at those phone around me... falled in love with the E71... hahaha.... any1 wanna buy it for me....
saw the N96 also... dun so like, stil prefer N95 lo... but if got people giv, i wil also use la... coz its suppose to be better than N95...
masuk "hospital" at 4 something, then the guy said wil check it and see what prob... then 6 something before i came home, coz went to MPH to lepak awhile see see books lo...(for my assignments la, see can get any idea or nt) then i just pop by to see how things is progressing, and he said it is done, can "discharge" liao... so happy...
they upgraded the firmware to 5.11 from 4.x... and this "hospital" bill made me poorer by rm50... :'(
anyway, while in the shop, just had a look at those phone around me... falled in love with the E71... hahaha.... any1 wanna buy it for me....
saw the N96 also... dun so like, stil prefer N95 lo... but if got people giv, i wil also use la... coz its suppose to be better than N95...
Monday, October 13, 2008
情人眼里出西施，西施眼里出什么?
情人眼里出西施，
西施眼里出什么?
＂保持联线＂movie西施眼里出什么?
小女孩问妈妈？说给她双倍时间猜，但没给答案。。。
这个问题很有意思
人们常说：情人眼里出西施
if u like some1, no matter how u look at her, she is also beautiful.
even when she is digging her nose~
她在你的眼里就是跟西施一样美得无药可救
那么你肯定也想在她心理有某些地位！
会是什么呢！别说你很想知道 我也很想知道啊！
呵呵····我也不知道在她眼里我是什么！或许什么都不是 或许她也看我像西施~~人要乐观点
喜欢她就将这份爱在适当的时候以适当的方式表达出来！
有些人错过了 就一辈子也无法回头了！
其他答案
西门庆
情人啊 ，俩人互相看啊``
情人眼里出西施，西施眼里出眼屎！
西施眼里出“白马王子”
范蠡，勾践手下大将，是他将西施带给勾践护送她吴国的，吴国灭国后，他带西施隐居，改名被人们称为陶朱公，创立诸子百家中的商家，就是我们现在拜的财神爷
色不迷人人自迷
情人眼裏出西施
多情自古空余恨
好梦由来最易醒
此情可待成追忆
i got this answer from varies sources...
Sunday, October 12, 2008
quiz box.com
Your view on yourself:
Other people find you very interesting, but you are really hiding your true self. Your friends love you because you are a good listener. They'll probably still love you if you learn to be yourself with them.
i'm just more to the quiet side thats alll... when i "mix" together, u wil just wonder when i wil even shut up again... =p
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.i dun see people by their looks.. those pretty r normally not wat i want...
if i' attractive then why am i stil single then? coz nobody dare to be with me ma~~~
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.i just jump right into a relationship, but when i decide to do so, it will be very fast...
The seriousness of your love:
You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.well siad i guess.. but i dun mind trying out with people tat loves me... who noes i might love them more than they love me in the near future... hehe...
Your views on education
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.just try my best ba...
The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.GOAL: earn the most money in the shortest time... don't every1 wants tat.. other than those "elite" people...
How do you view success:
You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.how to measure success???
What are you most afraid of:
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.LOL~~ image building is important, and i'm who i'm... not who i wanna be... coz i believe every1 is unique..
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.matured? dare not say lo...
i can giv advice if asked to, but i seek advice from people also... infact consistantly...
hit on target again----> my heart
Friday, October 10, 2008
ur mum is always wiser
turning the time back to late 2005, early 2006
tat time, i just finish my SPM and hunting for Uni/college... all over the place, including Singapore and Australia.
so along the many conversation tat v had... i said i thought of going to Singapore SIM/MDIS, or other uni college in Singapore. of course i had been dying to go to australia for my tertiary education la.... and one of the line tat i remember clearly til today is "if i send u go Singapore, i might as well send u directly to australia, coz both the exchange rate is almost the same(tat time was 2.2/2.3 vs 2.65) not very huge different unlike aus and UK or even euro where it was 4+), just that australia is an additional air ticket there, which i need to fork out twice a year(return).
after 2 year and 7 mths in KL, i am still here... and the exchange rate has been running... the gap of exchange rate between singapore dollar and australian dollar are much closer, and singapore dollar is now higher than australian dollar... therefore, if i had gone to singapore to study,it might have cost more than what i thought... (pissss, my aunt in singapore had asked me to stay with her, if i studied there, and i think i would have grad by now, coz dip ma...)
tat time, i just finish my SPM and hunting for Uni/college... all over the place, including Singapore and Australia.
so along the many conversation tat v had... i said i thought of going to Singapore SIM/MDIS, or other uni college in Singapore. of course i had been dying to go to australia for my tertiary education la.... and one of the line tat i remember clearly til today is "if i send u go Singapore, i might as well send u directly to australia, coz both the exchange rate is almost the same(tat time was 2.2/2.3 vs 2.65) not very huge different unlike aus and UK or even euro where it was 4+), just that australia is an additional air ticket there, which i need to fork out twice a year(return).
after 2 year and 7 mths in KL, i am still here... and the exchange rate has been running... the gap of exchange rate between singapore dollar and australian dollar are much closer, and singapore dollar is now higher than australian dollar... therefore, if i had gone to singapore to study,it might have cost more than what i thought... (pissss, my aunt in singapore had asked me to stay with her, if i studied there, and i think i would have grad by now, coz dip ma...)
Thursday, October 09, 2008
6 hours of non stop singing
today went singing with a group of frens from an online forum....
we started our session from 3pm all the way til 9pm....
started out with 8 of us, and later 3 more join us after their work.
i think v sang at least 100 songs, the list of songs on waiting list was always full til the very last song...
just to list them:
-ME
-77
-77 sister
-softbear
-xiao nv sheng~michelle
-jason
-jken
-mei meng
-tiramisu
-tulip
-justin
i noe some of u have sing even longer, but this is the longest i ever sang outside my own house, and in the same small room...
we started our session from 3pm all the way til 9pm....
started out with 8 of us, and later 3 more join us after their work.
i think v sang at least 100 songs, the list of songs on waiting list was always full til the very last song...
just to list them:
-ME
-77
-77 sister
-softbear
-xiao nv sheng~michelle
-jason
-jken
-mei meng
-tiramisu
-tulip
-justin
i noe some of u have sing even longer, but this is the longest i ever sang outside my own house, and in the same small room...
Monday, October 06, 2008
its been quite sometime since i last updated my blog..
i feel tat 2day like i nt so "lucky" lo.. my sore throat started last wed, til now stil haven't got better, in fact it became worst, my throat is just so pain.... pain til i very lazy want to talk... and morning coz pain, so i just pop a penadol before class, and i felt so sleepy after tat..
in the afternoon, my phone suddenly broke down, and it really can't even start-up... the screen just say start-up failed... just feel like crying man... worst of it is all my calender entry is inside... i hope i dun miss anything la...
and at the night market(pasar malam), i was Q-in up to buy something, and when i turn, i saw my last ex, at a store nearby... i dun think she saw me, but it was definately her, coz i won't mistaken her for some1 else... and some more the person is a close fren of hers, so i lagi sure its her... i didn't call her, nor sms her... she dun even need to noe gua... she got the freedom to go, i also can go my own way then... i dun think she wan me in her life also ma...
i think tats my day til now... hope my throat will feel better after this....
*i have quiz whoch carry no marks 2moro, and haven't seen much of it yet..
i feel tat 2day like i nt so "lucky" lo.. my sore throat started last wed, til now stil haven't got better, in fact it became worst, my throat is just so pain.... pain til i very lazy want to talk... and morning coz pain, so i just pop a penadol before class, and i felt so sleepy after tat..
in the afternoon, my phone suddenly broke down, and it really can't even start-up... the screen just say start-up failed... just feel like crying man... worst of it is all my calender entry is inside... i hope i dun miss anything la...
and at the night market(pasar malam), i was Q-in up to buy something, and when i turn, i saw my last ex, at a store nearby... i dun think she saw me, but it was definately her, coz i won't mistaken her for some1 else... and some more the person is a close fren of hers, so i lagi sure its her... i didn't call her, nor sms her... she dun even need to noe gua... she got the freedom to go, i also can go my own way then... i dun think she wan me in her life also ma...
i think tats my day til now... hope my throat will feel better after this....
*i have quiz whoch carry no marks 2moro, and haven't seen much of it yet..
Friday, September 26, 2008
Bar code numbering
Did u know tat a bar code can tell u where a product is from?
i saw this somewhere, and it say that a bar code other than for stocking checking and controlling, pricing, it also can tell u where the product was produce.
the front few numbers represent the country where the product was produce.
for example: if produce in Singapore it starts with 888; malaysia is 955; main land china is 690-692; America and Canada is 00-13. and the list goes on... u can have a look HERE. the list and site is in Chinese wordings.
A malaysia bar code:
i saw this somewhere, and it say that a bar code other than for stocking checking and controlling, pricing, it also can tell u where the product was produce.
the front few numbers represent the country where the product was produce.
for example: if produce in Singapore it starts with 888; malaysia is 955; main land china is 690-692; America and Canada is 00-13. and the list goes on... u can have a look HERE. the list and site is in Chinese wordings.
A malaysia bar code:
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Free condoms
met up with my fren from INTI for lunch at Asia Cafe just now....
first time i go asia cafe for lunch... and it was so so so damn pack with students from those uni college...
anyway, saw the Gossip08 booth over there, and also one of their partner, Durex..
over lunch, my fren said she saw this dress which was made out of condoms... and YA.. it looks pretty nice, and should be nice to wear, since its cooling, and should be comfortable, since u won't use something tat is not comfortable when u do eham eham... LOL
after lunch, just went and have a look, not like i haven't seen it b4 la... and yeah, they was givin out things as welll, including CONDOMS... they was the red colour durex, in a big bowl right in the middle of the table... well, i DIDN'T take any OK....
1. coz my fren, a girl was with me...
2. i DUN use it yet la...
3. since i dun use it yet, and it has expiry, so why not let those who use it take more of it =p
ok ok, i just took some of the things, which was paper product, and technically, the person gave it to me... my fren didn't take any, maybe coz she shy gua....
o ya... the condoms was individually packed, like those of what the girls use monthly samples....
first time i go asia cafe for lunch... and it was so so so damn pack with students from those uni college...
anyway, saw the Gossip08 booth over there, and also one of their partner, Durex..
over lunch, my fren said she saw this dress which was made out of condoms... and YA.. it looks pretty nice, and should be nice to wear, since its cooling, and should be comfortable, since u won't use something tat is not comfortable when u do eham eham... LOL
after lunch, just went and have a look, not like i haven't seen it b4 la... and yeah, they was givin out things as welll, including CONDOMS... they was the red colour durex, in a big bowl right in the middle of the table... well, i DIDN'T take any OK....
1. coz my fren, a girl was with me...
2. i DUN use it yet la...
3. since i dun use it yet, and it has expiry, so why not let those who use it take more of it =p
ok ok, i just took some of the things, which was paper product, and technically, the person gave it to me... my fren didn't take any, maybe coz she shy gua....
o ya... the condoms was individually packed, like those of what the girls use monthly samples....
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Piss off by people
2day dun seems 2 be my day.. first, i wanted to meet my fren for lunch, and just told her yesterday... and when i sms her 2day at 11.30am, there was no reply,(tat was the time v had plan 2 meet)... then i called her 10/15 minutes later thinking tat maybe just now her class is nt over yet... bt then it went un-answered a few times... then she called back, and ask me whats up.. then i said lunch, and she said already eating, and had completely forgotten bout what i told her yesterday... and she just put down the phone after i asked her where she was and that i wil just go over to where she is.. and she said JOM makan... then i was kinda angry d, coz waited and she nv respond at all...reach there, there was nobody insight...and called her again... went un-answered, then call again, and she said she was inside, but was the other side... JOM makan is on the right while she was in the other place on the left,and the food court is pack with people... then saw her, and she said got no place for u... (more like "u r not welcome here", "i dun wan intro my fren 2 u... =p"
so i just said, dun wan eat liao... and walked off. they was already finishing their food, and there was like no place for me to sit, so i dun wan "table crash" lo.... her fren did offer to pull a chair for me... O ya... i so flaming coz she didn't even say sorry or anything... like nothing happen...
after tat, went to the bank to get money to pay for my fees... then went to pay the money, the lady at the counter was like, "wait a~~~ not enough people working.." and i waited there for a good 3-5 minutes if its nt more than tat..... the good thing is at least she acknowledge tat i'm there la... wan pay them money also need wait so long....
after those things, i met my frens who was doing their discussion around there, then they ask me join them sit lo, since i was alone, so go tapao McD and sit there eat, while they discuss... til my next class at 2pm...
i think when u dun pay so much attention to a single person, maybe GOD will let u meet those people whom u haven't seen for quite sometime...
saw people whom i haven't met for quite awhile including, Hor Ying(whom i met on a bus last time, and didn't seen her after tat few times), Jing Yan(my ex housemate), Melissa(from HELP CG), and my bunch of frens from Foundation(Jas, KM, PL, Gorgan, EW, Sarah+++++) i think tats all ba...
so i just said, dun wan eat liao... and walked off. they was already finishing their food, and there was like no place for me to sit, so i dun wan "table crash" lo.... her fren did offer to pull a chair for me... O ya... i so flaming coz she didn't even say sorry or anything... like nothing happen...
after tat, went to the bank to get money to pay for my fees... then went to pay the money, the lady at the counter was like, "wait a~~~ not enough people working.." and i waited there for a good 3-5 minutes if its nt more than tat..... the good thing is at least she acknowledge tat i'm there la... wan pay them money also need wait so long....
after those things, i met my frens who was doing their discussion around there, then they ask me join them sit lo, since i was alone, so go tapao McD and sit there eat, while they discuss... til my next class at 2pm...
i think when u dun pay so much attention to a single person, maybe GOD will let u meet those people whom u haven't seen for quite sometime...
saw people whom i haven't met for quite awhile including, Hor Ying(whom i met on a bus last time, and didn't seen her after tat few times), Jing Yan(my ex housemate), Melissa(from HELP CG), and my bunch of frens from Foundation(Jas, KM, PL, Gorgan, EW, Sarah+++++) i think tats all ba...
Sunday, September 21, 2008
Need you? Love you?
i love you, because i need u;
i need you, because i love u.
i need you, because i love u.
which is it?
and wat each mean to you?
* i noe many blogger also have post similar post on their own blogs... i just happen to see it somewhere else,other than on blogs...
Friday, September 19, 2008
How did OK came along?
do u noe how the O.K came along 2 be use in our everyday life when we agree on certain things, or have no problem in it.
just now i heard on radio that OK came along to be use in our everyday life from battles... in ancient times, after a war, when their is no casuaties or any of their people killed, they will leave a board with 0(zero) Killed... and after awhile it became OK, like what we use everyday...
do u guys or gals heard of any other stories from how it came along to be used today?
just now i heard on radio that OK came along to be use in our everyday life from battles... in ancient times, after a war, when their is no casuaties or any of their people killed, they will leave a board with 0(zero) Killed... and after awhile it became OK, like what we use everyday...
do u guys or gals heard of any other stories from how it came along to be used today?
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
new pick up line for girls
Just now after class, decided to drop by at the library before heading home since exiting also sure long Q.... so i manage 2 find an empty computer near to some reading table... then after i log on to Facebook... suddenly someone tap me from behind, and said loudly :"u also got play facebook o~~~"
then shocking i turn around, and saw a girl.... (lately coz i in new classes, so meet many new people and new faces, and haven't been able to match the face to the class yet, unless i talk 2 them few times...)
and this girl is an unfamiliar face leh... so i look like 0.0
then she was like so shy that i could see her face turn red.... and looking to her side, seeing her frens sitting at the study table there.... so blur, coz she actually got the wrong person...
then her frens(2 guys), just keep teasing her, "so desperate to look for new fren 0...", "wan noe people then just go talk 2 him la" blah blah blah...
and she got so embarrass that she she went away, and never came bc... maybe too shy liao.. wait i leave then only she wil walk back ba...
after she walked away, one of them said, "after all she is stil a girl la" sure will shy wan...
all this while, all of us was just laughing non stop... of course, i was laughing facing the computer screen la....
btw, the guy and me had different hair colour, wearing different colour of t-shirt some more... and he was just sitting at the desk behind me(my back is facing his side)...
moral of this story is
always look at the surrounding and see if ur fren is stil there or nt...
make sure its ur fren before calling, when in doubt, do take a peek first...
then shocking i turn around, and saw a girl.... (lately coz i in new classes, so meet many new people and new faces, and haven't been able to match the face to the class yet, unless i talk 2 them few times...)
and this girl is an unfamiliar face leh... so i look like 0.0
then she was like so shy that i could see her face turn red.... and looking to her side, seeing her frens sitting at the study table there.... so blur, coz she actually got the wrong person...
then her frens(2 guys), just keep teasing her, "so desperate to look for new fren 0...", "wan noe people then just go talk 2 him la" blah blah blah...
and she got so embarrass that she she went away, and never came bc... maybe too shy liao.. wait i leave then only she wil walk back ba...
after she walked away, one of them said, "after all she is stil a girl la" sure will shy wan...
all this while, all of us was just laughing non stop... of course, i was laughing facing the computer screen la....
btw, the guy and me had different hair colour, wearing different colour of t-shirt some more... and he was just sitting at the desk behind me(my back is facing his side)...
moral of this story is
always look at the surrounding and see if ur fren is stil there or nt...
make sure its ur fren before calling, when in doubt, do take a peek first...
Friday, September 12, 2008
New hair cut + colour
Daring colour of my hair... dun get a shock OK... i didn't do rainbow colours la...
well, went to Cut my hair, + decided to give it a new colour... want a new look gua...
anyway, after cut and washing, first time got 2 hair dryer blowing my hair together, 1 on the left, 1 on the right... maybe not many customer, so 2 person can dry my hair together lo... after that, i only saw another girl which has slightly longer than shoulder length hair, had her hair blown dry by 2 person also... cutting out other things, had the colour that i choose, i think is medium copper something... but its not copper red like the last time.... coz i see their copper red, like very red o... if nt i might look like chilli padi... =p
then the hair was under heater, i think tats why its called, coz it was so hot... after that wash it off and applied treatment... then my head was steamed... like in the microwave... haha....
in total, i had my hair washed 3 times... tats alot within 2 hours...
BEFORE:
AFTER:
what u all think?
well, went to Cut my hair, + decided to give it a new colour... want a new look gua...
anyway, after cut and washing, first time got 2 hair dryer blowing my hair together, 1 on the left, 1 on the right... maybe not many customer, so 2 person can dry my hair together lo... after that, i only saw another girl which has slightly longer than shoulder length hair, had her hair blown dry by 2 person also... cutting out other things, had the colour that i choose, i think is medium copper something... but its not copper red like the last time.... coz i see their copper red, like very red o... if nt i might look like chilli padi... =p
then the hair was under heater, i think tats why its called, coz it was so hot... after that wash it off and applied treatment... then my head was steamed... like in the microwave... haha....
in total, i had my hair washed 3 times... tats alot within 2 hours...
AFTER:
what u all think?
Thursday, September 11, 2008
why did the chicken cross the road?
Plato:
For the greater good.
Karl Marx:
It was a historical inevitability.
Hippocrates:
Because of an excess of light pink gooey stuff in its pancreas.
Jacques Derrida:
Any number of contending discourses may be discovered within the act of the chicken crossing the road, and each interpretation is equally valid as the authorial intent can never be discerned, because structuralism is DEAD, DAMMIT, DEAD!
Thomas de Torquemada:
Give me ten minutes with the chicken and I'll find out.
Timothy Leary:
Because that's the only kind of trip the Establishment would let it take.
Carl Jung:
The confluence of events in the cultural gestalt necessitated that individual chickens cross roads at this historical juncture, and therefore synchronicitously brought such occurrences into being.
Jean-Paul Sartre:
In order to act in good faith and be true to itself, the chicken found it necessary to cross the road.
Albert Einstein: Whether the chicken crossed the road or the road crossed the chicken depends upon your frame of reference.
Aristotle:
To actualize its potential.
Buddha:
If you ask this question, you deny your own chicken- nature.
Emily Dickinson:
Because it could not stop for death.
Epicurus:
For fun.
Ralph Waldo Emerson:
It didn't cross the road; it transcended it.
Johann von Goethe:
The eternal hen-principle made it do it.
Ernest Hemingway:
To die. In the rain.
Werner Heisenberg:
We are not sure which side of the road the chicken was on, but it was moving very fast.
David Hume:
Out of custom and habit.
Jack Nicholson:
'Cause it (censored) wanted to. That's the (censored) reason.
Pyrrho the Skeptic:
What road?
Ronald Reagan:
I forget.
The Sphinx:
You tell me.
Mr. T:
If you saw me coming you'd cross the road too!
Henry David Thoreau:
To live deliberately ... and suck all the marrow out of life.
Mark Twain:
The news of its crossing has been greatly exaggerated.
Molly Yard:
It was a hen!
Zeno of Elea:
To prove it could never reach the other side.
Macbeth:
To have turned back were as tedious as to go o'er.
Constable:
To get a better view.
(from philosophy.eserver.org/chicken.txt)
BaDaWy: coz it want to go home and sleep
Ah Mat Is Ma L: coz its a squatter... going back to its own place
Na jeep: coz i going to bomb it with my C4
Ma Ha Tail: chicken mudah lupa
Ling gam: it looks like a chicken, sounds like a chicken, but i not sure if its a chicken
An Wah: because it wants to cross over
What other people would say, or wat would u say?
do feel free to leave ur views...
For the greater good.
Karl Marx:
It was a historical inevitability.
Hippocrates:
Because of an excess of light pink gooey stuff in its pancreas.
Jacques Derrida:
Any number of contending discourses may be discovered within the act of the chicken crossing the road, and each interpretation is equally valid as the authorial intent can never be discerned, because structuralism is DEAD, DAMMIT, DEAD!
Thomas de Torquemada:
Give me ten minutes with the chicken and I'll find out.
Timothy Leary:
Because that's the only kind of trip the Establishment would let it take.
Carl Jung:
The confluence of events in the cultural gestalt necessitated that individual chickens cross roads at this historical juncture, and therefore synchronicitously brought such occurrences into being.
Jean-Paul Sartre:
In order to act in good faith and be true to itself, the chicken found it necessary to cross the road.
Albert Einstein: Whether the chicken crossed the road or the road crossed the chicken depends upon your frame of reference.
Aristotle:
To actualize its potential.
Buddha:
If you ask this question, you deny your own chicken- nature.
Emily Dickinson:
Because it could not stop for death.
Epicurus:
For fun.
Ralph Waldo Emerson:
It didn't cross the road; it transcended it.
Johann von Goethe:
The eternal hen-principle made it do it.
Ernest Hemingway:
To die. In the rain.
Werner Heisenberg:
We are not sure which side of the road the chicken was on, but it was moving very fast.
David Hume:
Out of custom and habit.
Jack Nicholson:
'Cause it (censored) wanted to. That's the (censored) reason.
Pyrrho the Skeptic:
What road?
Ronald Reagan:
I forget.
The Sphinx:
You tell me.
Mr. T:
If you saw me coming you'd cross the road too!
Henry David Thoreau:
To live deliberately ... and suck all the marrow out of life.
Mark Twain:
The news of its crossing has been greatly exaggerated.
Molly Yard:
It was a hen!
Zeno of Elea:
To prove it could never reach the other side.
Macbeth:
To have turned back were as tedious as to go o'er.
Constable:
To get a better view.
(from philosophy.eserver.org/chicken.txt)
BaDaWy: coz it want to go home and sleep
Ah Mat Is Ma L: coz its a squatter... going back to its own place
Na jeep: coz i going to bomb it with my C4
Ma Ha Tail: chicken mudah lupa
Ling gam: it looks like a chicken, sounds like a chicken, but i not sure if its a chicken
An Wah: because it wants to cross over
What other people would say, or wat would u say?
do feel free to leave ur views...
abandon yourself
如果人可以堕落到深渊，再由深渊爬上雲端，那他的人生也不算白活了，只是那個墮落之人，要有本事墮落，没本事墮落而墮落之人，只會害人害己。
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有時，一個人对你再好，你也不一定會爱她。
你反而會爱上那些对你不好的人。
你反而會爱上那些对你不好的人。
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
10 Sept post- Japanese
today in class we was asked to write down out grouping, and had to put the country... and the computer was connected to the projector, and everyone can see the groupings with names and country... and then there was this person, and has the country JAPAN...
so people started to ask each other who it was... and it happen 2 be a girl... LOL... but not those kind of girls that u r thinking la... i feel she look more like Chinese...
anyway, why when people see a person who is from JAPAN, their eyes will go big big, like never seen a Japanese b4, especially if its a girl...
Those happen during my last class for the day... 2pm til almost 4pm 's class...
anyway, during lunch time:
Meet my former classmates from foundation, miss km, jas, ee wei, sarah & gang outside wisma, as i was going some place where my fren is already there for lunch... they was wearing something that they never wear b4... a mixture of Lala, with those super high stockings. skirts, high heels(coz my this fren nv wear this 2, very very rarely seldom). it is really very seldom they will wear like tat... i thought the world had change all of a sudden, so slowly, coz its been awhile since i last saw them... i went to different course after Foundation, while ended in April 2007. they said they decided to wear something "out-standing" and different from their normal things today...
as i was crossing the road, i then saw another 2 frens from foundation as well crossing the road... so i chit chat and walk with them, since v was heading to the same place... then another 3 person from my previous course, walked in the opposite direction, then they said i talking to girl dun wan choi them o... so i stop and talk awhile with them lo... then after my lunch, met another fren tat i seldom meet in college...
What a fruitful day... met so many people from my previous classes...
so people started to ask each other who it was... and it happen 2 be a girl... LOL... but not those kind of girls that u r thinking la... i feel she look more like Chinese...
anyway, why when people see a person who is from JAPAN, their eyes will go big big, like never seen a Japanese b4, especially if its a girl...
Those happen during my last class for the day... 2pm til almost 4pm 's class...
anyway, during lunch time:
Meet my former classmates from foundation, miss km, jas, ee wei, sarah & gang outside wisma, as i was going some place where my fren is already there for lunch... they was wearing something that they never wear b4... a mixture of Lala, with those super high stockings. skirts, high heels(coz my this fren nv wear this 2, very very rarely seldom). it is really very seldom they will wear like tat... i thought the world had change all of a sudden, so slowly, coz its been awhile since i last saw them... i went to different course after Foundation, while ended in April 2007. they said they decided to wear something "out-standing" and different from their normal things today...
as i was crossing the road, i then saw another 2 frens from foundation as well crossing the road... so i chit chat and walk with them, since v was heading to the same place... then another 3 person from my previous course, walked in the opposite direction, then they said i talking to girl dun wan choi them o... so i stop and talk awhile with them lo... then after my lunch, met another fren tat i seldom meet in college...
What a fruitful day... met so many people from my previous classes...
Tuesday, September 09, 2008
money no enough 2
i feel this is a must watch for all... there was all kind of emotions contain in a single movie...
i will just write wat ever comes into my mind in no order follow the movie... there was laughters, followed by tears, and sadness...
starting with how people say that Singapore will sure not be able to make it, wat more prospere...
then they complaint of all the ERP along the roads... (every successful man, must really have a woman with him, its true)
i feel that a mothers love is the greatest of all, nothing can beat it... and that in times of desperation, we can do anything, and will do anything to save the person v love most, including giving up our life. then thinking of yan yan who did whatever she can to help her husband... (woman's r nt busybody, they just wan to help out whatever they can, and always have the best interest for us..) after coming out of the movie, my fren said, when i become an accountant, would i be like yan yan or not. commit CBT... or be tempted by money that is offered to me to do up the accounts that is untrue. hoping that all those studying accounting and auditing around me, dun do that, and be strong.. do wat is right only...
remember the old lady, my house got some1 like the old mother in the movie... repeat everything over and over.. and keep forgetting things... would v be like them in the movie, or will v just throw them aside... will v be able to care for them?
and remember, family always comes first, especially those who are the closest to us, our sons or daughters, then our parents maybe, depending on how u put it...
it shows from how they started out, then made it big, invested so much on it, and lost everything... my fren was saying, is they lost everything in the movie, how sad it would be... and truely, Jack Neo really maid it so...
i really can't bear to see the scene where they move her here and there... and let her sleep outside/inside the toilet... will i clear up the "mess" that they made, by peeing on the bed... how would i react to it after that... really make people think a lot..
I love the songs inside the movie... if anyone has it, do pass them to me... thanks... just leave a comment or someway, and i wil contact u.. thanks a lot in advance...
i will just write wat ever comes into my mind in no order follow the movie... there was laughters, followed by tears, and sadness...
starting with how people say that Singapore will sure not be able to make it, wat more prospere...
then they complaint of all the ERP along the roads... (every successful man, must really have a woman with him, its true)
i feel that a mothers love is the greatest of all, nothing can beat it... and that in times of desperation, we can do anything, and will do anything to save the person v love most, including giving up our life. then thinking of yan yan who did whatever she can to help her husband... (woman's r nt busybody, they just wan to help out whatever they can, and always have the best interest for us..) after coming out of the movie, my fren said, when i become an accountant, would i be like yan yan or not. commit CBT... or be tempted by money that is offered to me to do up the accounts that is untrue. hoping that all those studying accounting and auditing around me, dun do that, and be strong.. do wat is right only...
remember the old lady, my house got some1 like the old mother in the movie... repeat everything over and over.. and keep forgetting things... would v be like them in the movie, or will v just throw them aside... will v be able to care for them?
and remember, family always comes first, especially those who are the closest to us, our sons or daughters, then our parents maybe, depending on how u put it...
it shows from how they started out, then made it big, invested so much on it, and lost everything... my fren was saying, is they lost everything in the movie, how sad it would be... and truely, Jack Neo really maid it so...
i really can't bear to see the scene where they move her here and there... and let her sleep outside/inside the toilet... will i clear up the "mess" that they made, by peeing on the bed... how would i react to it after that... really make people think a lot..
I love the songs inside the movie... if anyone has it, do pass them to me... thanks... just leave a comment or someway, and i wil contact u.. thanks a lot in advance...
Monday, September 08, 2008
NO Exams~~~~
good news for this semester is NONE of my paper have any FINALs.. haha... finally o... see how this will go la...
all the subjects are 1 Individual work, and a group work+presentation...
bad thing is, i must be in good groups, with people who knows wat 2 do lo... and make sure that nobody screws or fuc*ed the work.... which mean that i must choose people carefully ba... pay more attention to the assignments and make sure it pass "QC"lo... i'm having 3 classes, with 3 different group of people ba... which mean that i would be doing assignment with 3 different group of people... which has its pros and cons lo....
all the subjects are 1 Individual work, and a group work+presentation...
bad thing is, i must be in good groups, with people who knows wat 2 do lo... and make sure that nobody screws or fuc*ed the work.... which mean that i must choose people carefully ba... pay more attention to the assignments and make sure it pass "QC"lo... i'm having 3 classes, with 3 different group of people ba... which mean that i would be doing assignment with 3 different group of people... which has its pros and cons lo....
Saturday, September 06, 2008
愛的宣言 Love declaration
Love is patient, Love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast,
It is not proud, it is not rude.
It is not self seeking, it is not easily angered.
It keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trust,
always hopes, always preserves.
It does not envy, it does not boast,
It is not proud, it is not rude.
It is not self seeking, it is not easily angered.
It keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trust,
always hopes, always preserves.
Friday, September 05, 2008
Thursday, September 04, 2008
i am going to somewhere far far away
each and every family have its own problems... since march 08, i have lost my own private space, where i can have my own private uninterrupted silence, peace, quiet, MY own piece of heaven...
My own heaven where i can try to get away from the frustrating, trouble-always, worries and more worries, world... i was force to give this all up, and let another person come into it...
like in every beginning, the promise was sweet, and said that is would only be short and temporary, and very soon, u will have ur own private space back... but currently, it has not made any progress... and it is dragging on, like nothing happen before this...
How can i stil have my own private, peaceful space, where i can hide my own secrets in... (everybody has their own deep secrets that they wants nobody to noe... don't u say u have non of those!)
can i stil have that kind of spaces, now that some1 has come into it, and sharing the same amount of space? i need some private space & moments, and some privacy of my own, before i chock to death in no time...
the next best thing to do is to get away from all the worries and trouble, to a place far far away, where life there is care-free and i need not depend on anyone... nobody keeps bothering me, and having to give in to people always...
My own heaven where i can try to get away from the frustrating, trouble-always, worries and more worries, world... i was force to give this all up, and let another person come into it...
like in every beginning, the promise was sweet, and said that is would only be short and temporary, and very soon, u will have ur own private space back... but currently, it has not made any progress... and it is dragging on, like nothing happen before this...
How can i stil have my own private, peaceful space, where i can hide my own secrets in... (everybody has their own deep secrets that they wants nobody to noe... don't u say u have non of those!)
can i stil have that kind of spaces, now that some1 has come into it, and sharing the same amount of space? i need some private space & moments, and some privacy of my own, before i chock to death in no time...
the next best thing to do is to get away from all the worries and trouble, to a place far far away, where life there is care-free and i need not depend on anyone... nobody keeps bothering me, and having to give in to people always...
Monday, September 01, 2008
Ice Skating- 1 Sept 2008
i reach there about 10, coz v had said to gather bout 10am in front of the ticketing booth. but all but only a few was on time.... waited for awhile, then decided to go in first... so skate from 10.50am-4pm, with 12 and 2pm closed to polish the ice. i manage 2 skate on freshly polish ice, coz i was standing near the door.. it is just so smooth, and non watery... very nice to skate, and slide...
this is the best and of course the longest i ever skated... i fell ONCE, yes only 1 time la... its pain OK... fell, and slide on the ice, which was watery and almost forming a pool of water...
a girl crash into me, while i was stading at the side(inside) of the rink. she hold on to me, then a fren( Viva_[something]) ask me go hug her, then she can be more stable ma... ^.^lll
of course i didn't la... me shy shy :rf: and later i crash into a girl who was skating beside me. she tried to pass from the left to the right(i was on the right side of her), and i knock her and lost my balance, she then just stopped and keep apolagising to me, when she was not to be blamed.
this is the best and of course the longest i ever skated... i fell ONCE, yes only 1 time la... its pain OK... fell, and slide on the ice, which was watery and almost forming a pool of water...
a girl crash into me, while i was stading at the side(inside) of the rink. she hold on to me, then a fren( Viva_[something]) ask me go hug her, then she can be more stable ma... ^.^lll
of course i didn't la... me shy shy :rf: and later i crash into a girl who was skating beside me. she tried to pass from the left to the right(i was on the right side of her), and i knock her and lost my balance, she then just stopped and keep apolagising to me, when she was not to be blamed.
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Penis Not long enough
A female secretary was helping her boss set his email and asked him what word he would like to use as his password.
Wanting to embarass her, the boss said "Penis".
She entered the password as per his instructions and almost died laughing at the computer's prompt.
PASSWORD REJECTED, "PENIS" NOT LONG ENOUGH!
Wanting to embarass her, the boss said "Penis".
She entered the password as per his instructions and almost died laughing at the computer's prompt.
PASSWORD REJECTED, "PENIS" NOT LONG ENOUGH!
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
Test drive new Honda Jazz
Today while I was on my way back from town, I decided to drop by at YM motors to try out the New Jazz... the test drive is the best for now, much better than the other time when I went with my fren to H******, and the worst I has was at P**t**.
After looking at the display model, and trying out the new things, I decided to ask if the test drive car is available, and saw that is was just park outside, so I and the SA hop into the new Blue color Jazz, JEJ 2. It is the V spec car with the rm3000 optional accessory, except the fog lamp. Starting the car, I notice that the engine noise can hardly be heard, and the cabin is very spacious.
Changing the gear into D… off the car goes with me steering it. The turning was pretty easy when the turning circle for it was only 4.9M.
Once on the road, I gently press the paddle and there is gone…. On the dashboard telling u all the normal information like your current speed, RPM, the fuel tank, engine temp, and additional to it is the digital meter telling u how far (km/L) that u can go while driving at this speed and the way u are driving now, and below it is another thing that tells u the average fuel usage (also in km/L) of the car.
With the control panel on the steering wheel, and the paddle shift just behind it, (spec V), it is very easy to control as your hands won’t have to leave it to change things anymore. The paddle shift comes into nice and good use while in S mode…
- on the left and + on the right that allows u to change gear like we are driving in Formula One. But just let the car gears be controlled like formula one car, and not its pattern of driving and its speed on
Pick up is powerful and its response is quick, as it is powered by SOHC 4 cylinder 16 Valve i-VTEC, 120PS at 6600rpm; 145 Nm at 4800rpm.
Sitting and driving at the driver seat gives u a good and wide view of the front and back. The pillar A (front) has been move forward by 122mm, to give a wider view of the surroundings and also more internal room.
Depend on the color that u want, in this case, I ask bout the blue, and the SA said should be able to be on the road in 1 month
The optional accessory that is priced at rm3000, is quite worth it as u get many more things like the fog lamp, that is said to cost bout rm700 if purchase separately.
If I was to buy it would be Spec V + Optional accessory (rm110k+ rm3K)
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Olympic Games
Sports minister was very worried and restless over winning a Gold medal at the Olympic and so he decided to call all the athletics for a meeting to discuss the plans and strategy of winning some gold medals at the next Olympic Games.
Minister: What are the events that u thinks our country can try and win some gold medals in?
Athletics: Badminton, Cycling, Shooting, Swimming, Boating, Hockey….
Minister: Those are the usual sports that we are still unable to get the gold medals. Is there any other sport that can be added to the games, and will sure get us the gold medals?
The minister was still looking worried…
Then someone said: I think maybe if we added something like riding a motor and snatching something, our country will sure win the gold medal, we might even do a clean sweep of it….
Minister: What are the events that u thinks our country can try and win some gold medals in?
Athletics: Badminton, Cycling, Shooting, Swimming, Boating, Hockey….
Minister: Those are the usual sports that we are still unable to get the gold medals. Is there any other sport that can be added to the games, and will sure get us the gold medals?
The minister was still looking worried…
Then someone said: I think maybe if we added something like riding a motor and snatching something, our country will sure win the gold medal, we might even do a clean sweep of it….
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Lin Dan is so Happy
Lin Dan is so happy after winning the Gold medal of the Olympic Games 2008 Men Single Badminton.... Notice his lower half body is showing so...
*not i purposely go see de.... just happen notice it, so share with all of u.... **hide face**
Why make man before woman
Have u ever wondered why God made man before making woman?
Well, maybe this short story will tell u why....
One day a little boy who has just gone to school, ask his dad:
『Daddy, why did GOD make man before making woman?』
『Maybe he didn't want to have a woman talking non stop beside his ears when he was making man, that's why he made man before making woman！』
Disclaimer: It is only suppose to be taken as a joke.
Well, maybe this short story will tell u why....
One day a little boy who has just gone to school, ask his dad:
『Daddy, why did GOD make man before making woman?』
『Maybe he didn't want to have a woman talking non stop beside his ears when he was making man, that's why he made man before making woman！』
Disclaimer: It is only suppose to be taken as a joke.
Friday, August 15, 2008
丢了翅膀，他仍是天使
当在外地出差的我坐飞机赶回来时，十个月的儿子新新已经被推出抢救室。医生说持续的高烧也许损伤了脑神经，我要有心理准备接受可能的后遗症。
老公两天后才从国外回来。出院后，我们常常测试新新的听力和视觉，没有发现任何异常。我们终于放下忐忑的心。可渐渐地，我发现他开始瞪着无神的眼睛发呆，或者呈现一种令我不安的笑容。当和新新一般大的孩子开始迈着步子，清脆地喊着爸爸妈妈的时候，新新依旧呆呆坐在那里，傻傻地笑着。抱着他四处求医，结论同出一辙：新新的智力将会停留在幼儿期，除非发生奇迹。
那是段痛不欲生的日子，抱着孩子寻找各种可能的奇迹，秘方、偏方，甚至针灸。那长长的针如同刺在我的心尖，汗和泪伴着孩子凄厉的哭声一起落下。我多么希望这只是一场梦，梦醒后充满灵气的新新在对我甜甜地笑。我开始幻听，总感觉新新在喊妈妈。
我深深自责为了事业没有照顾好儿子，却不敢留在家里面对。每天下班后沉默地搂着他，日复一日，泪流尽了，心也似乎麻木了。老公也因为家里气氛沉闷，渐渐变得很少回家吃饭。
婆婆来看我们，说把新新带走，让我们再要一个孩子。我不假思索断然拒绝，我不能那样做!他没有选择地来到这个世界，又因为我的疏忽变成这样，已经够不幸了!把新新紧紧搂在怀里，我不要别人分享对他的爱！
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新新两周岁生日那天，我才惊觉老公已经不再陪我们一起吃饭了，怕失去他的恐慌开始噬咬着我，使我觉得难以呼吸。直至深夜，一身酒气踉踉跄跄的老公才踏进家门，我已经荒芜的泪水终于又奔涌出来。老婆，我们再要一个孩子好吗?我狠狠点着头，与他紧紧相拥，抵死缠绵……
我又怀孕了！抚着逐渐隆起的小腹，有些苦涩的甜蜜。我仿佛比谁都期待这个孩子，却又在内心里抗拒这个孩子。看到新新向我伸来的手臂，我的心又涌起巨大的痛楚：新新，这个世界，除了妈妈谁还能爱你!
我终于下定决心打掉这个孩子，可检查结果使我震惊：我竟然怀了双胞胎！
2002年的夏天，一对漂亮的小女孩阳阳和月月降临了。满月以后，那对粉雕玉琢的小人，总是甜甜地笑，很少哭闹。只要我一说话，头就随着我的声音转，让我充分享受到做妈妈的喜悦。我已经顾不上新新，无论我多么约束自己，潜意识里我已经开始忽略新新，只把他交给保姆，甚至开始讨厌他那傻傻的样子。
转眼，阳阳和月月会走了。新新一般不注意什么，只是对这两个妹妹格外敏感，常常注视她们的一举一动，似乎带着极大的兴趣，而且不同于平时的眼神。我是不允许他接近她们的，他只能那样在一边望着，可我控制不住阳阳和月月蹒跚迈向新新的脚步，她们同样对新新表现出极大的兴趣。而我却舍不得强迫她们什么，只是一次又一次严厉地对新新说，记住，不许碰妹妹!不许碰妹妹！渐渐地，他对我有了怯意，我却丝毫没觉得有何不妥。
一天，孩子们在午睡，保姆出去买菜，我去储物间整理衣物。突然听到孩子的哭声，我连忙跑进卧室，看到新新正从床的栏杆间缝向外拉月月的两根手指，手指被卡住，新新还在用力向外拉。我一把拉过新新，照着他的手，狠狠拍打，不是告诉你不许碰妹妹，不许碰妹妹吗!看你以后还碰不碰妹妹!我越打越生气，似乎在发泄对他积累的厌恶。我疯了似的寻找可以用来打他的东西，直到看见镜子里自己魔鬼一样的脸。我终于听到孩子们的哭声，终于看到蜷缩一团哭泣的新新，还有女儿们的喊叫声……
保姆回来了，抱起新新，看着我余怒未消的脸想说什么，我摆摆手让她抱新新回自己的房间。我哄着阳阳和月月，突然看到床上有几块动物饼干，阳阳的手里还握着一块要喂我。我连忙到月月那边，果然月月那边床下有几块饼干，已经被我踩碎了。新新最喜欢吃动物饼干，原来他拉妹妹的手是要给妹妹饼干。我的心被刺痛了，连忙到他的房间，他已经被保姆哄睡了，可还在睡梦里抽搐着。我不禁泛起一阵酸楚，我这是怎么了?我还是他的妈妈吗'
一天，我和女儿们玩着拥抱的游戏。我拍拍手，她们就喊着妈妈，张着小胳膊争先恐后向我跑来，然后我们紧紧拥抱。这么简单的游戏，她们却乐此不疲，一遍又一遍。忽然，新新也张开他的胳膊，向我跑来，含糊地说着，妈妈，妈妈。我简直不相信自己的耳朵!我的儿子，自从来到这个世界，从没开过口!紧紧搂住扑到怀里的新新，我哭了。已经对他沉睡的母爱被重新唤起，儿子，妈妈有多久没搂过你，妈妈对不起你！
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我终于开始认真思考我的孩子们，我有一个与众不同的家庭，我竟然有三个孩子！他们正渐渐长大，将来要有他们自己的人生。等我离开这个世界时，只有他们之间才能互相照顾。尤其新新，他需要好多好多的爱。
我不再分隔他们，而是常常告诉女儿们，要好好爱哥哥，因为没有他，就没有她们。我知道她们听不懂，我只希望她们会记住我的话。
我每天陪三个孩子做游戏，唱歌，跳舞，为他们讲故事。而新新，越来越有灵气，不但会叫爸爸、妹妹了，还会含糊表达自己的需要，而且会随着节奏跳些简单的舞步。看着并成一排熟睡中的孩子们，我终于相信这个世界上有奇迹，那就是爱，爱可以创造一切！
阳阳和月月到了上幼儿园的年龄，我也该上班了。为了减少我的负担，婆婆来商量着把新新接走。我犹豫再三，其实按新新现在的情况，勉强可以上幼儿园，可他毕竟和别的孩子不一样，我害怕来自外界给他的伤害。
新新被带走的那个晚上，女儿们不肯上床睡觉，一定要等哥哥回来。她们闪着漂亮的大眼睛问我，哥哥什么时候回来?为什么哥哥不上幼儿园?我的心一凛，回答她们，哥哥生病了，要好长时间才会好。她们又问。他会想我们的，为什么我们不照顾他呢?快让哥哥回来，我们会照顾他的。我的心紧了又紧，你们要乖乖的，只要你们听话，哥哥就会回来。她们终于乖乖睡下，而我在黑夜里挂念着新新。儿子，你好吗？
女儿们只去了三天幼儿园，就说什么也不肯去了，告诉我幼儿园里有好多好玩的玩具，还有好多的小朋友，还学习新歌，认字，英语，她们要等哥哥回来一起去。她们充满期盼的眼睛望着我，还带有小小的挑衅。我讶于她们的执拗，耐着性子哄着她们，可她们却怎么也不肯答应。我沉下脸一手抱着一个，她们哇哇哭起来，妈妈骗人，说只要我们乖，哥哥就会回来，我们都听话了，可哥哥还是没有回来!
我的心猛地僵住了!压抑的眼泪再也控制不住，你们的哥哥，他和别人不一样，他永远学不会那些东西!女儿们为我擦着泪，会的，会的，妈妈，哥哥能学会的，我们会帮助他的!看着她们，我感到了做妈妈的歉疚，我只会一味逃避，以为自己很爱新新，却不如孩子们充满信心去面对。
门铃响，竟然是婆婆送新新回来了!几天不见，新新瘦了好多。婆婆无奈地说，这几天新新几乎没吃东西，也不肯睡觉，只一直哭，喊着妹妹，妹妹。她看了心里实在难受，不得已就送回来了。
女儿们兴奋起来，拉着新新的手，开始讲幼儿园的事情，还催促我为新新换最漂亮的衣服，他们要一起去幼儿园。
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我找到园长，请求她让我的孩子们在一起。因为按照新新的年龄应该上大班，可他的智力水平还不如小班的孩子。当看到我的女儿们一边一个拉着儿子的手，并挥手和我再见的时候。我相信这个决定是对的，爱会为我们创造更多的奇迹。
每天从幼儿园回来，阳阳和月月都帮助新新复习一天学过的东西，而且不许我插手。我的女儿们是班里最出色的孩子，学什么都特别快，而且记得牢。我知道那是因为她们要教哥哥，所以格外用心去学习。从没看过比她们还有耐心的孩子，轮流一遍又一遍教着笨拙的新新，一个单词往往要重复好多好多遍，甚至梦里还在喃喃。每次新新学会了，她们就会欢呼起来，然后学着幼儿园老师的样子翘起大拇指说，哥哥你好棒，哥哥你真棒！而我的儿子，就看着妹妹，傻傻憨憨地笑着。
老师要求每个孩子学习写自己的名字，这对新新来讲简直是不可能的事情。可一个月后的一天，女儿们兴奋地拉着儿子跑来告诉我，哥哥会写自己的名字了I我将信将疑地看着儿子在纸上歪歪扭扭地写下两个大大的"新"字，尤其敖看到他们练习的本子，我小小的女儿们，竟然知道把哥哥的名字拆成笔划来教，好几个本子写着他们循序渐进的过程，我再一次被女儿们的耐心折服得泪流满面。
一天，我去接他们。走到教室门口，听到有个孩子喊着，你们的哥哥是个傻孩子！我一惊，连忙走进去。我示意正要阻止的老师，决定让孩子们自己去面对。只见阳阳憋红了小脸对那个孩子说，我的哥哥不是傻孩子，他是天使，他丢了翅膀，来到我们家，变成一个世界上最好的哥哥，他只不过还没习惯人间的生活。孩子们发出"哇"的惊叹声，你们的哥哥竟然是天使哎！老师含着眼泪搂过阳阳，对孩子们说，新新是我们班的天使，他会爱我们每个小朋友，还教会我们如何去爱别人。回家的路上，我的心被女儿编织的故事激荡着。我问她们为什么那么爱哥哥，她们一起回答，因为没有哥哥就没有我们啊!忽地泪又盈满我的眼，原来她们已经牢牢记住了我的话，那么小，就学会了爱和感恩。他们是上天赐给彼此的天使，也是上天送给我最珍贵的礼物。因为他们，我才知道，做妈妈是那么值得骄傲和幸福！
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他沒有彩排﹐每一刻都是現場直播﹗
把握每一次的演出﹐便是最好的珍惜﹐活得精採
老公两天后才从国外回来。出院后，我们常常测试新新的听力和视觉，没有发现任何异常。我们终于放下忐忑的心。可渐渐地，我发现他开始瞪着无神的眼睛发呆，或者呈现一种令我不安的笑容。当和新新一般大的孩子开始迈着步子，清脆地喊着爸爸妈妈的时候，新新依旧呆呆坐在那里，傻傻地笑着。抱着他四处求医，结论同出一辙：新新的智力将会停留在幼儿期，除非发生奇迹。
那是段痛不欲生的日子，抱着孩子寻找各种可能的奇迹，秘方、偏方，甚至针灸。那长长的针如同刺在我的心尖，汗和泪伴着孩子凄厉的哭声一起落下。我多么希望这只是一场梦，梦醒后充满灵气的新新在对我甜甜地笑。我开始幻听，总感觉新新在喊妈妈。
我深深自责为了事业没有照顾好儿子，却不敢留在家里面对。每天下班后沉默地搂着他，日复一日，泪流尽了，心也似乎麻木了。老公也因为家里气氛沉闷，渐渐变得很少回家吃饭。
婆婆来看我们，说把新新带走，让我们再要一个孩子。我不假思索断然拒绝，我不能那样做!他没有选择地来到这个世界，又因为我的疏忽变成这样，已经够不幸了!把新新紧紧搂在怀里，我不要别人分享对他的爱！
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新新两周岁生日那天，我才惊觉老公已经不再陪我们一起吃饭了，怕失去他的恐慌开始噬咬着我，使我觉得难以呼吸。直至深夜，一身酒气踉踉跄跄的老公才踏进家门，我已经荒芜的泪水终于又奔涌出来。老婆，我们再要一个孩子好吗?我狠狠点着头，与他紧紧相拥，抵死缠绵……
我又怀孕了！抚着逐渐隆起的小腹，有些苦涩的甜蜜。我仿佛比谁都期待这个孩子，却又在内心里抗拒这个孩子。看到新新向我伸来的手臂，我的心又涌起巨大的痛楚：新新，这个世界，除了妈妈谁还能爱你!
我终于下定决心打掉这个孩子，可检查结果使我震惊：我竟然怀了双胞胎！
2002年的夏天，一对漂亮的小女孩阳阳和月月降临了。满月以后，那对粉雕玉琢的小人，总是甜甜地笑，很少哭闹。只要我一说话，头就随着我的声音转，让我充分享受到做妈妈的喜悦。我已经顾不上新新，无论我多么约束自己，潜意识里我已经开始忽略新新，只把他交给保姆，甚至开始讨厌他那傻傻的样子。
转眼，阳阳和月月会走了。新新一般不注意什么，只是对这两个妹妹格外敏感，常常注视她们的一举一动，似乎带着极大的兴趣，而且不同于平时的眼神。我是不允许他接近她们的，他只能那样在一边望着，可我控制不住阳阳和月月蹒跚迈向新新的脚步，她们同样对新新表现出极大的兴趣。而我却舍不得强迫她们什么，只是一次又一次严厉地对新新说，记住，不许碰妹妹!不许碰妹妹！渐渐地，他对我有了怯意，我却丝毫没觉得有何不妥。
一天，孩子们在午睡，保姆出去买菜，我去储物间整理衣物。突然听到孩子的哭声，我连忙跑进卧室，看到新新正从床的栏杆间缝向外拉月月的两根手指，手指被卡住，新新还在用力向外拉。我一把拉过新新，照着他的手，狠狠拍打，不是告诉你不许碰妹妹，不许碰妹妹吗!看你以后还碰不碰妹妹!我越打越生气，似乎在发泄对他积累的厌恶。我疯了似的寻找可以用来打他的东西，直到看见镜子里自己魔鬼一样的脸。我终于听到孩子们的哭声，终于看到蜷缩一团哭泣的新新，还有女儿们的喊叫声……
保姆回来了，抱起新新，看着我余怒未消的脸想说什么，我摆摆手让她抱新新回自己的房间。我哄着阳阳和月月，突然看到床上有几块动物饼干，阳阳的手里还握着一块要喂我。我连忙到月月那边，果然月月那边床下有几块饼干，已经被我踩碎了。新新最喜欢吃动物饼干，原来他拉妹妹的手是要给妹妹饼干。我的心被刺痛了，连忙到他的房间，他已经被保姆哄睡了，可还在睡梦里抽搐着。我不禁泛起一阵酸楚，我这是怎么了?我还是他的妈妈吗'
一天，我和女儿们玩着拥抱的游戏。我拍拍手，她们就喊着妈妈，张着小胳膊争先恐后向我跑来，然后我们紧紧拥抱。这么简单的游戏，她们却乐此不疲，一遍又一遍。忽然，新新也张开他的胳膊，向我跑来，含糊地说着，妈妈，妈妈。我简直不相信自己的耳朵!我的儿子，自从来到这个世界，从没开过口!紧紧搂住扑到怀里的新新，我哭了。已经对他沉睡的母爱被重新唤起，儿子，妈妈有多久没搂过你，妈妈对不起你！
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我终于开始认真思考我的孩子们，我有一个与众不同的家庭，我竟然有三个孩子！他们正渐渐长大，将来要有他们自己的人生。等我离开这个世界时，只有他们之间才能互相照顾。尤其新新，他需要好多好多的爱。
我不再分隔他们，而是常常告诉女儿们，要好好爱哥哥，因为没有他，就没有她们。我知道她们听不懂，我只希望她们会记住我的话。
我每天陪三个孩子做游戏，唱歌，跳舞，为他们讲故事。而新新，越来越有灵气，不但会叫爸爸、妹妹了，还会含糊表达自己的需要，而且会随着节奏跳些简单的舞步。看着并成一排熟睡中的孩子们，我终于相信这个世界上有奇迹，那就是爱，爱可以创造一切！
阳阳和月月到了上幼儿园的年龄，我也该上班了。为了减少我的负担，婆婆来商量着把新新接走。我犹豫再三，其实按新新现在的情况，勉强可以上幼儿园，可他毕竟和别的孩子不一样，我害怕来自外界给他的伤害。
新新被带走的那个晚上，女儿们不肯上床睡觉，一定要等哥哥回来。她们闪着漂亮的大眼睛问我，哥哥什么时候回来?为什么哥哥不上幼儿园?我的心一凛，回答她们，哥哥生病了，要好长时间才会好。她们又问。他会想我们的，为什么我们不照顾他呢?快让哥哥回来，我们会照顾他的。我的心紧了又紧，你们要乖乖的，只要你们听话，哥哥就会回来。她们终于乖乖睡下，而我在黑夜里挂念着新新。儿子，你好吗？
女儿们只去了三天幼儿园，就说什么也不肯去了，告诉我幼儿园里有好多好玩的玩具，还有好多的小朋友，还学习新歌，认字，英语，她们要等哥哥回来一起去。她们充满期盼的眼睛望着我，还带有小小的挑衅。我讶于她们的执拗，耐着性子哄着她们，可她们却怎么也不肯答应。我沉下脸一手抱着一个，她们哇哇哭起来，妈妈骗人，说只要我们乖，哥哥就会回来，我们都听话了，可哥哥还是没有回来!
我的心猛地僵住了!压抑的眼泪再也控制不住，你们的哥哥，他和别人不一样，他永远学不会那些东西!女儿们为我擦着泪，会的，会的，妈妈，哥哥能学会的，我们会帮助他的!看着她们，我感到了做妈妈的歉疚，我只会一味逃避，以为自己很爱新新，却不如孩子们充满信心去面对。
门铃响，竟然是婆婆送新新回来了!几天不见，新新瘦了好多。婆婆无奈地说，这几天新新几乎没吃东西，也不肯睡觉，只一直哭，喊着妹妹，妹妹。她看了心里实在难受，不得已就送回来了。
女儿们兴奋起来，拉着新新的手，开始讲幼儿园的事情，还催促我为新新换最漂亮的衣服，他们要一起去幼儿园。
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我找到园长，请求她让我的孩子们在一起。因为按照新新的年龄应该上大班，可他的智力水平还不如小班的孩子。当看到我的女儿们一边一个拉着儿子的手，并挥手和我再见的时候。我相信这个决定是对的，爱会为我们创造更多的奇迹。
每天从幼儿园回来，阳阳和月月都帮助新新复习一天学过的东西，而且不许我插手。我的女儿们是班里最出色的孩子，学什么都特别快，而且记得牢。我知道那是因为她们要教哥哥，所以格外用心去学习。从没看过比她们还有耐心的孩子，轮流一遍又一遍教着笨拙的新新，一个单词往往要重复好多好多遍，甚至梦里还在喃喃。每次新新学会了，她们就会欢呼起来，然后学着幼儿园老师的样子翘起大拇指说，哥哥你好棒，哥哥你真棒！而我的儿子，就看着妹妹，傻傻憨憨地笑着。
老师要求每个孩子学习写自己的名字，这对新新来讲简直是不可能的事情。可一个月后的一天，女儿们兴奋地拉着儿子跑来告诉我，哥哥会写自己的名字了I我将信将疑地看着儿子在纸上歪歪扭扭地写下两个大大的"新"字，尤其敖看到他们练习的本子，我小小的女儿们，竟然知道把哥哥的名字拆成笔划来教，好几个本子写着他们循序渐进的过程，我再一次被女儿们的耐心折服得泪流满面。
一天，我去接他们。走到教室门口，听到有个孩子喊着，你们的哥哥是个傻孩子！我一惊，连忙走进去。我示意正要阻止的老师，决定让孩子们自己去面对。只见阳阳憋红了小脸对那个孩子说，我的哥哥不是傻孩子，他是天使，他丢了翅膀，来到我们家，变成一个世界上最好的哥哥，他只不过还没习惯人间的生活。孩子们发出"哇"的惊叹声，你们的哥哥竟然是天使哎！老师含着眼泪搂过阳阳，对孩子们说，新新是我们班的天使，他会爱我们每个小朋友，还教会我们如何去爱别人。回家的路上，我的心被女儿编织的故事激荡着。我问她们为什么那么爱哥哥，她们一起回答，因为没有哥哥就没有我们啊!忽地泪又盈满我的眼，原来她们已经牢牢记住了我的话，那么小，就学会了爱和感恩。他们是上天赐给彼此的天使，也是上天送给我最珍贵的礼物。因为他们，我才知道，做妈妈是那么值得骄傲和幸福！
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人生就如一張有去無回單程車票
他沒有彩排﹐每一刻都是現場直播﹗
把握每一次的演出﹐便是最好的珍惜﹐活得精採
Friday, August 08, 2008
080808
今天是 080808
Today is 080808
千年才一次
Once in a thousand years
千载难逢难得的一天
A day that hardly come by
去年也在故居写了一篇 070707
Last year there was 070707
以为今天的 080808 会有特别的记载
Hope today 080808 will hold special memories
悠悠想也没什么了
But i think there is nothing much
只想在这和大家友情干杯！！
Just wanna Cheers~~~ to all my friendships
Thursday, August 07, 2008
您~~~你在我心上
有一对认识很久的男女，他们彼此爱慕，却从不明说。 后来男孩要出国留学，临行前他鼓起勇气和女孩说：“你有没有什么话要告诉我？”
女孩说：“我要说的，就是您。”
“您？”男孩惊奇的问。
“恩”女孩什么也没说，点了点头。
男孩始终惊奇的看着女孩，但女孩说来说去还是那句话“我要说的，就是您。”
男孩带着女孩的疑问，出国了。
男孩出国后，他们经常用e-mail来联络，但女孩每次都会在信件的结尾署名为“您”。
男孩始终不能明白为什么女孩总是要在信件的最后署名为“您”，男孩也多次的问女孩这到底是什么意思，但是女孩却每次都不回答。
日子久了，两个人的通信频率也就越来越少，最后男孩决定在异国娶妻，并打算定居，不回来了。
男孩把这个决定告诉了女孩，但是女孩什么也没说，还是那句“我要说的，就是您。”
就这样，男孩完全的断绝了和女孩的联系，有一天，男孩把女孩的e-mail打印出来，打算拿在手上看。他把纸折了两次，如果摊开看，由上到下就是四个小长方形。结果他看到……
结果男孩突然发现，在女孩署名的“您”中间，刚好有一条折痕，将“您”分为“你”和“心”。于是男孩终于明白了“您”的意思。
男孩看着打印出来的女孩的信件，留下了眼泪，男孩拿起笔，在女孩每封信件的结尾署名的后面，写下一行字－－“你在我心上！”
故事到这里也就告一段落了，至于最后的结局，我想就由各位读者来决定吧，因为每个人的想法都不一样，所以大家就以自己的意愿去给故事结尾吧！
女孩说：“我要说的，就是您。”
“您？”男孩惊奇的问。
“恩”女孩什么也没说，点了点头。
男孩始终惊奇的看着女孩，但女孩说来说去还是那句话“我要说的，就是您。”
男孩带着女孩的疑问，出国了。
男孩出国后，他们经常用e-mail来联络，但女孩每次都会在信件的结尾署名为“您”。
男孩始终不能明白为什么女孩总是要在信件的最后署名为“您”，男孩也多次的问女孩这到底是什么意思，但是女孩却每次都不回答。
日子久了，两个人的通信频率也就越来越少，最后男孩决定在异国娶妻，并打算定居，不回来了。
男孩把这个决定告诉了女孩，但是女孩什么也没说，还是那句“我要说的，就是您。”
就这样，男孩完全的断绝了和女孩的联系，有一天，男孩把女孩的e-mail打印出来，打算拿在手上看。他把纸折了两次，如果摊开看，由上到下就是四个小长方形。结果他看到……
结果男孩突然发现，在女孩署名的“您”中间，刚好有一条折痕，将“您”分为“你”和“心”。于是男孩终于明白了“您”的意思。
男孩看着打印出来的女孩的信件，留下了眼泪，男孩拿起笔，在女孩每封信件的结尾署名的后面，写下一行字－－“你在我心上！”
故事到这里也就告一段落了，至于最后的结局，我想就由各位读者来决定吧，因为每个人的想法都不一样，所以大家就以自己的意愿去给故事结尾吧！
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
World Youth Day 2008 @ SYD Experience
...Coming Soon...
Including:
Airbus A380
SYD International Airport
Toronto
Kilaben Bay
Nelson Bay
Salamander Bay
Foreshore
Newcastle
Beaches
Sydney:
CityRail
Central Station
St. James
Circular Quay
TownHall
Olympic Park
Padstow
Opening Mass
Papal Arrival
Station of the Cross
St. Mary's Cathedral
$5 Rice with 1 dish
& Many many more
Might be release in parts
Including:
Airbus A380
SYD International Airport
Toronto
Kilaben Bay
Nelson Bay
Salamander Bay
Foreshore
Newcastle
Beaches
Sydney:
CityRail
Central Station
St. James
Circular Quay
TownHall
Olympic Park
Padstow
Opening Mass
Papal Arrival
Station of the Cross
St. Mary's Cathedral
$5 Rice with 1 dish
& Many many more
Might be release in parts
Friday, July 18, 2008
婚前婚後
以前提到结婚，想到「天长地久」；现在提到结婚，想到「能撑多久」。
Last time marriage is Forever and ever; now is see how long can last.
当初会结婚，说是「看上眼」；後来会离婚，说是「看走眼」。
Before marriage is see accurately ; After marriage.
婚前，爱情是神话；婚後，爱情是笑话。
男人花钱，是为了让女人高兴；女人花钱，是因为男人让她不高兴。
嫁入「豪门」，要懂得理财；嫁入「寒门」，要懂得生财。
以前的人，视婚姻生活为「一辈子」；现代的人，视婚姻生活为「一阵子」。
婚前，男人在餐厅等女人；婚後，女人在客厅等男人。
婚前，男人经常找女人「讨论」；婚後，男人只告诉女人「结论」。
婚前，男人对她悄悄讲话；婚後，男人对她大声讲话。
恋爱时，情话绵绵；结婚後，谎话连连。
恋爱时的男人，喜欢「毛手毛脚」；结婚後的男人，变成「没手没脚」。
婚前，情侣做什麽都是「浪漫」；婚後，夫妻做什麽都是「浪费」。
想结婚，是自己已能独立；想离婚，是子女已独立。
婚前的男人，大都很幽默；婚後的男人，大都很沉默。
女人的记性，吵架时最好；男人的耐性，结婚後最差。
恋爱时，一见面就「亲嘴」；结婚後，一见面就「斗嘴」。
婚前，男人常给女人「空白支票」；婚後，男人常给女人「空头支票」。
恋爱时，生活「妙不可言」；结婚後，日子「苦不堪言」。
婚前，男人天天盯着女人；婚後，女人天天盯着男人。
热恋时，总相许下辈子再结良缘；结婚後，怀疑上辈子造作孽缘。
大男人，会「作威作福」；好男人，会「作牛作马」。
婚前，「谎话」都是「情话」；婚後，「情话」都是「废话」。
婚前，靠近一点；婚後，闪开一点。
婚前，没话找话说；婚後，有话也不说。
「成功」？对男人的定义是指能赚很多的钱，对女人的定义是指能花很多的钱。
男人有钱就变坏，女人变坏就有钱。
男人没有女人，耳根清净；女人没有男人，居家乾净。
男人「入错行」，上班会很痛苦；女人「嫁错郎」，下班会很痛苦。
好女人，养坏男人的胃口；坏女人，吊足男人的胃口。
婚前，男人像传令兵；婚後，男人像指挥官。
失恋不见得是世界末日：你的心也许会'泣血'，你的荷包却可以不再'失血'。
所以失恋的人不用伤心~
Last time marriage is Forever and ever; now is see how long can last.
当初会结婚，说是「看上眼」；後来会离婚，说是「看走眼」。
Before marriage is see accurately ; After marriage.
婚前，爱情是神话；婚後，爱情是笑话。
男人花钱，是为了让女人高兴；女人花钱，是因为男人让她不高兴。
嫁入「豪门」，要懂得理财；嫁入「寒门」，要懂得生财。
以前的人，视婚姻生活为「一辈子」；现代的人，视婚姻生活为「一阵子」。
婚前，男人在餐厅等女人；婚後，女人在客厅等男人。
婚前，男人经常找女人「讨论」；婚後，男人只告诉女人「结论」。
婚前，男人对她悄悄讲话；婚後，男人对她大声讲话。
恋爱时，情话绵绵；结婚後，谎话连连。
恋爱时的男人，喜欢「毛手毛脚」；结婚後的男人，变成「没手没脚」。
婚前，情侣做什麽都是「浪漫」；婚後，夫妻做什麽都是「浪费」。
想结婚，是自己已能独立；想离婚，是子女已独立。
婚前的男人，大都很幽默；婚後的男人，大都很沉默。
女人的记性，吵架时最好；男人的耐性，结婚後最差。
恋爱时，一见面就「亲嘴」；结婚後，一见面就「斗嘴」。
婚前，男人常给女人「空白支票」；婚後，男人常给女人「空头支票」。
恋爱时，生活「妙不可言」；结婚後，日子「苦不堪言」。
婚前，男人天天盯着女人；婚後，女人天天盯着男人。
热恋时，总相许下辈子再结良缘；结婚後，怀疑上辈子造作孽缘。
大男人，会「作威作福」；好男人，会「作牛作马」。
婚前，「谎话」都是「情话」；婚後，「情话」都是「废话」。
婚前，靠近一点；婚後，闪开一点。
婚前，没话找话说；婚後，有话也不说。
「成功」？对男人的定义是指能赚很多的钱，对女人的定义是指能花很多的钱。
男人有钱就变坏，女人变坏就有钱。
男人没有女人，耳根清净；女人没有男人，居家乾净。
男人「入错行」，上班会很痛苦；女人「嫁错郎」，下班会很痛苦。
好女人，养坏男人的胃口；坏女人，吊足男人的胃口。
婚前，男人像传令兵；婚後，男人像指挥官。
失恋不见得是世界末日：你的心也许会'泣血'，你的荷包却可以不再'失血'。
所以失恋的人不用伤心~
Monday, July 14, 2008
ONE LIFE revolution- My Experience
ONE LIFE revolution
You've ONE LIFE Do Something
You've ONE LIFE Do Something
My Experience of it
My Name was John. And i was born in malaysia.
It all begin with me in my house. I was from a poor family in a village. My father had to go to other place to work for our living. and my mother had to bring us up by herself, alone. Although i was still young and small, i knows that mum misses him alot.
One day, mum receives a call saying that dad had an accident at the work place, and unfortunately, has passes away. at the same time, mum was also very ill. she was so weak that she can't even get up from the bed. everybody was staying away from her as she was very ill.
as mum and us make cakes and cookies for a living, i had to take over everything including all the house chores.
soon after that, John's brother met with an accident on the way back from school. he was knock down by a car. and when we rush to the hospital, it was TOO LATE, he had passes away. the doctor then asked that the whole family do a HIV/AIDS testing. (sorry, my mind was reading story, so i did not pay attention to the voice narration.)
(While in the waiting room waiting to do the test, i could hear loud heartbeats from the earphone, and my heart was also beating so fast, that as if i was really going to do the testing.) (imagine if i was to do the real testing, i would freak out ba...)
So there i was sitting in the waiting room of the hospital waiting to do the testing. When it was my turn, i walk up to get check. And unfortunately, i was tested POSITIVE. [in the story ONLY]
Then in the earphone, sad music was playing. Nobody wants to be tested positive. Audio said:"You can be brought out by someone who test negative, and they must bring u by the hand." The guy beside me tested negative. but he didn't bring me out... :'( the stigma of HIV/AIDS. after sitting awhile, i walk out to the next room and story ends.
John & his mother tested positive and is now receiving treatment. (Names have been change)
My Hand Chop. (The + Mark)
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Wednesday, July 09, 2008
I'm leaving on a Jet Plane
All my bags are packed
Im ready to go
Im standin here in my room
waiting for my fren to come fetch me
Soon i would be off to the Fine City: Singapore
and off i go to AussieLand
for the World Youth Day
So, hug me and pray for me
Tell me that youll pray for me
Hold me like youll never let me go
cause Im leavin on a jet plane
22 July Ill be back again
SMILE :)
Im ready to go
Im standin here in my room
waiting for my fren to come fetch me
Soon i would be off to the Fine City: Singapore
and off i go to AussieLand
for the World Youth Day
So, hug me and pray for me
Tell me that youll pray for me
Hold me like youll never let me go
cause Im leavin on a jet plane
22 July Ill be back again
SMILE :)
Tuesday, July 08, 2008
ONE LIFE Revoluton
8 - 13 July: Dream Centre, DUMC, Petaling Jaya
near Jaya 33
MAP
One Life Revolution (OLR) is a unique walk-through experiential exhibit. Visitors put themselves in the shoes of three children who have endured extraordinary hardships because of HIV/AIDS and trafficking. It is an interactive, personal audio-visual journey that lasts approximately 20 minutes.
near Jaya 33
MAP
One Life Revolution (OLR) is a unique walk-through experiential exhibit. Visitors put themselves in the shoes of three children who have endured extraordinary hardships because of HIV/AIDS and trafficking. It is an interactive, personal audio-visual journey that lasts approximately 20 minutes.
People, go and have a look. Go experience it yourself. the experience can't be express. Its just awesome...
I just went for it. Didn't want to miss it yet again... its really good...
Good work to World Vision Malaysia, Malaysian Care, MAC
I just went for it. Didn't want to miss it yet again... its really good...
Good work to World Vision Malaysia, Malaysian Care, MAC
Postcard
*I wil post my experience and my thoughts after this show ends. as i dun want to spoil ur experience there.
*I wil post my experience and my thoughts after this show ends. as i dun want to spoil ur experience there.
Monday, July 07, 2008
Pill to become young again
The was a guy, lets call him Tom. His parents was getting old, and he was staying in another state. he was worried for them, so he would try to visit them often.
one day, over a meal, his mother told him that a new doctor has recently moved to this town, and that he gave them a pill that would make them young again to eat. it is said that 1 pill a day, would slowly make them young again.
as Tom was busy with his work, he didn't have the time to visit his parents, so after many years, he visited them again. when he reach the airport, he tried to look out for them. but looking around he didn't see anyone he know that was suppose to pick him up.
then he notice a young girl waving at him, but he don't know her, so he continued looking around. then the young girl, carrying a baby in her hand, walk up to him and said: "I'm ur mother la..."
he got a shocked and took a few steps back. the the young girl said:"remember few years back i told u that a doctor gave us pill that could make us young again?", "the pill worked, and that is why i'm a young girl again."
Then Tom said:"then how about the baby then?""is it my younger brother?"
then the young girl said:"no la, it is ur father."
Tom:"how is it possible?""why isn't he a child like u r?"
young girl:"he want to become young faster, HE TOOK 2 PILLS ADAY"
one day, over a meal, his mother told him that a new doctor has recently moved to this town, and that he gave them a pill that would make them young again to eat. it is said that 1 pill a day, would slowly make them young again.
as Tom was busy with his work, he didn't have the time to visit his parents, so after many years, he visited them again. when he reach the airport, he tried to look out for them. but looking around he didn't see anyone he know that was suppose to pick him up.
then he notice a young girl waving at him, but he don't know her, so he continued looking around. then the young girl, carrying a baby in her hand, walk up to him and said: "I'm ur mother la..."
he got a shocked and took a few steps back. the the young girl said:"remember few years back i told u that a doctor gave us pill that could make us young again?", "the pill worked, and that is why i'm a young girl again."
Then Tom said:"then how about the baby then?""is it my younger brother?"
then the young girl said:"no la, it is ur father."
Tom:"how is it possible?""why isn't he a child like u r?"
young girl:"he want to become young faster, HE TOOK 2 PILLS ADAY"
Friday, July 04, 2008
3 legged chicken
one day, a guy was driving in his super Mercedes-Benz S600 along the country side. then came a chicken running down the road, and it ran pass his car. then he tried to chase after it, but it ran so fast, and he notice that the chicken had 2 legs, that even his super car is finding it hard catching up. then he notice that the chicken ran into a bun beside a house. so he parked his car near the house, and went up to the house door, and knock it. then a man came to answer the door.
Guy:"Hello"
Man:"Hello, how can i help u?"
Guy:"well, i saw a chicken 3 legs running into the bun beside ur house, does it belong to u?"
Man:"ya, the 3 legged chicken belongs to me"
Guy:"why the chicken has 3 legs?"
Man:"it has 3 legs, coz myself, my wife, and my son loves to eat drumstick, but a normal chicken only has 2 legs, so i manipulated the chicken to has another leg."
Guy:"well, then how does the chicken taste like?"
Man:"I have never eaten it before. IT RUNS TOO FAST TO BE CATCH."
Guy:"Hello"
Man:"Hello, how can i help u?"
Guy:"well, i saw a chicken 3 legs running into the bun beside ur house, does it belong to u?"
Man:"ya, the 3 legged chicken belongs to me"
Guy:"why the chicken has 3 legs?"
Man:"it has 3 legs, coz myself, my wife, and my son loves to eat drumstick, but a normal chicken only has 2 legs, so i manipulated the chicken to has another leg."
Guy:"well, then how does the chicken taste like?"
Man:"I have never eaten it before. IT RUNS TOO FAST TO BE CATCH."
Thursday, July 03, 2008
badawi [baa-daa-wee] (noun)
2day i saw that Oxford and Webster may want to include a new word for their 2009 dictionary:-
the word,
badawi [baa-daa-wee] (noun):
To start something full of promise but end in disappointment, failure and/or disaster.
Example: ' i'm trusting you to preform this task well; don't do a badawi,ok?'
the word,
badawi [baa-daa-wee] (noun):
To start something full of promise but end in disappointment, failure and/or disaster.
Example: ' i'm trusting you to preform this task well; don't do a badawi,ok?'
Tuesday, July 01, 2008
Seoul Garden BBQ+steamboat
All the fish meat on the grill pan... + some seafood
I donno how did my fren manage 2 break this metal scope into 2
Fried and over-grilled food, that has shrink into a very small size
Back in 15 minutes, gone to the toilet. my watch shows its 10.40PM...
1 JULY 2008
Today,
Half a year of 2008 has pass, now is second half
2 quarter of 2008 has pass, now is the third quarter of 2008
What has u done for the past half year?
What has u achieve?
What is the happiest moments of this period?
What is the saddest moment of this period?
No matter what it was, lets look forward to the future. make good use of it. use it wisely. dun regret anything in the past, make the future a beautiful one...
Half a year of 2008 has pass, now is second half
2 quarter of 2008 has pass, now is the third quarter of 2008
What has u done for the past half year?
What has u achieve?
What is the happiest moments of this period?
What is the saddest moment of this period?
No matter what it was, lets look forward to the future. make good use of it. use it wisely. dun regret anything in the past, make the future a beautiful one...
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