Friday, June 27, 2014

HCM Day 5

The final day in the city started with us doing some packing and placing the things beside the bags that it should go into. Breakfast was still the same toast and eggs. After breakfast, we went to grab few can of beers that is to be use as souvenir. On the way back to our hotel, we went into a shop selling clothing's and the pricing was reasonable, so we each grabbed a similar matching shorts, at least we get an item which is fairly priced rather than carrying back a currency which we don't know when we will use it again. Back to the bag shop, we grabbed a bag that we fancy knowing that back home, it would cost at least twice the price we paid for.

We did  our final packing and waited for the taxi which the hotel had helped us to arrange and paid for. This taxi is called Saigon Air and is not the same company as the Green Toyota Innova. When we arrive at the airport, the taxi driver actually ask for tips from me! Tips has always been given willingly and out of courtesy rather than being asked.

The Q for checking in was super long as a huge group of people from the Malaysia Karate team was also doing their group check in. Not trying to be racist but i notice that the group was mainly and largely made up of the darker skin tone when i had always thought that Karate had the participation of the 3 main etnic group in Malaysia. We waited almost half an hour before seeing that we could go to the other counter where the team wasn't in Q, as all of us thought that we had to wait behind them. Maybe next time for those who have check in, please stand and wait elsewhere as people would think that you are also waiting to check-in and drop the luggage. Our return luggage was far below the allowance that we had purchase as many items that was planned didn't materialize.

In the boarding area, we saw the group of 4 girls again as they was taking the same flight as us. They was transiting in KL before taking the connecting flight back to Sabah the same night.

Some information:
Hotel: Luan Vu Hotel
Trips: Cao Dai & Cu Chi Tunnel; Mekong Delta
Must visit places: City Hall; Notre Dame Cathedral Saigon; Post office; Reunification Palace; War Museum; Ben Thanh market

Thursday, June 26, 2014

HCM Day 4

Good Friday marks our fourth day in Saigon. Today has been planned as Free and Easy where we plan to roam the nearby landmarks at our own pace. The day started with heavier breakfast as we need the energy to walk the city.

After crossing many 'mountain' and the many challenging roads under the hot sun, we went into a 7-11 just to enjoy some air-con while at the same time, look for items that perhaps we could bring back to Malaysia. On a side note, i think 7-11 in Malaysia should just have more choices and be more well stocked with choices. They should have the required funds since they have recently been listed as such high PE. As we walk along the road and asking for directions from the Army, we reached the first destination, City Hall. There wasn't much of a crowd so we manage to take several clean shots of the scenery from various angles using the 3rd party. We continued along the road and came to Parkson, and decided to see what they have and how different are their shopping malls with the malls we have down south.

We then continue walking along, and followed people to walk down a street, and it brought us to the Notre Dame cathedral Saigon. We manage to take some self shots with the 3rd party, but unfortunately could go into the pews area as they was close after 11am til afternoon. We cross the road to the Post office which is also a landmark in the city. It was filled with people that are buying souvenir and writing post cards to their friends around the world. We selected 3 different postcards to be send back to Malaysia. One was for my Sister, sending to my hometown; One is for xiao hui (whom never receive it due to missing Taman, area) and we send one to ourselves as it was something unique since only by postage we could get the stamp chopped. After posting the post cards, where the rate is standard base on the region of the country, for example, Malaysia, Singapore, Indonesia, Thailand would all be classified as South East Asia and use the same amount of stamp.

We continue our journey to the Reunification Palace, which we only took photo from the outside as it was closed for lunch and there isn't much to see and do inside apart from the garden compound. We wanted to find a restaurant that i saw when the bus passed through one of the street near the War  Museum, but we didn't see it when we walk the 4 row of streets. There is few high-end restaurant around that area, and it was way beyond our budget, so we decided to have late lunch after visiting the War Museum when it opens as 1.30pm (they are close for lunch). As we was waiting for it to reopen, some uncle approach us and tried to sell us coconut for 30,000 dong, but we didn't want as it's more expensive than we have had the past days in the restaurant, therefore under the hot sun and street walk, it should cost lesser. As we walk away, he say we can have it for 20,000 dong (or less than RM4) and proceed to cut it for us. I guess he also wanted to rest awhile therefore letting us have it at a reduced price.

When the gates for War Museum is open, we was among the first to pay the entrance fee. The gate is wide open, and the ticket counter is to the left of the gate, nobody even check the ticket and i believe there are people that would just visit without purchasing a ticket. One of the display we took selfie is with a helicopter as there still wasn't a crowd during the first 10 minutes or so. The interesting area of the War museum is on the second and third floor. It's heartbreaking to see what the Americans have done, and it's really a good place to share and document it as part of history without getting the facts twist and turn where it's happening in some countries. The history and textbook that is used in schools are just stories that is to their advantage, but the wrongdoings are covered up and turn into fiction. The next area we walk pass is the rebuild torture chamber, it's basically like prison cells.

As we are exhausted and tired from walking the many streets, we decided to just take a taxi back to our hotel. We opted for the Green Toyota Innova taxi where it runs by the meter. Isn't it sad that in countries like Thailand and Vietnam, they use Toyota Altis and Toyota Innova as normal (budget) taxi, whereas in bolehland, those are considered luxury car, even for taxi it's considered luxury taxi and price at a premium (dark blue).

While walking back to the hotel, we saw that a restaurant still had many customer and decided to eat there, the food was just normal and we finish it very quickly as we was very hungry. Along the streets in restaurant, there would be people who come around selling items or provided service. One of it that we saw is a boy that helps to mend or polish shoes. According to an expatriate who was at the next table, he said that they will ask you if you want them to mend or polish your shoe, and when they try to get near your shoe, you must be quick as they might ripe it off to make it broken then they will really fix it (of course, you will have to pay).

We rested awhile before going to Ben Thanh market as it's our last night in the city. The market was having their evening crowd and i notice that when there are westerners, they will rarely attend to the Asian, perhaps due to the fairer people having better purchasing power. There was some items that we wanted to buy, but most of the stores open at very high price, some are willing to give discount and negotiate the price downwards, while there was stores that call us crazy, some say we ask and don't buy. We was interesting in printed art pieces (single piece or set of 4). The general opening price is between 400k to 750k dong depending on the design and size. There was a set of 4 that offered us 700k dong and manage to get the price down to 320k dong, but in the end we didn't buy. We asked a few stores, which we was called crazy because they open the price at 850k and we only offer them 300k as our opening offer. You will see many different characters at the market, don't take to heart what they say, if you don't like their attitude, just walk away. There was also a clothing store which is situated near the exit, i ask for the price and cut it into half the price, and i got said i was crazy, but i felt it was just right (using the fixed price store as benchmark and after surveying other stores) as he ask me for my price anyway. There is an area where the price is fixed, therefore we use those as benchmark against the other stores. Some of the items there are reasonable as their price is lower or similar to those outside the market or at other areas in the city. I felt that shopping there isn't as comforting and happy as when you shop in Bangkok's Chatuchak market. The people at Chatuchak is much more friendly and is willing to negotiate the price, also i feel that inflation or cost of living is much higher. Fed up with the service in Ben Thanh market, we headed to the stores around that area. We manage to buy one pair of shoes each within a reasonable price, although not as low as the price i had in mind.

We went back to the massage shop in the allay that we saw yesterday. Today it wasn't as packed perhaps it was still early and people was having their dinner or just got back from trips. I opted for Foot Massage (50k dong), which my gf did Manicure (50k dong) and Pedicure (50k dong) including nail polish for fingers and toes (40k). Seeing that the haircut was also cheap (50k dong) and i also needed one soon, so might as well just cut my hair too with the balance of dong that we have changed. We went back to the hotel to wash up before dinner.

The final night dinner was at a better restaurant where we was given a table facing the street. We had all prawn seafood dinner, which consist of Coconut soup steam with prawn in the coconut shell (the soup is made from coconut juice), second dish was starch base with prawn, and third dish was mini pancakes with prawn on top. The dinner was overall satisfactory at the price we paid.

We shopped in a few art shop and the opening price was around US$30 to US$50 for the paintings that we ask about. I later found out when back in Malaysia that the retail value in Kuala Lumpur is anything RM250-300 and above, which the retailer said they have source from Vietnam, Thailand or Indonesia. We was attracted to a bag outlet which was located just outside the hotel, where they was having sale for some of their bag. We decided to just KIV first pending the final calculation of how much dong we are left with. We didn't want to bring much back as the exchange rate for dong is pretty weak and the spread is wide.

Wednesday, June 25, 2014

HCM Day 3

The third day holds our second trip venturing out of Saigon city, to Mekong Delta. Our day started with breakfast at the lobby and it was full house, thus they open another table for us (the small wooden table that we usually see during outings). The choice of food was still the same as previous days, the standard toast bread or noodles. There was this waiter, whom my gf feel act like a 5 star hotel waiter with his politeness and overall, quite funny as well. After finishing the breakfast, we waited awhile for the tour guide, and as usual they would go to the hotels along the street to round people who have sign up for their tour package.

In the bus, we saw the 4 Malaysian lady and the solo guy from Malaysia (whom is a Filipino) who joined yesterday’s Chu chi Tunnel trip. They had made similar arrangements as us. The bus ride didn't take very long before we stopped briefly for a toilet break. While there, we saw that the shop was selling the Vietnamise coffee strainer (bought for sovienier). After an hour or so, we finally reached the jetty where we had to board a boat and it took us on the lake cruise.

First stop is the honey factory, where they let you try the fresh honey and Royal Jelly. I had planned to buy, but it was too expensive (as i felt other outlets in the city would be cheaper). After the 'honey tasting', we was urshered to the canal, where we had a 'Gondola Ride' in groups of 4 person along the stream before ending it at another jetty where we board back the boat. The Gondola ride was slow and allow you to take picture and enjoying the hot sun. It is really hardwork for those aunties who roll the boat, but i guess that is a way of life for them.

We then had to transfer boat in the middle of the lake due to the depth of the lake being too shallow for the first boat that we came by. We was transfered into smaller boat and went on yet another Gondola ride (but this is motorised) and ended at the Coconut candy factory. We was shown the candy making process from the start till how it's packed. It was fragrant and i felt that it would make a good item for sharing with the people in the office, as there is quantity to it. I bought 6 packed for around RM28 (buy 5 free 1).

Next station was finally lunch. It has been set and is included in the tour package, except if additional dishes is ordered. Since it's paid for, we couldn't expect too much, and to our surprise it was really small. The rice was barely few spoonful, the soup was a small bowl and the main dish was little, there was only 2 slice of pork and the tofu was barely few pieces (Pork and Tofu is 2 different set). They would prefer that you add additional dish so that they could earn extra on top of what has been ordered by the tour guide.

The next station after lunch is the most ridiculous thing ever. It was a visit to the tropical fruit (farm??). Nope, it was more like give you few slices of fruits, sing few lines of song, and put a basket on the table and ask for contribution. Among the group, there wasn't many people who contributed as we felt they didn't do much. If they was to sell tropical fruits, it would have been much better.

The return trip to the city took another 2 hours or so, and it dropped us back at the backpacker area once again. We rested awhile, freshen up and went for dinner.

We had dinner at 'Hoa Don Thanh Toan', where we had fried spring roll, 1 seafood (prawn and squid), 1 clay pot pork together with rice. After the dinner, we decided to roam around and explore the other street while looking for massage shop. There was a lot of shops having their promotion and of course we look for those that have many customers so we can be quite sure it's clean. We found one shop in an ally which had many customer and price was very 'reasonable' or should i say 'cheap'. From the many pamphlets that we was given, most places are charging around 100,000 dong (or around RM18) for foot massage. But since there was so many people, we just bookmarked the place and went on scrolling the street. We stopped by a cake shop where they had cute tiny birthday cakes. I think the tiny 4 inch cake cost us about 38,000 dong (less than RM10), now you feel the inflationary pressure, it's not much cheaper than Malaysia or Singapore. We ate the cake when the clock strike twelve, marking Good Friday and my birthday.

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

HCM Day 2

The second day began with breakfast at the hotel which gave us a choice of Noodles soup (which is actually instant noodles with tomato and egg) or Bread and egg, paired with Coffee, Tea, or juice. This was the first breakfast during our stay, so it's still 'new' for us. There was others who have been staying there, they opted for the standard break and egg. The bread is freeflow as you toast it at the mini bar using the Elba and Electrolux toaster that is provided. IMHO the bread that is toasted by the Electrolux taste much better and had a cruncher texture.

The first full day trip we booked is to Ch Chi Tunnel and Cao Dai Temple. The tour guide rounded people from hotel to hotel, just like shaperd rounding their sheeps along the street. Of course, it's for people who have pre-booked with them. There was people of all nationalities coming from different parts of the world. Initially we thought it was like all westerners as we was the only Asian among the group until we saw  4 Asian lady in the bus and we guess there are from Malaysia. There was 3 ladies that was dress like punk and my girlfriend called them 'Hot and spicy'. The bus trip from the city to Cao Dai took like forever. We stopped half way at a restaurant for their rest room, something similar to Yong Peng rest stop when you take express buses down south from Kuala Lumpur to Johor or Singapore. There we saw 3 big buses that came in from Phnom Penh, Cambodia. The bus says it has Wifi on board, have it gotten so advance that they could do wireless on the go. As the journey continoued on, we was required by the tour guide to provide our name and nationality, more like in the banks where you do "KYC- Know Your Customer". We decided to state Singaporean as you can't tell Chinese Malaysian and Singaporean (except the kiasu-ness, kiasi-ness, and the list goes on). Like earlier stated, the bus trip took like forever, since we departed at 8am, we finally reached the temple around 11am. Almost 3 hour in the bus, really can reach Ipoh or Johor if in Malaysia.
The sun is just damn happening, that it decide to shine brightly and warm up the land, it was so hot that i felt i could just faint anytime soon. Bright sun always contributes to good photos (except when it's behind you).

Instead of getting people to take photo for us, we decided to bring out the "3rd party" as it gave us more control over the angle of the photo. We took quite alot of photo around the temple as it took a long way to get there. The best thing that one could hope for is to finally fill the tummy. We was so hungry that we ordered 1 pork and 1 fried chicken wit rice and a coconut due to the hot sun and refreshing effect that it would bring.

After the lunch, it took like another forever to get to the Tunnel. It's a good thing that it has became cooler compared to earlier of the day. After the tickets has been claimed, the tour guide brought us around the 'park'. The first stop was screening of a short documentary about how Vietnam won the war. After the documentary, there was some explaination given base on a 3D model of how the actual tunnel is like, which it consist of 3 layers. We was next shown and was given a chance to try a real tunne. It was so small and could only fit a slim person. I didn't jump in as it was tiny and people was watching. We did manage to take photo standing in the tunnel.

There was also a 150 meters tunnel that we could walk through, but the oxygen level was kinda low and hard to breath, on top of the dust in the tunnel that we climb back up to surface at the second exit. According to the tour guide, there is 6 exits to the surface build along the path. There was also rifle firing range, but the cost was kinda high and am not a keen fan of firearms. After the tour, it was a long way back to Saigon city once again.

It was almost 7pm when we reach back to the city. The bus dropped us at the backpacker area and we walk back to our hotel. There was still a lot of motorcycles zooming around, but we are getting used to it and manage to cross the street without much trouble. We freshen up before heading out for dinner, which we decided to venture further down the street for food. We had dinner at Dung cafe which also had a wide range of selection for food.

We order 1 grill pork and 1 seafood (prawn and squid) dish with rice and 1 bottle of Saigon Beer. The prawn looked fresh and nice but the portion was small. The local beer is quite cheap if compare with Malaysia (due to the sin tax). Back along the street, as the time is much later than the first night, we could start to see more sexily clad girls and transgender at the bars. There is many articles covering the subject of working girls at tourist district, it's a norm for cities where tourism is one of their main economic activity.

Monday, June 23, 2014

HCM Day 1

We departed very early from the house as we took the skybus from One Utama. This was our last time flying out from LCCT as it would soon be moving to the new hub of KLIA2.
We had to do self tagging for the check in luggage. As we was waiting in line to drop our luggages and get the documents checked, we saw that the next counter was close but it's weighting machine function was activated, so we decided to get our check in luggages weighted before we reach our turn. to our surprise, the luggage was overweight by about 5-6kg. We quickily went aside and open one of the luggage to transfer some of the items to our carry on which was relatively empty. After the luggage was dropped, we pop by McD to have our 'big' brunch, as we would arrive at the destination well pass lunch time and we didn't book any on-board meal.

Once the place was pulled back, the taxi way was like KL city traffic jam during peak hours, just that in this case, it was filled with planes waiting for clearance to take off. There was at least 15 planes waiting along the several taxi ways. If from ariel view, i think it would be like a   major traffic light junction in KL city centre. On the announcement that the plane would need to wait about 45 minutes before it's our plane's turn to take off, people began walking up and down the aisle like it was a walkway for them to model. Since the flight is experiencing long delay, we quickily shoot an email to inform our ride that we would be late, and they need not arrive so early at the airport. Finally it came our turn to take off and off we go to Saigon City, Vietnam.

We landed about one hour later than scheduled, but it was all good as things was quite smooth.
The first purchase we made was a pre-paid sim card. The lady wasn't friendly at all, as she shouted that all was the same, except that each telco had a different selling price. It was quite easy to spot the driver that came to pick us as he was at the front line holding a card with our name and hotel name.

The city is filled with lots and lots of Motorcycle. We was told there is around 9 million motorcycle out of the population of 11 million in Saigon alone. The ride took about 30 minutes to arrive at our hotel as the road is quite jammed up. I notice that although the traffic light is red, but people will still cross and turn, it's as good as no traffic lights. After crossing numerous traffic lights during this trip, i still can't understand how it works.

The first task we had to do when we arrive near the hotel is to cross the road. Motocycles and Cars will just keep coming non-stop and you will just have to figure a way how to cross the street. I was told by a friend who often travels to Vietnam for business, that all you need to do is to have the courage and just cross the street slowly and steadily and they will make their own judgement to pass in front or behind of you, slow and steady that is.

During the check-in, we was given a map and told of the place of interest nearby, a guide book and explanation of the tours that we have booked (and those that we can book) which includes those for Hanoi. Since there are no escalator, we had to carry our luggages up two flight of stairs, which they said is first floor. The room was clean, tidy and decent. It consist of the basic things and the width of the toilet is just slightly wider than my shoulders, not much place to manuver inside.

After some slight unpacking, we headed off to our first place, Ben Thanh market, which is located not far from the backpackers area. All we had with us was a bottle of water and a map that was provided by the hotel. After walking down few streets (rows of shops), and crossing a park, we came to a place that looks similar to what we have been seeing in pictures, we have arrive at our destination. One building that caught my attention is the building that looks so similar to TM tower along Federal Highway. I wonder who was the original designer of that building, they look so alike from side ways.

Ben Thanh market look like a “Pasar” and there was a lot of tourist inside. It was much like Chatuchak in Bangkok, but much narrow and reduced in size. As we was hungry, we looked around the food stores, which had a similar layout with Singapore that had the hawker centre with the market beside it (think Bugis).

We settled for a store where they had a variety of noodle soup and a store where they had variety of drinks, most importantly is the price is clearly displayed. We ordered a bowl of fish cake mee and a cup of BoBo Chacha, it look more like ice kacang and cendol, but more colourful. It was delicous and suit our taste bud. After filling our tummy, we tried to do some shopping since we was here. The prices there are rideculous, more to come in later part of this story. We walk around and thought of buying some t-shirts for a start, in the end we settled for a corner store that had huge variety and the price was acceptable to us. As we wanted to buy few, the bargaining started, luckily she agreed as she started to sound agitated. Ben Thanh market had some zones where the prices are fixed and it's written clearly, i am not sure if it's true, but when i tried to ask for reduction, they decline, but this could be due to my inability to negotiate for lower price. We decided to head back to the hotel and rest awhile before dinner. People have started to pack the streets as evening turns into night, by both the locals and foreigners. On our way back, we saw a store selling the French bread, which is a must try. The last time i ate it, was during my trip to Siem Reap in 2009. It hard bread with fillings of fatty pork (lean pork is not yummy), some veg and sauce. It's so good and a must try when you are at Indo-China. Also picked up on our way back to the hotel is a bottle of Saigon beer (local beers is always a must for me when traveling).

The short nap after a bath took us all the way to 9pm. We thought of sleeping all the way til next morning, but decided against it as it was our first night in the city and that our lodging is at a happening part of the city. So we went out to discover the nightlife of Saigon city, or at least the street that we was at. We notice there was many people who are sitted on the sidewalk, drinking their beers facing the street. This continoued down along the street in front of shops that are still open for business. For the first night, we choose a quieter shop that had few westerners dinning there. Of course we looked at the menu and it seems decent enough to attract us. The shop is Five Oysters. Although that was the shop name, but we didn't order any seafood instead we had Vietnam spring rolls (steamed) and pork chop rice. On our way back to the hotel, we bought a 5 liter bottle of water that is manufactured by Nestle (at least a global trusted brand), there was another brand that is produced by Coca-cola or Pepsi. It was more economical to buy the largest bottle since we would need alot of it. Do note that every Circle K (yes, the same name with Bali's), the pricing of their products are different even along the same street. We went to 3 outlets on the same street, and all had different prices.

Monday, December 30, 2013

2013 in review by Facebook timeline

8 Jan 2013- Life is a journey. We are all going somewhere, but where are we going? We might be going in a different direction, we might meet at the crossroad once again, or we might not even cross path ever again.

5 Feb 2013- KONE ASC CNY lunch and lion dance. Bravo to my team of committee members.

8 Feb 2013- KONE ASC gave a 'bigger' Ang Pau. Thanks to the Manager for giving us more out of the budget.

14 Feb 2013- The day i started work and a bar of chocolate that change relationship.

16 Feb 2013- a movie called "I love Hong Kong" that drew two persons that have waited for each other that needed a 'match-maker' to ffk so that flower will bloom. The fever and headache that persisted the whole night and morning. Thank for Jenn for bring me porridge for lunch.

18 Feb 2013- The day Puchong had a huge flood that cause LDP and surrounding to reach a standstill. The night that gave two person a chance to get officially together. Reservation has been made.

March 2013- Bangkok Business trip. On the side, swing pass Chao Phya River, Asiatique Riverfront, Siam Paragon, Central World, MBK, Chatuchak Market. Thank you Slyvia for bring me to the wonderful restaurants over the weekend before 'reality' sets in for us.

May 2013- The Malaysia General Election Fever. One of the most intensively fought race. I was locked out of Facebook for 3 weeks due to the security settings being too high that it hit me right in the face.

June 2013- Back to Thailand for a getaway over the weekend. It was sun, sea and sand, Life's a 'beach' anyway. Right after landed, it was a hazy hazy week.

August 2013- The sudden stop in water supply that had the city rushing to stores and shops just to get water and food supply. It was just like an apocalypse had just breakout.

Monday, September 23, 2013

[Share] SWANSON'S 33 RULES OF MANAGEMENT

1: Learn to say, "I don't know." If used when appropriate, it will be used often.
2: It is easier to get into something than to get out of it.
3: If you are not criticized, you may not be doing much
4: Look for what is missing. Many know how to improve what's there; few can see what isn't there.
5: Presentation rule: When something appears on a slide presentation, assume the world knows about it and deal with it accordingly.
6. Work for a boss to whom you can tell it like it is. Remember, you can't pick your family, but you can pick your boss.
7: Constantly review developments to make sure that the actual benefits are what they were supposed to be. Avoid Newton's Law.
8: However menial and trivial your early assignments may appear, give them your best effort.
9: Persistence or tenacity is the disposition to persevere in spite of difficulties, discouragement or indifference. Don't be known as a good starter but a poor finisher!
10: In doing your project, don't wait for others; go after them and make sure it gets done.
11: Confirm the instructions you give others, and their commitments, in writing. Don't assume it will get done.
12: Don't be timid: Speak up, express yourself and promote your ideas.
13: Practice shows that those who speak the most knowingly and confidently often end up with the assignment to get the job done.
14: Strive for brevity and clarity in oral and written reports.
15: Be extremely careful in the accuracy of your statements.
16: Don't overlook the fact that you are working for a boss. Keep him or her informed. Whatever the boss wants, within the bounds of integrity, takes top priority.
17: Promises, schedules and estimates are important instruments in a well-run business. You must make promises — don't lean on the often-used phrase: "I can't estimate it because it depends on many uncertain factors."
18: Never direct a complaint to the top; a serious offense is to "cc" a person's boss on a copy of a complaint before the person has a chance to respond to the complaint.
19: When interacting with people outside the company, remember that you are always representing the company. Be especially careful of your commitments.
20: Cultivate the habit of boiling matters down to the simplest terms: the proverbial "elevator speech" is the best way.
21: Don't get excited in engineering emergencies: Keep your feet on the ground.
22: Cultivate the habit of making quick, clean-cut decisions.
23: When making decisions, the "pros" are much easier to deal with than the "cons." Your boss wants to see both.
24: Don't ever lose your sense of humor.
25: Have fun at what you do. It will be reflected in you work. No one likes a grump except another grump!
26: Treat the name of your company as if it were your own.
27: Beg for the bad news.
28: You remember 1/3 of what you read, 1/2 of what people tell you, but 100% of what you feel.
29: You can't polish a sneaker.
30: When facing issues or problems that are becoming drawn-out, "short them to the ground."
31: When faced with decisions, try to look at them as if you were one level up in the organization. Your perspective will change quickly.
32: A person who is nice to you but rude to the waiter, or to others, is not a nice person. (This rule never fails).
33: Never be afraid to try something new. Remember, an amateur built an ark that survived a flood while a large group of professionals built the Titanic!
 
Postscript: The qualities of leadership boil down to Confidence, Dedication, Integrity and Love.

Saturday, August 31, 2013

Nick Vujicic - CHC - 31 Aug 2013

I would like to share some quotes from the sharing of Nick Vujicic when he spoke at City Harvest Church on Merdeka day,


"The biggest disability is death, nothing is worst than it."
 "I am not sad, because i have hope."
 "You don't need to be like everyone else, you are you, be unique."
"Discipline comes from the word disciple."
"Remember that you live twice, once in this life, another when you have been resurrected after u have pass from this earth."
"There will always be ups and downs but God will be walking with you."
"God's love is not on performance basis, you won't need to earn it."
"To see hope when you don't see it takes faith."

FAITH = Full Assurance In The Heart

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

7 Ps (Marketing) 7 Ps (God's Love)

In marketing, the seven Ps are:
Product
Price(s)
Promotion
Place
Process
Physical Evidence
People

God's Love For Us are

Passionately
Personally
Perfectly
Powerfully
Possessively
Purposefully
Productively

Thursday, March 14, 2013

把它看完,你一定會有收獲

【第一節】一個男人在他妻子洗完澡後准備進浴室洗澡。這時,門鈴響了。
妻子迅速用浴巾裹住自己衝到門口。
當她打開門時,鄰居鮑勃站在那兒。
在她開口前,鮑勃說:“你如果把浴巾拿掉,我給你800美元。”
想了一會兒,這個女人拿掉浴巾赤裸地站在鮑勃面前。幾秒鐘後,鮑勃遞給她800美元然後離開了。
女人重新裹好浴巾回到屋裡。
當她踏進浴室時,丈夫問她,“是誰呀?”
“是鄰居鮑勃。”她回答。
“哦,”丈夫說,“他有沒有提到還欠我800美元?”

※故事寓意:
及時與同舟共濟的股東分享重要信息,將會避免不必要的曝光。


【第二節】一個銷售員、一個辦事員和他們的經理步行去午餐時發現了一盞古代油燈。
他們摩擦油燈,一個精靈跳了出來。
精靈說:“我能滿足你們每人一個願望。”
“我先!我先!”辦事員說,“我想去巴哈馬群島,開著快艇,與世隔絕。”
倏!她飛走了。
“該我了!該我了!”銷售員說,“我想去夏威夷,躺在沙灘上,有私人女按摩師,免費續杯的冰鎮果汁朗姆酒,還有一生中的最愛。”
倏!他飛走了。
“OK, 該你了。”精靈對經理說。
經理回答:“我要那兩個蠢貨午飯後馬上回來工作!”

※故事寓意:永遠讓你的老板開口先。


【第三節】一只鷹坐在高高的樹上休息,無所事事。
一只小兔子看見鷹並且問它,“我能像你一樣坐著什麼都不干嗎?”
鷹回答:“行啊,為啥不行。”
於是,兔子坐在鷹下面的地上休息。突然,一只狐狸出現了,它撲到兔子身上把它吃掉了。

※故事寓意:要想坐著無所事事,你必須坐在非常、非常高的位置。


【第四節】一只小鳥飛去南方過冬。天實在太冷了。它凍僵了,掉在一片田野上。
它躺在那兒時,一頭母牛走過來在它身上拉了一堆屎。
凍僵的小鳥躺在糞堆裡,開始感覺到了溫暖。
牛糞確實使它暖和過來了。
它躺在溫暖的牛糞中,異常高興,並開始唱起歌來。
一只過路的貓聽到鳥叫趕過來看個究竟。
順著聲音,它發現了牛糞下的小鳥,並迅速把它拖出來吃掉了。

※故事寓意:
(1) 並不是每個在你身上拉屎的都是你的敵人。
(2) 並不是每個把你拖出糞堆的都是你的朋友。
(3) 當你深陷糞堆中的時候,最好閉上你的鳥嘴。

【總 結】
一、學會 沉默
有時候,你被人誤解,你不想爭辯,所以選擇沉默。本來就不是所有的人都得了解你,因此你認為不必對全世界喊話。卻也有時候,你被最愛的人誤解,你難過到不想爭辯,也只有選擇沉默。全世界都可以不懂你,但他應該懂,若他竟然不能懂,還有什麼話可說?生命中往往有連舒伯特都無言以對的時刻,畢竟不是所有的是非都能條列清楚,甚至可能根本沒有真正的是與非。那麼,不想說話,就不說吧,在多說無益的時候,也許沉默就是最好的解釋。

二、至少 平靜
在你跌入人生谷底的時候,你身旁所有的人都告訴你:要堅強,而且要快樂。堅強是絕對需要的,但是快樂?在這種情形下,恐怕是太為難你了。畢竟,誰能在跌得頭破血流的時候還覺得高興?但是至少可以做到平靜。平靜地看待這件事,平靜地把其他該處理的事處理好。平靜,沒有快樂,也沒有不快樂。
  
三、學會彎腰 這會是我意外的收獲!
和別人發生意見上的紛歧,甚造成言語上的衝突,所以你悶悶不樂,因為你覺得都是別人惡意。別再耿耿於懷了,回家去擦地板吧。拎一塊抹布,彎下腰,雙膝著地,把你面前這張地板的每個角落來回擦拭干淨。然後重新省思自己在那場衝突,所說過的每一句話。現在,你發現自己其實也有不對的地方了,是不是?你漸漸心平氣和了,是不是?有時候你必須學習彎腰,因為這個動作可以讓你謙卑。勞動身體的同時,你也擦亮了自己的心緒。而且,你還擁有了一張光潔的地板呢。這是你的第二個收獲。

四、不要想 如果 當初
你說,人生是一條有無限多岔口的長路,永遠在不停地做選擇。如果只是選擇吃炒面或炒飯,影響似乎不大,但選擇讀什麼科系、做什麼工作、結婚或不結婚、要不要有孩子,每一個選擇都影響深遠,而不同的選擇也必定造就完全不一樣的人生。你又說,生命中不可承受之情,就在於人生沒有重來的機會啊。如果當初如何如何,現在就不會怎樣怎樣…這種充滿悵然的喃喃自語,還是別再多說了吧。每一個岔口的選擇其實沒有真正的好與壞,只要把人生看成是自己。獨一無二的創作,就不會頻頻回首如果當初做了不一樣的選擇。
  
五、努力吧!不管成功與否 至少曾經美麗
漫步林間,你看見一株藤蔓附著樹干,柔軟與堅實相互交纏,你感動於這靜美的一幕。讓幸福與歸屬就此駐足吧。你想。不知未來會有怎樣一番風雨摧折?也許藤將斷、樹會倒,也許天會荒,地將老。你又想。那麼,請時光停格在此刻吧。停格即是永恆。永恆裡若有這靜美的一刻,未來可能遭遇的種種劫難,便已得到了安慰與報償。

六、保持單純
因為思慮過多,所以你常常把你的人生復雜化了。明明是活在現在,你卻總是念念不忘著過去,又憂心忡忡著未來;堅持攜帶著過去、未來與現在同行,你的人生當然只有一片拖泥帶水。而單純是一種恩寵狀態。單純地以皮膚感受天氣的變化,單純地以鼻腔品嘗雨後的青草香,單純地以眼睛統攝遠山近景如一幅畫。單純地活在當下。而當下其實無所謂是非真假。既然沒有是非,就不必思慮;沒有真假,就無須念念不忘又憂心忡忡。無是非真假,不就像在做夢一樣了嗎?是呀,就單純地把你的人生當成夢境去執行吧。
  
七、偶爾’俗氣’…
吃多了健康食品,偶爾你也想啃一啃鴨舌頭和鹽酥雞。看多了大師名劇,偶爾你也想瞄一瞄耳光摔不完眼淚掉不完的連續劇。聽多了古典音樂,偶爾你也想唱一唱愛他一百年又恨他一萬年的流行歌曲。你知道健康食品對健胃整腸有意義,大師名劇對培養氣質有意義,古典音樂對提升性靈有意義,可是,偶爾你其實並不想讓自己時時刻刻活得那麼有意。人生不需要把自己綁得那麼緊。偶爾的小小放縱,是道德的。靈氣充滿或許接近大人,但偶爾的俗氣會更平易近人。

八、控制情緒 別浪費了~
今天的你,是不開心的你,因為有人在言語間刺傷了你。你不喜歡吵架,所以你離開;可是你只是離開了那,卻沒有離開被那人傷害的情境,因此你愈想愈生氣。愈有氣,你就愈沒有力氣去理會別的事情,許多更該用心去做去想去處理的事件,就在你漫天漫地的心煩意亂之中,被輕忽被漠視被省略了。因為,你只是一心一意地在生氣。在情緒上做文章,這是對自己的浪費,而且是很壞的浪費。畢竟,生氣也是要花力氣的,而且生氣一定傷元氣。所以,聰明如你,別讓情緒控制了你,當你又要生氣之前,不妨輕聲地提醒自己一句:“別浪費了。”
  
九、抓住最好的時機 絕不錯過!
你曾經買了一件很喜歡的衣裳卻舍不得穿,鄭重地供奉在衣櫃裡;許久之後,當你再看見它的時候,卻發現它已經過時了。所以,你就這樣與它錯過了。你也曾經買了一塊漂亮的蛋糕卻舍不得吃,鄭重地供奉在冰箱裡;許久之後,當你再看見它的時候,卻發現它已經過期了。所以,你也這樣與它錯過了。沒有在最喜歡的時候上身的衣裳,沒有在最可口的時候品嘗的蛋糕,就像沒有在最想做的時候去做的事情,都是遺憾。生命也有保存期限,想做的事該趁早去做。如果你只是把你的心願鄭重地供奉在心裡,卻未曾去實行,那麼唯一的結果,就是與它錯過,一如那件過時的衣裳,一如那塊過期的蛋糕。

十、偶爾的出離軌道!
某次你搭火車打算到A地去,中途卻忽然臨時起意在B地下了車。也許是別致的地名吸引了你,也許是偶然一瞥的風景觸動了你,總之,你就這樣改變了本來預定的行程,然後經歷了一場充滿驚奇的意外旅行。A地是你原先的目標,B地卻讓你體會了小小的冒險。回憶起來,你說,那是一次令你難忘的出軌經驗。生命中的許多時候不也如此?心無旁騖地奔赴唯一的目的,不過是履行了原本的行程而已;離開預設的軌道,你才有機會發現其他的風景。
  
十一、悄悄 悄悄地 回歸平靜..
曾經有一段時間,你心情低落,甚至懶得拉開窗簾,看著窗外的陽光。因此你當然也忘了去看看,窗台上那一盆每天都需要喝水的瑪格麗特。如此不知過了多久,總算有一天,你度過了心情的低潮,同時也想起了你的瑪格麗特。天啊,可憐的花,她還活著嗎?你戰戰兢兢地拉開窗簾,卻見她迎風招搖,花顏可掬。原來在過去的這段日子裡,你雖然忘了喂她喝水,老天卻沒忘了以雨露眷顧她呢。許多事物悄悄地在你的視線之外進行,而且悄悄地安排好了它們自己。天生萬物,天養萬物,一切其實無須擔心……你只要做的就是做好自己,不留任何遺憾…足矣。

Thursday, February 14, 2013

爱你一生

2013.1.4        爱你一生一世
2013.2.14        爱你一生爱一世 (Valentine's Day)
2013.5.20        爱你一生我爱你
2013.5.30        爱你一生我想你
2013.6.14        爱你一生又一世
2013.7.10        爱你一生娶定你
2013.9.9        爱你一生久久
2013.9.20        爱你一生最爱你
2013.11.14    爱你一心一意一世

Monday, February 04, 2013

喜欢什么花?

情人节快到了,男人问女人:亲爱的,喜欢什么花?
女人羞答答地道:我喜欢两种花。
男人急切地问:哪两种花?我送给你!
女人低头小声说:有钱花、随便花!
男人傻傻地说:你真美!
女人妩媚地问: 我哪美?
男人深情地说:想得美!

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

i was saying..



  1. Do not argue with an idiot. He will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.
  2. Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than standing in a garage makes you a car.
  3. The last thing I want to do is hurt you. But it's still on the list.
  4. Light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.
  5. War does not determine who is right - only who is left.
  6. To steal ideas from one person is plagiarism. To steal from many is research.
  7. A bus station is where a bus stops. A train station is where a train stops. On my desk, I have a work station.
  8. How is it one careless match can start a forest fire, but it takes a whole box to start a campfire?
  9. Dolphins are so smart that within a few weeks of captivity, they can train people to stand on the very edge of the pool and throw them fish.
  10. Why does someone believe you when you say there are four billion stars but check when you say the paint is wet?
  11. Behind every successful man is his woman. Behind the fall of a successful man is usually another woman.
  12. Always borrow money from a pessimist. He won't expect it back.
  13. A diplomat is someone who can tell you to go to hell in such a way that you will look forward to the trip.
  14. Hospitality: making your guests feel like they're at home, even if you wish they were.
  15. Money can't buy happiness, but it sure makes misery easier to live with.
  16. I used to be indecisive. Now I'm not sure.
  17. When tempted to fight fire with fire, remember that the Fire Department usually uses water.
  18. To be sure of hitting the target, shoot first and call whatever you hit the target.

Source: http://www.englishforums.com/content/humour/paraprosdokians.htm

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

什么叫政治

小明问爸爸:「老师要我們交一篇『政治』的作文,什么叫政治啊?」

爸爸推推眼鏡說:「这么比喻好了」
「妈妈管的是家裡大家事,就好比政府;爸爸出去賺錢回家,好比是財团;
家里的菲佣是替我們作事,就是劳工;你哥哥常常欺負你,就像是坏人;你哥哥的女朋友對你很好,像是好人;你呢,靠我們养你、保护你,就好比人民;弟弟比你年紀更小,是大家的未來。」

当当天晚上弟弟便便哭闹,小明叫不醒在熟睡的媽媽; 又看到爸爸在菲佣房間里,压在菲佣身上; 哥哥把女朋友弄得嗯嗯叫,他求助无門,第二天的作文写道:
「....政治是這样子的:人民在寻求帮助时,政府在熟睡,财团欺压劳工,
坏人欺負好人,这个时候,我们的未來只能在裤子大便,继续哭泣...」

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

G vs. G

Appearance
Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.
Women somehow deteriorate during the night.

Buying things
A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs. A woman will pay $1
for a $2 item that she doesn't need but it's on sale.



Disagreement
A woman has the last word in any argument. Anything a man
says after that is the beginning of a new argument.

Dressing up
A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the trash, answer the phone, read a book, get the mail, and the list goes on.
A man will dress up for Convocation, Weddings, Funerals and other event deem as important.

Future
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

Marriage
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, but she does.