Not long back, i was away for a simple weekend retreat up in the mountains.
One of the evening, i went for a breeze walk along the path where there was pine tree in abundance. Then i had this thought running through my mind, "If Pine = Choices".
There are many pines along the path, and if each of them are decision or choices that we have to make in mind, how would we know which would be the best for our life? The nicest? the prettiest? The fattest? the thinnest? the most bright colour? the darker colour? What if we pick one of it and feel that it is the best, but find other more attractive ones later. Do we throw or abandon our choice/ decision that we have made? do we continue to keep it, but have others as well?
God gave us the freewill to pick and choose what we want most. We are given the freedom of choice in life, it was not set by fate or destiny, it is held in your hands. To know his plan for you (Jeremiah 1:5), you would have to ask for his guidance when face with difficult choices that would make us think for days or even months, which might end up in years of deciding. When we sincerely ask for his generous love and guidance, we can then be more assured of the plan that he has for us.
What would happen if we want something else (the other choices that we are offered), would it offend him and make him angry, which might result in him not guiding us anymore since we have gone against his will, that he has for us. He is a generous and kind heart, slow to anger GOD. He will accept and respect our decisions that we made, but if anything goes wrong, it would be wrong to blame him for the failure, because he didn't create failure, it was OUR own choice, he didn't threaten to take back the life that he has given us despite we not "obeying" his plan. He will still guide us and show us the way for the choice that we have made.
Taking marriage as an example, it is our choice to get married to the person that we have chosen. Therefore divorce should not be happening because it was our own choice and freewill to pick our life partner.
I choose ONE pine during the walk and decided to take that back. After bring it back, i went out for another walk on another path. This path had even more pine, it was even bigger, nicer, and brighter colour. But i have made up my mind of taking only ONE back with me to PJ. So do i take the new choices, or stick with the current pine that i have chosen.
Temptations do come into play when we have many choices, it can come in many forms. I'm sure each and everyone of us has given in to temptations at one time or another.
Chinese proverb has a saying *Flower beside the road r always prettier, but dun simply take it for it might bring harm/ dis-harmony*.
Take your time to chose the right and most suitable, ask for GOD's guidance when the need arise. Be humble and he will show his plans and the best choice for us.
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Friday, September 24, 2010
一秒钟遇到一个人，一分钟认识一个人，一小时喜欢一个人，一天爱上一个人，但是要用一辈子去忘记一个人.
如果爱了,却爱在不对的时候,
除了珍藏那一滴心底的泪,无言的走远,又能有什么选择？
在对的时间，遇见对的人，是一种幸福
在对的时间，遇见错的人，是一种悲伤
在错的时间，遇见对的人，是一声叹息
在错的时间，遇见错的人，是一种无奈
〖以前〗☆→伤了→累了→儍了→怕了☆
【如今】☆→伤了→累了→儍了→怕了☆
〖现在〗☆→断了→忘了→分了→算了☆
【学会】☆→忘情→忘爱→忘伤→忘痛☆
你发觉到了吗？
爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、恋著你，不论做什么事情，只要能一起，就是好的，但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，你开始发现了对方的缺点，於是问题一个接著一个发生，你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，有人说爱情就像在捡石头，总想捡到一个适合自己的，但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？
如果爱了,却爱在不对的时候,
除了珍藏那一滴心底的泪,无言的走远,又能有什么选择？
在对的时间，遇见对的人，是一种幸福
在对的时间，遇见错的人，是一种悲伤
在错的时间，遇见对的人，是一声叹息
在错的时间，遇见错的人，是一种无奈
〖以前〗☆→伤了→累了→儍了→怕了☆
【如今】☆→伤了→累了→儍了→怕了☆
〖现在〗☆→断了→忘了→分了→算了☆
【学会】☆→忘情→忘爱→忘伤→忘痛☆
你发觉到了吗？
爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、恋著你，不论做什么事情，只要能一起，就是好的，但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，你开始发现了对方的缺点，於是问题一个接著一个发生，你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，有人说爱情就像在捡石头，总想捡到一个适合自己的，但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？
Sunday, September 19, 2010
哈佛圖書館的二十條訓言：
1.此刻打盹，你將做夢；而此刻學習，你將圓夢。
Nap now and you will dream, but study now and you will live your dream.
2.我荒廢的今日，正是昨日殞身之人祈求的明日。
What i wasted today, was the prayer of yesterday's people for tomorrow.
3.覺得為時已晚的時候，恰恰是最早的時候。
When you thought it is already late, it is the earliest time.
4.勿將今日之事拖到明日。
Don't drag today's matter into tomorrow.
5.學習時的苦痛是暫時的，未學到的痛苦是終生的。
Pain during study is temporary, those not learned are life-long pain.
6.學習這件事，不是缺乏時間，而是缺乏努力。
Studies is not lack of time, but lack of hardworking.
7.幸福或許不排名次，但成功必排名次。
Happiness might not have ranking, but success must have a ranking.
8.學習並不是人生的全部。但既然連人生的一部分───學習也無法征服，還能做什麼呢？
Studies might not be everything in life, but if even studies is unable to be conquer, what else can be done?
9.請享受無法迴避的痛苦。
Please enjoy the pain which is unavoidable.
10.只有比別人更早、更勤奮地努力，才能嚐到成功的滋味。
Only by being earlier and more diligent than others, then can success be tasted.
11.誰也不能隨隨便便成功，它來自徹底的自我管理和毅力。
Nobody can casually succeed, it comes from the thorough self-control and the will.
12.時間在流逝。
The time is passing.
13.現在流的口水，將成為明天的眼淚。
Saliva drip now, will become the tears of tomorrow.
14.狗一樣地學，紳士一樣地玩。
Learn like a dog, and play like a gentleman.
15.今天不走，明天要跑。
Today don't walk, tomorrow will have to run.
16.投資未來的人，是忠於現實的人。
Invest in future people, are those that are true to the reality.
17.受教育程度代表收入。
The education level represents the income.
18.一天過完，不會再來。
One day pass, it won't come back.
19.即使現在，對手也不停地翻動書頁。
Even now, your opponent are flipping the book pages non-stop.
20.沒有艱辛，便無所獲。
Without difficulty, how does rewards come.
Nap now and you will dream, but study now and you will live your dream.
2.我荒廢的今日，正是昨日殞身之人祈求的明日。
What i wasted today, was the prayer of yesterday's people for tomorrow.
3.覺得為時已晚的時候，恰恰是最早的時候。
When you thought it is already late, it is the earliest time.
4.勿將今日之事拖到明日。
Don't drag today's matter into tomorrow.
5.學習時的苦痛是暫時的，未學到的痛苦是終生的。
Pain during study is temporary, those not learned are life-long pain.
6.學習這件事，不是缺乏時間，而是缺乏努力。
Studies is not lack of time, but lack of hardworking.
7.幸福或許不排名次，但成功必排名次。
Happiness might not have ranking, but success must have a ranking.
8.學習並不是人生的全部。但既然連人生的一部分───學習也無法征服，還能做什麼呢？
Studies might not be everything in life, but if even studies is unable to be conquer, what else can be done?
9.請享受無法迴避的痛苦。
Please enjoy the pain which is unavoidable.
10.只有比別人更早、更勤奮地努力，才能嚐到成功的滋味。
Only by being earlier and more diligent than others, then can success be tasted.
11.誰也不能隨隨便便成功，它來自徹底的自我管理和毅力。
Nobody can casually succeed, it comes from the thorough self-control and the will.
12.時間在流逝。
The time is passing.
13.現在流的口水，將成為明天的眼淚。
Saliva drip now, will become the tears of tomorrow.
14.狗一樣地學，紳士一樣地玩。
Learn like a dog, and play like a gentleman.
15.今天不走，明天要跑。
Today don't walk, tomorrow will have to run.
16.投資未來的人，是忠於現實的人。
Invest in future people, are those that are true to the reality.
17.受教育程度代表收入。
The education level represents the income.
18.一天過完，不會再來。
One day pass, it won't come back.
19.即使現在，對手也不停地翻動書頁。
Even now, your opponent are flipping the book pages non-stop.
20.沒有艱辛，便無所獲。
Without difficulty, how does rewards come.
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Monday, September 13, 2010
Children vs Older people
Why some people prefer to look after children rather than older people.
(Responsibility put aside, and i'm not saying that we can abandon people who have watch us grow up, and those who are our elders.)
Children are cuter and more innocent. Older people have gone through life, and have learn valuable experience.
Children just started out, and is still learning. Older people can be said as "Ate more salt, than you eat rice"
Children learn things from us. We learn things from Older people.
Children are easier to teach. Older people is harder to teach due to restriction, we might just offend them. They might tend to feel that they know everything, and we know nothing, harder to teach them new things.
Children generally bring more joy and cheers into our life than Older people do?
Children when we see them, we are happier and let go of our worries. Older people when we see them, we might think of sadness, remorseful, and might think of things that has happen in their life, fear of becoming like them?
Having children around us, make it easier to know new friends. People might start off playing with the kid, and move on to start small talk with the parents/ "guardian"
People prefer having kids around, they add to the fun (except when people want peace and quiet)
(Responsibility put aside, and i'm not saying that we can abandon people who have watch us grow up, and those who are our elders.)
Children are cuter and more innocent. Older people have gone through life, and have learn valuable experience.
Children just started out, and is still learning. Older people can be said as "Ate more salt, than you eat rice"
Children learn things from us. We learn things from Older people.
Children are easier to teach. Older people is harder to teach due to restriction, we might just offend them. They might tend to feel that they know everything, and we know nothing, harder to teach them new things.
Children generally bring more joy and cheers into our life than Older people do?
Children when we see them, we are happier and let go of our worries. Older people when we see them, we might think of sadness, remorseful, and might think of things that has happen in their life, fear of becoming like them?
Having children around us, make it easier to know new friends. People might start off playing with the kid, and move on to start small talk with the parents/ "guardian"
People prefer having kids around, they add to the fun (except when people want peace and quiet)
Thursday, September 09, 2010
Diff way to promote
When u c a pretty gul in a party, u go 2 her n say 'Im rich, marry me', tat's Direct Marketing.
If ur fren goes 2 her n says tat he is rich, marry him, while pointing at u, tat's Advertising.
If d gul comes 2 u n say 'U r rich, I 1 2 marry u', tat's Brand Recognition.
But if u go 2 her n say 'Im rich, marry me' n she gives u a slap, tat's Customer Feedback.
If ur fren goes 2 her n says tat he is rich, marry him, while pointing at u, tat's Advertising.
If d gul comes 2 u n say 'U r rich, I 1 2 marry u', tat's Brand Recognition.
But if u go 2 her n say 'Im rich, marry me' n she gives u a slap, tat's Customer Feedback.
Monday, September 06, 2010
day 6/9/2010
This morning went to see my supervisor for the project, since i reach early than the scheduled time, i waited at the waiting area as he was discussing with another student.
There was fierce and powerful "shouts" coming from within...
One that I heard there are very powerful terrible curse / training sound. .
(OMG!! looks like he today PMS leh... will he also "kill" me later on)
After that he chatted in a much nicer tone with the girl, since he felt that her idea and scope is too humongous, too wide and will need a long time to finish it, which is impossible to be completed within a short and tight time frame.
And she came out, I entered. Gave him my proposal, and told him a summary of my idea for the project, which he gave some practical advice, so I am more clear on the path that i would like to take in order to get to my destination.
"Pray as you go, and everything will be alright"
"Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the LORD"
There was fierce and powerful "shouts" coming from within...
One that I heard there are very powerful terrible curse / training sound. .
(OMG!! looks like he today PMS leh... will he also "kill" me later on)
After that he chatted in a much nicer tone with the girl, since he felt that her idea and scope is too humongous, too wide and will need a long time to finish it, which is impossible to be completed within a short and tight time frame.
And she came out, I entered. Gave him my proposal, and told him a summary of my idea for the project, which he gave some practical advice, so I am more clear on the path that i would like to take in order to get to my destination.
"Pray as you go, and everything will be alright"
"Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the LORD"
Saturday, September 04, 2010
Guy should not start dating early in life.
Guy/ Men should not start dating early. Why?
They should study more while still young, and focus on building a successful career. Even when the time they are 40, there will still be 18 year old young girls falling right into their arms, giving them "tender loving care".
I believe that all men understand what is assets and liabilities.
Assets = Enter the pocket
Liabilities = Paid out from the pocket
Example: If you rent out a house which is higher than the payment of monthly installment, then it is an asset. (House rent income > Loan payment = Asset)
Superficial women will be a blocking stone in building up the business, asking for company often if not every moment, buying her material stuff, paying for her expenditures, those obviously are liabilities.
Think about it. Hmmmm......
其实男人不应该早拍拖
应该趁年轻多学多读，将来创一番事业，到时就算你40出，也会有18岁的美眉向你投怀送抱
相信所有男人都懂什么是资产与负债
资产=可以进入口袋的
负债=从口袋掏出的
例子（租出去的房子若高于你缴付的贷款=你的资产。）
其实肤浅的女人只会阻碍你在事业上的冲刺，要求你整天陪伴她，买包包请吃饭，这些很明显都是负债。
男人，有钱有女人
They should study more while still young, and focus on building a successful career. Even when the time they are 40, there will still be 18 year old young girls falling right into their arms, giving them "tender loving care".
I believe that all men understand what is assets and liabilities.
Assets = Enter the pocket
Liabilities = Paid out from the pocket
Example: If you rent out a house which is higher than the payment of monthly installment, then it is an asset. (House rent income > Loan payment = Asset)
Superficial women will be a blocking stone in building up the business, asking for company often if not every moment, buying her material stuff, paying for her expenditures, those obviously are liabilities.
Think about it. Hmmmm......
其实男人不应该早拍拖
应该趁年轻多学多读，将来创一番事业，到时就算你40出，也会有18岁的美眉向你投怀送抱
相信所有男人都懂什么是资产与负债
资产=可以进入口袋的
负债=从口袋掏出的
例子（租出去的房子若高于你缴付的贷款=你的资产。）
其实肤浅的女人只会阻碍你在事业上的冲刺，要求你整天陪伴她，买包包请吃饭，这些很明显都是负债。
男人，有钱有女人
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