Saturday, December 13, 2008

In life destiny to love you

Currently donno what to watch, then happen to come acrosss this show again, so just started watching it...
quite fun lo... but i dun think such things happen in life... at least nt in my life(for now).... i dun even get anything close to that... wat a sad life i have...

i want to share with u all this... maybe u have known it already... in tat case, u can just press the X on the right top corner...

三从四德
sán cóng sì dé

so what is this all about....?
it is the three obedience and four virtues that a couple have to "promise" to each other when they get married...

The three obedience
obey her father before marriage,
her husband when married,
and her sons in widowhood

The four virtues
morality,
proper speech,
modest manner,
and diligent work

“三从”:
未嫁从父,
既嫁从夫,
夫死从子。

“四德”:德、容、言、工
第一要紧是品德,能正身立本;
相貌(指出入要端庄稳重持礼,不要轻浮随便,);
言语(指与人交谈要会随意附义,能理解别人所言,并知道自己该言与不该言的语句);
治家之道(治家之道包括相夫教子、尊老爱幼、勤俭节约等生活方面的细节)。

现代的【三从四德】
============女朋友的三从四德============
男友言行要听从 Bf advice must listen
男友无知要盲从 Bf "blur blur" just forget
男友主意要服从 Bf idea must follow
男友多情要忍"得" Bf "extra love" must tahan
男友薄行要受"得" -
男友多疑要记"得" -
男友小气要就"得" Bf "small gas" is a NO
============男人的三从四德============
女朋友出门要跟"从" Gf go out must follow
女朋友命令要服"从" Gf command must follow
女朋友讲错要盲"从" Gf say wrongly, must act deaf
女朋友化妆要等"得" Gf put make up must wait
女朋友花钱要舍"得" Gf spend money must be generous
女朋友生气要忍"得" Gf angry must tahan
女朋友生日要记"得" Gf birthday must remember

版本二:男人的三从四德
何为‘三从’?就是‘服从,听从,跟从’;何为‘四德’?就是‘生日要记得,心思要懂得,花钱要舍得,挨打要忍得

Source: Baidu

2 comments:

Annoymous said...

hmm useful... but well not applicable to some.

luckycat8888 said...

是你的故事吗??