Monday, August 31, 2009

熊,狮子,猪在比厉害~~

熊:我一叫。。。
可以震动整个村。。。。!

狮子:我一轰。。。
可以震动整个森林。。。。。!

猪:我一打哈欠。。。
可以震动全世界。。。。。。!

熊,狮子:为什么???






猪:你们没看报纸的啊!!!
H1N1死了很多人也!!!!
哈哈哈哈哈~





熊,狮子:顶你。。。。

Sunday, August 30, 2009

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  或许天堂的青草并不象我们预料的一样疯长

  而只有在我们回头的时候

  才能看到思念无限蔓延的身躯

  早晚我们都将以各种姿势

  跌落在夏天的怀里

  是好是坏

  都不是我们的期许

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Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Chinese Valentine

年年七夕,今又七夕,迢迢银汉续传奇。鹊桥横架月如华,片片浮云传爱意。星似水,夜如纱,七夕佳梦美如花。祝福永恒,七夕快乐!

一切因为爱,生活变得浓情万千;一切因为爱,生活变得幸福无限。七夕送上我持久的爱,让相爱的人相扶到永远。

岁岁七夕时,牛郎会织女。鹊桥遥相望,相见何太急,两行泪无声,执手凝未语。含情细思量,脉脉诉衷肠。天下有情人,永远不分离。

银河之滨,与牛同饮,思念的苦水啊,波涛汹涌饮之不尽。鹊桥之上,与你共度,美好的时光啊,如梭似剪何其短暂。

本有一丝牵挂,不能二目传情,辗转三思而定,只愿四海升平,哪想五更难眠,却又六腑思念,终遇七夕佳节,祝福八方相传,坦露九鼎真言,欲成十全美眷!

你在河的那头,我在河的这头,思念埋于心底,汇成银河星斗!你在桥的那头,我在桥的这头,一年来的哀愁,鹊桥怎能承受?

七夕相思无从寄,托轮明月替。月半想你,月圆恋你,话在月儿中,心在月儿外。夜空密密点缀的星辰,是我密密的相思意。亲爱的,节日快乐!

点点飞星传情,片片纤云弄巧,脉脉月华如练,悠悠又见鹊桥。天淡银河垂地,相思无计回避。纵然千山万里,寄我心中情语:爱你永不变!七夕愉快!

七夕的星空,无限的感动,美丽的神话,传承不变的爱情。亘古不变的星空,许下坚贞的誓言:亲爱的,我要爱你天长地久,银河为证。

你知道吗?我对你一往情深、一心一意、一心无二。我的一言一行都有着对你深深的眷恋,我一言既出,驷马难追:我将爱你一生一世。亲爱的,七夕快乐!

七夕送七喜:喜从天降,喜气洋洋,喜上眉梢,喜笑颜开,喜形于色,喜出望外,喜眉笑眼。再祝有情人终成眷属,再发祝福无数,再来微笑一个:七夕快乐!

岁月变迁,银河不改璀璨,牛郎织女,羡煞鸳鸯神仙,四季相思,一年时间苦盼,鹊桥情缘,今天漫天缠绵,相隔虽远,遥送美好心愿,七夕祝福,浪漫幸福永远。

有种美令人窒息,把浓情写在初秋的七夕,让云儿飘荡着思念的情意,让风儿传递着永恒的惦记,让月儿照波动着牵挂的涟漪,让鹊儿带来着祝福的真挚。七夕快乐。

爱无悔,银河水,牛郎的情意真和美,情美好,喜鹊桥,织女的心意最美妙,老朋友,思念久,让我们一起握握手,七夕我们共同祝福,有情人终成眷属。

爱情的美好,友谊的鹊桥,今夜在宇宙中浪漫奔跑,甜蜜的微笑,幸福的味道,此刻在人群里幸福欢跳,又是一年七夕到,祝愿朋友身体好,前途好,爱情好。

牛郎一年守望在七夕,织女四季遐想在七夕,喜鹊飞翔欢乐在七夕,银河流淌深情在七夕,爱情美好榜样在七夕,祝福幸福感觉在七夕,愿你拥有快乐七夕。

佛说:在七月七给你认为爱情最幸福的人发个短信,你的一生也会快乐幸福!于是我想到了你。佛说:你真有眼光,收到你短信的人有福气了!
爱情的滋味,酸酸涩涩;恋爱的感觉,甜甜蜜蜜。恋人的相逢,是命中注定的缘。恋爱中的你,要学会珍惜。愿你七夕快乐,幸福一生。

麻雀遇见喜鹊,喜鹊无精打采。麻雀问:“七夕节到了,你不是应该忙着给牛郎织女搭鹊桥吗,怎么在这儿转悠呢?”喜鹊愁眉苦脸道:“牛郎织女现在整天发短信联系,用不着鹊桥了,我失业了!”

From Google China- For lovers
Wife: 'What are you doing?'
Husband : Nothing.
Wife : 'Nothing...? You've been reading our marriage certificate for an hour.'
Husband : 'I was looking for the expiry date.'

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Wife : 'Do you want dinner?'
Husband : 'Sure! What are my choices?'
Wife : 'Yes or no.'

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Wife: 'You always carry my photo in your wallet. Why?'
Hubby: 'When there is a problem, no matter how impossible, I look at your picture and the problem disappears.'
Wife: 'You see how miraculous and powerful I am for you!'
Hubby: 'Yes! I see your picture and ask myself what other problem can there be greater than this one?'

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Stress Reliever Girl: 'When we get married, I want to share all your worries, troubles and lighten your burden.'
Boy: 'It's very kind of you, darling, but I don't have any worries or troubles.'
Girl: 'Well that's because we aren't married yet.'

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Girl to her boyfriend: One kiss and I'll be yours forever .
The guy replies: 'Thanks for the early warning.'

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A wife asked her husband: 'What do you like most in me, my pretty face or my sexy body?'
He looked at her from head to toe and replied: 'I like your sense of humor.'

Monday, August 24, 2009

23 Aug 2009

this is just for a record... yesterday work 1 whole day at KL S, doing promotion there... the crowd are mostly people who have just came from the airport, and mostly passing through to change trains... there is a lot of couples passing there, holding hands, some even hugging while walking o... donno how they can walk some more... There was 1 boy who gave his gf a rose, there was no romantic moments at all... just pass to her, and she just take it.. unlike those movies... =(
The promo was very hard to do, unless they want or intending to sign up, then can close the deal, if not there will be no responds at all.. i was like an extra there, while people are all busy doing their own thing, i'm just standing there coz there is nothing that i can help with...
until almost closing, there was ONE couple who came in with the intention of signing up... in the end manage to close it... hope can get commission on that...

There are alot of pretty girls, all wearing face mask, so can't see their true beauty, but can still know that they are really pretty... hope H1N1 will end soon, then can see everyone's beauty again....

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Work @ Calling Part 2

Call A
Me: Can i speak to so&so...
Her: He don't have
sensing that she might be more comfortable in mandarin, so i change language to suit her.

Me: Since he is not in, then do he have a secretary?
Her: I'm lo... (damn shy voice) Anything?
Me: Blah blah blah~~~~
Her: I not sure o...
Me: then i fax it to you...
Her: ok, my number is blah blah blah..
Then ask her name... LOL~~

Call B
Her: How did you get our phone number?
Me: =) Business contact everywhere also got ma... Business ma~~
Her: LOL~~ right right, laughing with smiles, with my answer...
Me: haha LOL

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Today was not very happy in the office, coz some calls r just pissing me off....

i feel this people should not be given the chance to pick calls, for they don't speak diplomatically, and their answer are just unfriendly... their boss should give them some training on how to speak over the phone, and answer cases...

Scenario 1:
No idea at all, If no responds means that we are not interested. no need call and ask us.

Scenario 2:
Donno got receive or not. NO see. All mail will be pass to the boss.

Scenario 3:
Line engaged.
Me: i will call back in awhile.
Her: She got meeting at 3pm, cannot disturb her.

Scenario 4:
I think got. We have so many mails everyday, where got notice all of them. We have a lot of projects to do also, who cares bout all this surveys that is being carried out. No time for all this. Boss is very busy.
when ask for Boss secretary, she said:"she don't know anything. don't need ask her"
then who handles the mail, she said:"me la, i pass everything to the boss"
when ask if can pass to the secretary even if she don't know anything, she just won't pass the line.
Later the person who assign me the task, ask why never speak to secretary but only to an employee, i kena "scolding" lo...

At least answer people nicely ma, of course i know you all may have alot of mails, but why answer people like this o...

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Finish work today, i pass back my timesheet for the week, then admin ask me:" tomorrow not working? or stop till here"
i just said:"after this, if got any other thing you want me work, then just call me" FULL STOP.
Bye =)

Monday, August 17, 2009

Day @ Work, call all-day

Called a Penang office this morning, then spoke to one of the sweetest voice i ever heard... she sound so super cute voice, very gentle, those "innocent girl"s kind of voice. very sweet & lovely... should be around my age or younger, i think she should be doing internship there gua... but then forgot ask what is her name, after she help me out ='(

I wonder why big bosses sec r normally those very young voice girls... hmmm.... today called a few, all also like that... should be SYT gua. but not sweet lo...

How come some companies pick their phone in mandarin o... then if people donno, will think they called to china la... not only she pick the phone in chinese, but also talk damn soft and polite... until i almost can't hear her...

One of personals in a consultancy firm in north Johor, ask me to send the fax to whom maybe concern when i ask put Attn: to whom... if follow what he say, i sure kena my boss scold de... where can send like that, must have a person's name ma...

Donno is fate or what, i called a few companies today, also people just left their sit, or always also just happen answer call... one example is 1 that i called 3 times. 1st time he just went to toilet, 2nd time it just drop line, cut off... 3rd time, the person knows who i'm then ask:"r u so-and-so, wait a minute", my voice so easy to remember o.. He very polite and patient, sounds young, should be 20-ish..

Then some people ask, We must do this survey, is it compulsary? i said" no no, just encourage to participate la... coz not all get, u r are lucky to be pick" =P

Managing director pick the call hisself... later i see, only know he is a lawyer, should be doing pretty well gua, coz office in Bangsar.

Prefect english person:" Hello, this is the CEO office, how may i help you?" sound like ang-mo lo... i also try to use "better" english coz mine so lousy, so paiseh...

Just some memories to jot down in my blog...

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Day out 13 Aug

Afternoon PM - Night...

- Sing K at Redbox Lowyat Plaza
- Walk walk Lot 10
- Walk walk Pavilion- Dinner, shop a little...
- Back home...

Friday, August 07, 2009

A-Z of Make up names

A

Acqua Di Parma
Agent Provocateur
Alan Cumming
Alfred Dunhill
Alfred Sung
Alison Raffaele
Amazing Cosmetics
Anastasia
Anthony Logistics For Men
Aquolina
Arrogance Mix
Azzaro

B

B. Kamins Chemist
Badgley Mischka
Bare Escentuals
Beauty Buffet
BECCA
Benefit Cosmetics
Betsey Johnson
Blinc
Bliss
BORBA
Boscia
Bourjois
Bremenn Research Labs
Britney Spears
Burberry
Bvlgari

C

Calvin Klein
CARGO
Carlos Santana
Carol's Daughter
Carolina Herrera
Cartier
Caudalie
Cellex-C
CHANEL
CITY Cosmetics
Clarins
Clarisonic
CLEAN
Clinique
Comme des Garcons
Comptoir Sud Pacifique
Cosmedicine

D

Danielle Steel
Davidoff
DDF-Doctor's Dermatologic Formula
Decleor
Demeter Fragrance Library
Dermadoctor
Dessert Beauty
Diane von Furstenberg Beauty
Dior
DKNY
Dolce & Gabbana
Donna Karan
Dr. Brandt Skincare
Dr. Hauschka Skin Care
DuWop

E

Eau De Vie
EI Solutions
Emanuel Ungaro
Ermenegildo Zegna
Escada
Evian

E

Fake Bake
Salvatore Ferragamo
Frederic Fekkai
Fresh
Fresh Scents by Terri
Fusion Beauty

G

Gendarme
GHD
Giorgio Armani
Girlactik Beauty
Givenchy
Global Goddess
GoSMILE
Gucci
Guerlain
GUESS

H

Hanae Mori
Hard Candy
Hilary Duff
Hugo Boss

I

Imju Fiberwig
Issey Miyake

J

Jack Black
Jean Paul Gaultier
John Varvatos
Jonathan Product
Juice Beauty
Juicy Couture

K

Kenneth Cole
Kenzo
Kimora Lee Simmons
Kinerase
Klein-Becker
Korres Natural Products

L

L'Occitane
Lab Series For Men
Lacoste
La Maison de la Vanille
Lancaster
Lancome
Laura Geller
Laura Mercier
Laurence Dumont
LAVANILA
LOLA Cosmetics
Lolita Lempicka
LORAC
Lulu Beauty
Lulu Guinness

M

Make Up For Ever
Malin+Goetz
Marc Jacobs
Masaki Matsushima
MD Formulations
MD Skincare
Michael Kors
Missoni
ModelCo
Moschino
Murad
Mustela

N

Nanette Lepore
Napoleon Perdis
Narciso Rodriguez
NARS

O

Ojon
Ole Henriksen
Oscar Blandi

P

Paco Rabanne
Paris Hilton
Passport
Paul & Joe
Paula Dorf
Perfekt
N.V. Perricone M.D.
Personatalie
Peter Thomas Roth
PH Advantage
Philosophy
Phyto
Pinkie Swear
Pixi
Pop Beauty
Pout
Prada
Prevage

R

Ralph Lauren
Remede
REN
Rene Furterer
Robert Piguet
Rochas
Rosebud Perfume Co.
Rx for Brown Skin

S

Sean John
Sephora
Sephora Girls
Sephora Piiink
Shiseido
Shu Uemura
Skyn Iceland
Smashbox
St. Tropez Tanning Essentials
Stacked Style
Stella McCartney
Care by Stella McCartney
Stila
Sue Devitt
Sugar Cosmetics

T

T3
Talika
TanTowel
Tarte
Ted Gibson
Tend Skin
Terax Hair Care
TESS
TheBalm
Thierry Mugler
Tocca Beauty
Tom Ford
Too Faced
Tweezerman

U

Urban Decay

V

Valentino
Venexx
Vera Wang
Versace
Vincent Longo

Y

Yves Saint Laurent

Z

Z. Bigatti
Zeno
Zirh

Source(s):
sephora.com

Wednesday, August 05, 2009

Day out @ 5 Aug

Today took the day off to do some personal stuff...
My fren woke up, and come from the city coz she is putting up at Tune Hotel, KL... and wanted to come to 1-Utama for shopping spree...

met her at 1-U around 1PM, then went for lunch... after that was all the way shopping, one shop after another.... she spend bout RM80+ at Padini, me too.... but then she bought more things than me... before this, she bought things in another shop d.. so now is 3(2+1) bags... then she pass a booth selling wooden shoes... she wanted to buy both pair coz she donno which to choose... in the end she decided to get the more "casual" pair... then went into Parkson where i wanted to find a pair of office leather shoes... those sales girls r damn #%&!@#.... which pair i want also no size, and they don't even offer to help at all... some more all so free, chatting there.... since don't like, then went else where to get the shoes... she saw rings, and then after walking round 1-U(coz i said look around first), she went back to buy it... O ya, we also went to Watson to get some stuff... then to Guardian... then to Face shop -> Etude house... i love the things in Etude house, can touch up and care for so many things...

we had like 5 big bags on hands(both of them)... then around 7pm, only left the place, where i'm now blogging before i go shower up, and out i go again(BUT not shopping)...

Monday, August 03, 2009

这样吵架 会让他更爱你!

吵架也是门艺术,把架吵好了,不但不会伤感情,还会让他更爱你。要吵个好架,需要做到某些事情,也需要避免某些事情。下面我们就来说说:

要做到的事情之一:

要澄清对方的想法,也要清晰的表达自己的想法。举例来说,对方说:“我觉得你真的很自私”。你千万别急着反击:“那你呢?你又好到那边去?”你应该静下心来,问一下对方:“为什么你这么觉得,我做了什么事情让你感觉这样子?”这就是在澄清对方的想法。


如果对方提出的证据,你觉得不合理,你也应该要讲出你为什么觉得不合理的理由。清晰的表达彼此的想法,两个人的争吵才有可能有焦点,不然,很容易流于瞎打乱撞,吵不出什么结果。

要做到的事情之二:

要理清彼此的需求。问对方:“你要我怎么做?我怎么做你才会满意?”或者清晰的告诉对方,你要的是什么?他要怎么做你才会满意?

许多人吵架吵了半天,结果双方根本弄不清楚对方要的是什么。在这种情况之下,运用科学的定义是很重要的。举个例子来说,当对方说:“你每次都不会在意我的感受”。你可以问她:“我要怎么做,你才会觉得我在意你的感受?”如果他说:“我希望你能够常常陪我。”那么你可以问她:“你觉得一星期要几天陪你,你才会觉得我有在陪你,而没有忽略你的感受呢?”

千万不要觉得厘清这些问题很愚蠢,许多人的吵架出现纠缠不清的情况就是在这一个问题上。试想,如果对方说:“我希望你有时间就陪我”,而你说: “我真的不可能每天都陪你。如果一个星期有三天陪你,你可以接受吗?”你看,这不就是真正开始在沟通了吗?当你这么说时,对方可能就了解到自己的要求不合理,而会愿意提出一个较合理可行的要求。这种协商的方式比起在她一开始抱怨不被关心,你就勃然大怒、互相大吼好多了吧?

吵架的时候除了上述这两件重要的原则应该要做到之外,也要避免下列的这些事情:

一、不要谈一些不太可能改变的事情:

例如:嫌对方的身高不够高、身材不好或者赚得钱不够多…等。

如果你是被讲的一方,我建议你可以冷静的响应说:“我知道我的确是这样子。但是这就是我,我就是这样子。谈论这个问题对我们并不会有帮助。所以,我们要不要谈一些我可以改变的部分?”如果你是讲的那个人,那么我建议你要想清楚,对方可能就是这样子,你能够接受的话就接受这样的他,不能接受的话就要考虑离开他。勉强要对方做一些不可能达成的改变,只不过在增加彼此的挫折而已。如果他的问题是需要精神医疗处理的(如:冲动、酗酒、悲观、逃避人群),那么你应该协助他寻求专业的建议。

二、不要翻旧帐,要朝着未来的问题来争吵:

在争吵的过程中,不要一直在挖过去的旧帐来算。这只不过是在激起双方的情绪而已,对于事情的解决一点帮助都没有。我建议你常常说一句话:“好,那我们以后如果遇到类似今天的问题,我们要怎么办?”

你可以讲出你会怎么处理未来类似的问题,看看对方可不可以接受、他希望你怎么改变。你也可以问看看对方会怎么处理问题,看看你可不可以接受,讲出你的期待。常讲“我们以后如果遇到同样的事情要怎么办?”这样的一句话,可以帮你们把争论的重心从情绪的发泄转移到问题的解决。

三、不要打断对方:

你如果频频打断对方,很容易激起对方的怒气,要做有效的沟通就很困难了。你应该冷静的听完对方讲的话,然后针对里面的内容做澄清。如果对方讲的内容很多很杂,你可以要求他一次谈一个核心问题就好了。

然后在他讲完之后,你可以重述一遍他的想法,问看看他,你的理解是不是正确。通常盛怒中的对方会因为你准确的理解到他的感受而平静下来。所以,要让对方有机会顺畅的谈完自己的想法,这是很重要的。

但是,如果你在讲话的时候,对方会一直打断你呢?那么你可以直接跟他说:“你现在一直在打断我,这样子我没有办法讲我的想法。”当你已经提醒过两三次,对方依然会打断你的时候,那么你就可以说:“我觉得你一直在打断我,这样我们没办法沟通。如果你想要再谈的话,你就不要再打断我。如果你不能够做到这点的话,那么我们就明天再谈。”坚持你的立场,直到对方能够不再打断你,你才继续的沟通。

四、不要在激动的时候争吵:

当两个人情绪激动的时候,彼此越吼越大声,想到什么可以刺伤对方的话,脱口就说出来。这时候已经没有所谓的沟通,两个人的吵架就只是想要发泄愤怒而已。

所以,聪明的人应该要避开这些情绪激动的时候,闭紧双唇不吵架,等到心平气和的时候再来。


在下列的情况下,我会建议你不要吵架:

(1)开车时
(2)凌晨12:00以后
(3)喝酒之后
(4)身体不舒服或疲惫时

在上述这些情况之下,你的生理容易处在激动的状态,就像汽油一样易燃。一旦吵架,很容易演变成没有焦点的彼此吼叫。这样的架吵起来只有害处,没有好处。如果对方一直要找你吵架时,你可以跟他说:“现在你的情绪太激动了,我们谈起来不会有结果。我明天一定会找时间跟你谈这个问题。”这一点要坚持。