女生应该这样心疼男生哦

1、当你爱上一个男生，千万别去想自己是不是应该矜持一点。爱他就告诉他，有时候男人也很爱虚荣，你的表白会让他的自信达到顶点。
2、当你们已经相爱，那么就要对他信任，有什么想法就告诉他，不管他支持不支持。任何一个男子都希望他的女人依靠他。
3、在他的朋友面前，要给他十足的地位。面子对男子来说比什么都重要，不要介意在人前当个小女人，要知道小女人都是男人宠出来的。
4、他在打游戏的时候，不论你有多急的事情，也不要直接去关他的电脑。最好是搂着他，在他耳边轻轻的细语。因为男人对游戏的执迷胜过你看一部精彩的肥皂剧。
5、男人每个月也有那几天，跟女人差不多，心情无故低落。这个时候不要问他怎么了，只要陪在他身边。做好你自己。
6、他和朋友出去喝酒、打牌，你不要问他为什么不带你一块前往。男人都愿意做风筝，只要线还在你手里，那么就放他去飞吧。
7、男人都很懒很笨，尽管他爱你，但是不想费尽心丝讨好你，你所能做的就是在适当的时候给他个明示。男人有时候需要女人给他强有力的当头一棒。
8、男人不管他外表有多强大，但是骨子里都还是一个孩子。他在任性的时候不要对他大吼大叫，这对他不起做用。最有效的办法是陪他一起疯。等他平静后轻轻的告诉他你很爱他。
9、男人都是不肯认错的，在他知道错的时候给他一个台阶下。他会知恩图报的。
体谅一个男人，那就是把他当成你的爱人、情人、哥哥、朋友、父亲、孩子。爱他，不要给他负担，给他自由，也给自己自由。做女人要知道什么时候该进什么时候 该退。什么时候该挡在他的前面；什么时候该躲在他身后。把他当成你自己一样去爱护，成全了他的幸福，他才会成全你的幸福。

right move to make???

I resigned from a job tat can pay me well, not much benefits except "good pay", maybe "learning process with learning curves" for the future. I left it wit super short notice for something that looks promising, sounds since because around three thousand plus (3000) applications was made, but only 100 odd people was given the chance to participate in the training and development program. Leaving the good pay job had consequences of being tag with a note that i gave short notice and left in a hurry, which may (will) affect my future employability and might (have) put a negative information to my name.

My (ex) manager said that they too can offer learning curves and learning process as long as i am interested and can contribute towards the development of the project when i get involve and can prove that i should be given a chance at it. Leaving the job for something that has no assurance (bonded for 1 year + 1 year with high penalty if drop-out) was a very risky thing to do, and together with it i might get "black listed" because of my sudden departure from the organization. I left the job for the training program was to gain more knowledge and above all, a better understanding and overview of the industry. My manager said that they can offer the same if not better, and she shared with me the things that i can achieve and do if i was to stay on, i might be learning even better things and insights.

It still do ponder upon me if i have made the correct move at the current moment in life, because i left a good paying job (which offer me more money to spend and save, compared to something that is "low allowance"). I know that i can no longer make any changes because i have committed to it, and i would have to endure and go through all the challenges that i will be faced with. Hopefully this would be a life changing experience for the better part of me.

How many people would actually leave a good paying job when all the world talks is base on how much you can make! The more you earn, the greater your ability, the more respected and your voice is heard!