Sunday, October 17, 2010

Emotional healing after a break-up

Reviewing
Looking back into what went wrong ,what did you learn from it, how to grow and make it better. By acknowledging the mistake you can avoid it in the future, moving forward hereon.

Be responsible
Be responsible for your part in the breakup. Even if you didn't end it or they cheated, you had a role to play. Don’t point the finger and blame as it manifests resentment which you will carry with you.

Move on
By not letting go, you can't move on. The only way to be able to fall in love again is to fully let go of what happened and your ex. Make sure you discharge the negative feelings before starting the new journey.

Renew you
Be the best that you can be and concentrate on the strengths you have. Create a plan to fill in what is missing or needs developing so that you can be the best datable version of yourself.

Deserving
Realise that no matter what happened in the past, you deserve love, just like anybody else.

You are ready to start anew, but do not rush into it, take your time and do your own research.
Good luck, and may GOD guide you in your decisions.

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