Today we finally met again for our gathering. Planning to have monthly gatherings for this year. With Cameron trip abandon for this weekend, we change to an alternative plan, visiting pewter factory, what better factory to visit than the Royal Selangor Pewter factory (4 Jalan Usahawan 6, Setapak Jaya. 53300 Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia). When we arrive there, few other tour groups was also seen. At first we followed behind a Japanese group, but one of the staff approached us and gave us a guided tour of the factory. Many things can be seen, and we did manage to get our hands on 1 of the step (the hammering of the mini tankard). We also saw the factory working area, it was huge. After that, the tour ended and we was looking at the items on sale there.
We then went to Wangsa Walk Mall. Spend awhile inside and went to look for dinner outside, as someone said there is a place that is good. The place is called "4 Happy Season", located opposite Wangsa Walk, Cold storage side. The portion there are quite big. I ordered 'Maryland Chicken', it was so big, i think 2 person can share that meal.
Saturday, January 22, 2011
Thursday, January 13, 2011
FSTEP interview
Morning i left my house at around 7.30am, scared it might jam.. But the traffic was indeed heavy, but smooth flowing, so i reach the destination pretty soon, around 7.45am. I was going within speed limit all the way, no speeding or dangerous driving at all.
When i arrived, there was only 1 staff that has came into office. Waited awhile before the rest came. We 'sign-in' and they verified our documents. Before beginning with the first part: English Proficiency test (1). 40 questions and was given 30 mins to finish it. Scoring below 22 would mean 'Go home', score of 23-32 would then move on to the next part: Harrison Assessment. Score of 33 and above would move on to the next level: English Proficiency test (2). English Proficiency (2) have 20 questions and 15 mins to finish. EP2 was tough and it is set at British Council standard, selection of words are close and you have to finish which suits the sentence the best. 2 was send home after EP1, 3 went on to do EP2, while the rest scored 23-32. I was lucky to have went on doing the whole English Proficiency test.
Harrison Assessment had 17 group of questions. Each group had 8 selections and you are required to rank it #1 best describe you; #8 least describe. The first few are pretty okie as it eliminate those that are not associated with you, but as you progress on, they would use back your top selections and from those few you would have to keep re-ranking them based on the importance to you. Time allocated for this part is 30 mins.
After finishing the Harrison Assessment, you are given numbers to pick, and it would then be the question number that you are required to write an essay on the given topic. Time allocated for this is 30 mins, and have to write within 70 words. My topic was "Money, Banking and globalization". I think this is the bigger topic as there are a lot of things that can be written on each area. Some other topic is "What would your 5 year plan be", "The happiest moment in your life"
Now that we are all back in the 'social room', there is 6 of us left, 2 guys and 4 girls.
We are then called by name. The corridor is not that long, but it seems like a long walk for me, as everything that i have dream and think of, is down to this final moment. While walking down, all i did was just pray to God. Waited outside the room (3 rooms was used) while the panel read our background. I was standing with another girl, and we both was rather nervous coz there are industry people among them. Wish "Good luck" to each other, and open the door, the moment i have been waiting for the past year. My panel was a lady from HSBC Malaysia, Specialist from FSTEP, and an Independent trainer.
Started off with my studies and family background. Then went on to talk about my previous job experience and what i have learn and gain from it. Why i want to join FSTEP and how would it benefit me, why i want to join the financial and insurance sector, how would it benefit me, and what area would i be most interested in.
One of the scenario: If there are few staff under you, which all are suppose to be working as a team, but there is one person that don't do the work that is given, come in late, and just don't give you a damn. It would certainly affect the teamwork, what would you do?
With this interview, i have done my best. Leaving the outcome and decisions in God's hand.
When i arrived, there was only 1 staff that has came into office. Waited awhile before the rest came. We 'sign-in' and they verified our documents. Before beginning with the first part: English Proficiency test (1). 40 questions and was given 30 mins to finish it. Scoring below 22 would mean 'Go home', score of 23-32 would then move on to the next part: Harrison Assessment. Score of 33 and above would move on to the next level: English Proficiency test (2). English Proficiency (2) have 20 questions and 15 mins to finish. EP2 was tough and it is set at British Council standard, selection of words are close and you have to finish which suits the sentence the best. 2 was send home after EP1, 3 went on to do EP2, while the rest scored 23-32. I was lucky to have went on doing the whole English Proficiency test.
Harrison Assessment had 17 group of questions. Each group had 8 selections and you are required to rank it #1 best describe you; #8 least describe. The first few are pretty okie as it eliminate those that are not associated with you, but as you progress on, they would use back your top selections and from those few you would have to keep re-ranking them based on the importance to you. Time allocated for this part is 30 mins.
After finishing the Harrison Assessment, you are given numbers to pick, and it would then be the question number that you are required to write an essay on the given topic. Time allocated for this is 30 mins, and have to write within 70 words. My topic was "Money, Banking and globalization". I think this is the bigger topic as there are a lot of things that can be written on each area. Some other topic is "What would your 5 year plan be", "The happiest moment in your life"
Now that we are all back in the 'social room', there is 6 of us left, 2 guys and 4 girls.
We are then called by name. The corridor is not that long, but it seems like a long walk for me, as everything that i have dream and think of, is down to this final moment. While walking down, all i did was just pray to God. Waited outside the room (3 rooms was used) while the panel read our background. I was standing with another girl, and we both was rather nervous coz there are industry people among them. Wish "Good luck" to each other, and open the door, the moment i have been waiting for the past year. My panel was a lady from HSBC Malaysia, Specialist from FSTEP, and an Independent trainer.
Started off with my studies and family background. Then went on to talk about my previous job experience and what i have learn and gain from it. Why i want to join FSTEP and how would it benefit me, why i want to join the financial and insurance sector, how would it benefit me, and what area would i be most interested in.
One of the scenario: If there are few staff under you, which all are suppose to be working as a team, but there is one person that don't do the work that is given, come in late, and just don't give you a damn. It would certainly affect the teamwork, what would you do?
With this interview, i have done my best. Leaving the outcome and decisions in God's hand.
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
Fashion Retail interview
I reach there early because scared traffic jam, KL traffic is unpredictable.
The place is very huge, big lobby wit friendly receptionist.
As someone was inside, so i had to wait for her to finish.
First was about my family background, then went on to ask about my previous working experience. So blah blah blah~~ Then discuss about the job scope, how does it work, what is expected and so on. Then they ask how do i select a company, what are the criteria, and how do i rank them. Then talk more on the company and its structure (retail, operations). Then ask about my expectation of the job, my future plans, what i would like to gain from the company.
In total, i was inside the room for almost 1 and the half hour, didn't know time pass so fast, because it was going on and on, linking one part into another. Alot of details was discuss. I would say that it went smooth, but donno did i surpass their expectation. Hopefully will get this job.
The place is very huge, big lobby wit friendly receptionist.
As someone was inside, so i had to wait for her to finish.
First was about my family background, then went on to ask about my previous working experience. So blah blah blah~~ Then discuss about the job scope, how does it work, what is expected and so on. Then they ask how do i select a company, what are the criteria, and how do i rank them. Then talk more on the company and its structure (retail, operations). Then ask about my expectation of the job, my future plans, what i would like to gain from the company.
In total, i was inside the room for almost 1 and the half hour, didn't know time pass so fast, because it was going on and on, linking one part into another. Alot of details was discuss. I would say that it went smooth, but donno did i surpass their expectation. Hopefully will get this job.
Friday, January 07, 2011
Chain Jewellery store.
After i got a call for interview middle this week, i went online and tried to search on information regarding this chain store, but didn't manage to get much information, and didn't come across anything on their interview process. I feel that i should write it down, so that people can read about it, and it may just be it.
The interview was in a group a.k.a Group Interview. This round had 8 of us. Heard that last round had almost 20 of them. Most of the people are in their last 20's and 30's. Aged closest to me among them is 1987, but he has been working for the past 4 years, doing part-time study at Open University.
Their 'compensation' is very unique, at least i haven't seen something like this yet. Maybe for MLM have such thing la..
During trainee (training period), 1st Month- RM 1000, 2nd Month- RM 2000, 3rd Month- RM 3000, and so on till 12th Month- RM 12000 (max). Which means each month additional RM1000.
Simple calculation: If you work the whole 1 year as trainee, you would be getting RM6 500 on average each month, RM 78 000/ year.
The bonus is even better, dun blink your eyes! If sales target is hit, it would be 9 months!!! which is RM12 000 x 9mth = RM 108 000.
Year 2 ( should be Outlet Sales Manager already)- RM12 000 + RM3600 (or increase 30% of last pay)= RM15 600. That would be fixed for the whole year, no more additional of RM1000 per month.
Year 3- RM15 600 + 30%
The interview was unique because it was not the normal interview questions. They would assess you based on 2 question:
Round 1. Tell anything about your background in 3 language + 1 dialect.
Round 2. Tell any story, be it funny, real case, or even experience sharing.
The interview was in a group a.k.a Group Interview. This round had 8 of us. Heard that last round had almost 20 of them. Most of the people are in their last 20's and 30's. Aged closest to me among them is 1987, but he has been working for the past 4 years, doing part-time study at Open University.
Their 'compensation' is very unique, at least i haven't seen something like this yet. Maybe for MLM have such thing la..
During trainee (training period), 1st Month- RM 1000, 2nd Month- RM 2000, 3rd Month- RM 3000, and so on till 12th Month- RM 12000 (max). Which means each month additional RM1000.
Simple calculation: If you work the whole 1 year as trainee, you would be getting RM6 500 on average each month, RM 78 000/ year.
The bonus is even better, dun blink your eyes! If sales target is hit, it would be 9 months!!! which is RM12 000 x 9mth = RM 108 000.
Year 2 ( should be Outlet Sales Manager already)- RM12 000 + RM3600 (or increase 30% of last pay)= RM15 600. That would be fixed for the whole year, no more additional of RM1000 per month.
Year 3- RM15 600 + 30%
The interview was unique because it was not the normal interview questions. They would assess you based on 2 question:
Round 1. Tell anything about your background in 3 language + 1 dialect.
Round 2. Tell any story, be it funny, real case, or even experience sharing.
Saturday, January 01, 2011
Happy 2011
Happy New Year. May 2011 be a great year ahead for all of you. The best and wonderful showering of Love, Peace and Joy be in your hearts.
Wednesday, December 08, 2010
Worthy
From A story of becoming Worthy
Dear future wife,
As I write these words, I know that you are somewhere out there, and you have a smile, a laugh, a heartbeat and I know you are waiting for me. People tell me that I shouldn’t wait for u, that I should just go have fun, and throw my heart around, but I don’t want to do that. I want to save everything for you. I want you to have my first walk at the ocean shore; I want you to have my first dance beneath the starlight. And someday you will, someday I will take you on adventure that your heart dare not to dream.
Someday I will marvel at the masterpiece that is your heart. Someday I am going to make you feel as beautiful as you are. And when I write it, and when God calls me, I am going to sweep you off your feet, and chase you with all my heart, but I am not ready.
NO!!! I am not going to let that happen, I know you deserve better than this. And I know I am not ready. Well, not yet.
Dear future wife, in order to get to you, I need to get through many trials and tribulations, but I want to let you know that you are worth it.
Youtube link
Dear future wife,
As I write these words, I know that you are somewhere out there, and you have a smile, a laugh, a heartbeat and I know you are waiting for me. People tell me that I shouldn’t wait for u, that I should just go have fun, and throw my heart around, but I don’t want to do that. I want to save everything for you. I want you to have my first walk at the ocean shore; I want you to have my first dance beneath the starlight. And someday you will, someday I will take you on adventure that your heart dare not to dream.
Someday I will marvel at the masterpiece that is your heart. Someday I am going to make you feel as beautiful as you are. And when I write it, and when God calls me, I am going to sweep you off your feet, and chase you with all my heart, but I am not ready.
NO!!! I am not going to let that happen, I know you deserve better than this. And I know I am not ready. Well, not yet.
Dear future wife, in order to get to you, I need to get through many trials and tribulations, but I want to let you know that you are worth it.
Youtube link
Sunday, December 05, 2010
Inter Cultural Youth Leadership (ICYL) camp
Day 1
Arrive at the Hotel in Shah Alam at around 4.30pm. Check in time is from 2pm-6pm. Registered and was asked to wait while the rooms are being prepared. After almost 1 hour of waiting, I finally was given the card to the room. Unfortunately when I arrive at the room, it was not able to open the room doors, and after checking with the reception, they had mix up the room allocation, and that set of room is for another group. So I had to wait for approximately 30 minutes before I was designated to another room. I shared it with 2 Punjabi (age 15 and 18). The program started off with a Chinese 6 course + 1 dessert dinner. Then there was the soft launching of the event with representative from each religion calling upon the divine (prayer), welcoming address by organizing committee, and introduction to the events. Then we were divided into our own groups. Good night and lights off.
Day 2 started off with breakfast at 7.30, group bonding and discussion. At 9am, Opening ceremony was done with the presents of Tan Sri Dr Koh Tsu Koon. He went around group to group shaking participant’s hand. He made a short speech on the important of unity among the various groups, stating that it was a good initiative for the better future of Malaysia. We had our first team building activity called The Maze. We had to find our way along 8x10 boxes, something like snake and ladder, but this mat was unmark and blank, just a moderator will know the route, and will say if its correct or not, if wrong step, then go back to start again, try until you reach finish. There is forwards and backwards, because life is like that, sometimes you would need to take a step back, and the next might just be 3 steps forwards. There is difference of standing from outside and within, it is a totally different playing field, because when you are in there, you can only see one step at a time, and is afraid if you make the wrong choice. It can also be confusing when many people are telling you different things at the same time. Trust the person that you placed your trust in, or just follow your heart. If you make a wrong move, re-plan and start from beginning and be quick to “return into action”, most things can be started again and its not end of the road always. Having mid term review when things goes wrong could be a good move, especially when people are going their own path. Frustration is bound to happen and good communications is essential for the success of the team.
“Failure to plan is a plan to fail”.
“Vision without action is a dream, Action without vision passes time”
Afternoon session was a group discussion on “Globalization and the challenges for nation building”, what is the way forward for the nation in a rapidly changing world. There was questions being discussed and presented at the end of the program to the Director-General of the Department of Unity and integration, under the Prime Minister department.
It is the people who make up the organization that is responsible for the development of it. Eg: You can't go on a Monday morning to CIMB and tell the door or building that you want a loan, but would have to meet with the people who work inside the bank. The same thing applied, the bank wouldn't grow into the 2nd largest bank in Malaysia without the people who make it happen. A country too needs the support and commitment of the people to make it happen. At the beginning of the camp, someone told me "If you have no money then better migrate, if you have money then can stay on". The same time, i saw Hannah Yeoh wrote on Twitter that she hear another of her friend would be migrating soon. To make changes come true, and 1Malaysia a reality, the country would have to be need based, moving away from the current based that it deploys.
In the evening, we had a mass celebrated by Fr. Michael Chua. It was conducted with the presences of some Syria Orthodox, including Cor Episcopal.
After the mass, we quickly freshen up and went for dinner, which was in Malay style.
After dinner, we rehearse for our Talent time presentation. Just tried out 2 times, and our team manage 2 bring the house laughing from beginning til end.
Each team was given a hamper for sharing within the group as bonding sessions.
Goodnight and lights off.
Day 3
Morning woke up, there was no power supply to the room… not even lights, air-con, toilet lights or electricity is available for our room. In the end, just open the curtains (there is nothing high nearby, to be able to look into the room) and showered in the dark, testing of how well we know where the things are.
Went down for breakfast and started the session with talk and interactive discussion with Dato’ Ghazali Dato’ Yusoff and Datuk Paul Chan, where they shared about their life experience and how they placed God at the center of their life. The most successful person is not always at the top, but the one who has overcome the most obstacles. Ego and ignorance must always be avoided at all cost.
We must learn to respect all Malaysian with understanding. Tolerance should be change into understanding and acceptance, accepting that we are all different yet has the same common goal.
We also had another Team building called “House building”. We did this in a blindfolded manner, where everyone cannot see yet have to gain forces to build the house using 17 satay sticks (3D model). We had to have good communication, good planning, trust that each will play their part well, look after their own “department” well and not interfere with other people’s work except with their respective partners. Our group was named as the best and most efficient model team in terms of doing it with good planning and co-ordination. We adopted the factory model, where we worked in pairs, 1 holding the sticks together, and the other joining it together using tapes. There was much frustration when the things you want are not given to you, delaying the work.
Closing ceremony was held with the attendance of DG of the Department of Unity and integration. Our team came in 2nd place in the overall points scoring competition (most points are given for the team building and talent time).
Team names:
Machines
1Melody
M.A.M.A.K
Ma-chin-dian
Synergy
Suggested initiatives:
H.O.P.E- Honouring Our Parents Everyday.
Noble Son/ Daughter award.
Among some of the speakers are:
Shankar Santhiram, Lawyer, Management trainer, he has trained CIMB, Petronas, Daikin and etc.
Dato J. Jegathesan, Former Deputy D-G of MIDA, currently consultant to the Goverment of Japan (JICA) and Gov of Zambia, having advice them on economic and social matters.
Prof. Dr. Suresh Kumar Govind, Professor at University of Malaya Department of Parasitology, Management consultant, and has won many internationally recognize awards under his belt.
Arrive at the Hotel in Shah Alam at around 4.30pm. Check in time is from 2pm-6pm. Registered and was asked to wait while the rooms are being prepared. After almost 1 hour of waiting, I finally was given the card to the room. Unfortunately when I arrive at the room, it was not able to open the room doors, and after checking with the reception, they had mix up the room allocation, and that set of room is for another group. So I had to wait for approximately 30 minutes before I was designated to another room. I shared it with 2 Punjabi (age 15 and 18). The program started off with a Chinese 6 course + 1 dessert dinner. Then there was the soft launching of the event with representative from each religion calling upon the divine (prayer), welcoming address by organizing committee, and introduction to the events. Then we were divided into our own groups. Good night and lights off.
Day 2 started off with breakfast at 7.30, group bonding and discussion. At 9am, Opening ceremony was done with the presents of Tan Sri Dr Koh Tsu Koon. He went around group to group shaking participant’s hand. He made a short speech on the important of unity among the various groups, stating that it was a good initiative for the better future of Malaysia. We had our first team building activity called The Maze. We had to find our way along 8x10 boxes, something like snake and ladder, but this mat was unmark and blank, just a moderator will know the route, and will say if its correct or not, if wrong step, then go back to start again, try until you reach finish. There is forwards and backwards, because life is like that, sometimes you would need to take a step back, and the next might just be 3 steps forwards. There is difference of standing from outside and within, it is a totally different playing field, because when you are in there, you can only see one step at a time, and is afraid if you make the wrong choice. It can also be confusing when many people are telling you different things at the same time. Trust the person that you placed your trust in, or just follow your heart. If you make a wrong move, re-plan and start from beginning and be quick to “return into action”, most things can be started again and its not end of the road always. Having mid term review when things goes wrong could be a good move, especially when people are going their own path. Frustration is bound to happen and good communications is essential for the success of the team.
“Failure to plan is a plan to fail”.
“Vision without action is a dream, Action without vision passes time”
Afternoon session was a group discussion on “Globalization and the challenges for nation building”, what is the way forward for the nation in a rapidly changing world. There was questions being discussed and presented at the end of the program to the Director-General of the Department of Unity and integration, under the Prime Minister department.
It is the people who make up the organization that is responsible for the development of it. Eg: You can't go on a Monday morning to CIMB and tell the door or building that you want a loan, but would have to meet with the people who work inside the bank. The same thing applied, the bank wouldn't grow into the 2nd largest bank in Malaysia without the people who make it happen. A country too needs the support and commitment of the people to make it happen. At the beginning of the camp, someone told me "If you have no money then better migrate, if you have money then can stay on". The same time, i saw Hannah Yeoh wrote on Twitter that she hear another of her friend would be migrating soon. To make changes come true, and 1Malaysia a reality, the country would have to be need based, moving away from the current based that it deploys.
In the evening, we had a mass celebrated by Fr. Michael Chua. It was conducted with the presences of some Syria Orthodox, including Cor Episcopal.
After the mass, we quickly freshen up and went for dinner, which was in Malay style.
After dinner, we rehearse for our Talent time presentation. Just tried out 2 times, and our team manage 2 bring the house laughing from beginning til end.
Each team was given a hamper for sharing within the group as bonding sessions.
Goodnight and lights off.
Day 3
Morning woke up, there was no power supply to the room… not even lights, air-con, toilet lights or electricity is available for our room. In the end, just open the curtains (there is nothing high nearby, to be able to look into the room) and showered in the dark, testing of how well we know where the things are.
Went down for breakfast and started the session with talk and interactive discussion with Dato’ Ghazali Dato’ Yusoff and Datuk Paul Chan, where they shared about their life experience and how they placed God at the center of their life. The most successful person is not always at the top, but the one who has overcome the most obstacles. Ego and ignorance must always be avoided at all cost.
We must learn to respect all Malaysian with understanding. Tolerance should be change into understanding and acceptance, accepting that we are all different yet has the same common goal.
We also had another Team building called “House building”. We did this in a blindfolded manner, where everyone cannot see yet have to gain forces to build the house using 17 satay sticks (3D model). We had to have good communication, good planning, trust that each will play their part well, look after their own “department” well and not interfere with other people’s work except with their respective partners. Our group was named as the best and most efficient model team in terms of doing it with good planning and co-ordination. We adopted the factory model, where we worked in pairs, 1 holding the sticks together, and the other joining it together using tapes. There was much frustration when the things you want are not given to you, delaying the work.
Closing ceremony was held with the attendance of DG of the Department of Unity and integration. Our team came in 2nd place in the overall points scoring competition (most points are given for the team building and talent time).
Team names:
Machines
1Melody
M.A.M.A.K
Ma-chin-dian
Synergy
Suggested initiatives:
H.O.P.E- Honouring Our Parents Everyday.
Noble Son/ Daughter award.
Among some of the speakers are:
Shankar Santhiram, Lawyer, Management trainer, he has trained CIMB, Petronas, Daikin and etc.
Dato J. Jegathesan, Former Deputy D-G of MIDA, currently consultant to the Goverment of Japan (JICA) and Gov of Zambia, having advice them on economic and social matters.
Prof. Dr. Suresh Kumar Govind, Professor at University of Malaya Department of Parasitology, Management consultant, and has won many internationally recognize awards under his belt.
Sunday, November 21, 2010
女生与男生应该懂得的几件事
女生应该懂得的几件事:
1、一个女人如果第一眼就让男人想到性，那么她是很失败的。
2、当你从床上下来那一刻，你在他心中就开始贬值了。如果你把一切都给了现在的男友，那么，除了老公这个称呼你还能留给你未来的丈夫?
3、一个女人的品位在于她身边站着一个怎样品位的男人。女人一生最成功的事情之一，便是选了一个对的男人。
4、一个男人爱你的时候，你往往会感动于细节，同样，一个男人不爱你了，你也可以从细节中来发现。
5、想了解一个男人的好坏，先去看他身边是一群怎样的朋友。
6、女人的友情来的快，去的也快。其实男女感情远没有你跟姐妹的感情可靠，所以，珍惜你们之间的友情吧。
7、把买化妆品的钱去买两本好书，漂亮的容颜固然可以让人眼前一亮，丰富的内涵却能让人经久不忘。
8、虚伪的男人总倾向于喜欢你的容貌，真正的男人总倾向于爱你的内心。
9、男人没有你想象的那样好，可以真爱，但不要深爱，在爱情里为自己留个退路，否则受伤时会措手不及。
10、不要相信男人的甜言蜜语，面对喜欢的女孩时，不认识字的男人也会变成一个诗人。而诗人本来就不生活在现实中。
11、去发现一个有潜力的男人，往往比去傍大款更切合实际。并且你会更有成就感。
12、随时预防遇到色狼。必要时向他胯下踢，用力程度自己把握。
13、这个世界上，最值得你爱的，除了父母，只有你自己。
14、爱情不是追来的，所以，永远不要认为被男孩追是理所当然的。但是，你对他的考验是必须的。
15、当一个清高的女孩遇到一个高傲的男孩时，总有一个人会卑微下来，但是如果可以, 不要把自己放得太低。
16、在爱情里，永远不要抱怨什么。
17、爱情，是需要用心经营的。恋爱也是一门艺术。
男生应该懂得的几件事:
1、如果，你不能给她一个美好的未来，那么，请不要把她哄上床。
2、不能做到的，就不要承诺。男人，膝下有黄金，嘴里也有黄金，不要轻易答应什么，因为你可能会食言。
3、把她的地位放在游戏之上，毕竟她是那个肯能会陪你一辈子的人，游戏只是消遣罢了。
4、你可以为了父母去教训自己的爱人，但是不能为了爱人去背弃自己的父母。如果她对你父母一直不好，那么她可以离开了。
5、如果不是生在帝王富贵家，那么找女朋友，不要只看重她的长相，而要学会欣赏她的内涵。你找伴侣，不是在找情人，而应该是在找妻子。
6、一个成功的男人身边，需要一个相对优秀的女人。而这种优秀，与她的容貌无关，与她的内涵相连。
7、如果不擅长讨女孩欢心，那就去讨自己的未来欢心吧。男人，不是来征服女人的，而是来征服世界的。
8、你一生担负的责任很多，但最重要的是四个，对自己的父母负责，对自己的未来负责，对自己的女人和感情负责，对这个世界负责。
9、不要总想着玩弄感情，小心它有天会玩弄了你。
10、物以类聚，人以群分，这句话对男人很贴切。跟上进的人交朋友，跟有人生品位的人交朋友，你会获益很多。
11、这个世界上，最值得你爱的，除了父母，还有自己的女人和哥们，然后才是你自己。
12、爱情不是追来的。如果你死皮赖脸追求了很久，她却无动于衷，那么哥们，放下吧。有时，咱男人的尊严比一个女人更重要。
不要相信男人的甜言蜜语，面对喜欢的女孩时，不认识字的男人也会变成一个诗人。而诗人本来就不生活在现实中。
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1、一个女人如果第一眼就让男人想到性，那么她是很失败的。
2、当你从床上下来那一刻，你在他心中就开始贬值了。如果你把一切都给了现在的男友，那么，除了老公这个称呼你还能留给你未来的丈夫?
3、一个女人的品位在于她身边站着一个怎样品位的男人。女人一生最成功的事情之一，便是选了一个对的男人。
4、一个男人爱你的时候，你往往会感动于细节，同样，一个男人不爱你了，你也可以从细节中来发现。
5、想了解一个男人的好坏，先去看他身边是一群怎样的朋友。
6、女人的友情来的快，去的也快。其实男女感情远没有你跟姐妹的感情可靠，所以，珍惜你们之间的友情吧。
7、把买化妆品的钱去买两本好书，漂亮的容颜固然可以让人眼前一亮，丰富的内涵却能让人经久不忘。
8、虚伪的男人总倾向于喜欢你的容貌，真正的男人总倾向于爱你的内心。
9、男人没有你想象的那样好，可以真爱，但不要深爱，在爱情里为自己留个退路，否则受伤时会措手不及。
10、不要相信男人的甜言蜜语，面对喜欢的女孩时，不认识字的男人也会变成一个诗人。而诗人本来就不生活在现实中。
11、去发现一个有潜力的男人，往往比去傍大款更切合实际。并且你会更有成就感。
12、随时预防遇到色狼。必要时向他胯下踢，用力程度自己把握。
13、这个世界上，最值得你爱的，除了父母，只有你自己。
14、爱情不是追来的，所以，永远不要认为被男孩追是理所当然的。但是，你对他的考验是必须的。
15、当一个清高的女孩遇到一个高傲的男孩时，总有一个人会卑微下来，但是如果可以, 不要把自己放得太低。
16、在爱情里，永远不要抱怨什么。
17、爱情，是需要用心经营的。恋爱也是一门艺术。
男生应该懂得的几件事:
1、如果，你不能给她一个美好的未来，那么，请不要把她哄上床。
2、不能做到的，就不要承诺。男人，膝下有黄金，嘴里也有黄金，不要轻易答应什么，因为你可能会食言。
3、把她的地位放在游戏之上，毕竟她是那个肯能会陪你一辈子的人，游戏只是消遣罢了。
4、你可以为了父母去教训自己的爱人，但是不能为了爱人去背弃自己的父母。如果她对你父母一直不好，那么她可以离开了。
5、如果不是生在帝王富贵家，那么找女朋友，不要只看重她的长相，而要学会欣赏她的内涵。你找伴侣，不是在找情人，而应该是在找妻子。
6、一个成功的男人身边，需要一个相对优秀的女人。而这种优秀，与她的容貌无关，与她的内涵相连。
7、如果不擅长讨女孩欢心，那就去讨自己的未来欢心吧。男人，不是来征服女人的，而是来征服世界的。
8、你一生担负的责任很多，但最重要的是四个，对自己的父母负责，对自己的未来负责，对自己的女人和感情负责，对这个世界负责。
9、不要总想着玩弄感情，小心它有天会玩弄了你。
10、物以类聚，人以群分，这句话对男人很贴切。跟上进的人交朋友，跟有人生品位的人交朋友，你会获益很多。
11、这个世界上，最值得你爱的，除了父母，还有自己的女人和哥们，然后才是你自己。
12、爱情不是追来的。如果你死皮赖脸追求了很久，她却无动于衷，那么哥们，放下吧。有时，咱男人的尊严比一个女人更重要。
不要相信男人的甜言蜜语，面对喜欢的女孩时，不认识字的男人也会变成一个诗人。而诗人本来就不生活在现实中。
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Monday, November 15, 2010
亲爱的主耶稣，我承认我是一个罪人，求你赦免我一切的罪。现在，我邀请你进入我的生命，做我个人生命的主。谢谢你，如今我相信我已经是一个新造的人。祷告奉耶稣的名。阿们。
- Aaron Goh -
Dear Lord Jesus, I admit that I am a sinner, I pray to thee to pardon all my sins. Now, I invite you into my life, Be the Lord of my Life. Thank you, I believe I am new person now. Pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.
- Aaron Goh -
Dear Lord Jesus, I admit that I am a sinner, I pray to thee to pardon all my sins. Now, I invite you into my life, Be the Lord of my Life. Thank you, I believe I am new person now. Pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.
Monday, November 08, 2010
War of paintball
Yesterday was my first time playing paintball (yes, finally!)..
It was the 3rd time it was organized by the same person, but the first and second time, it clash with some of my unavoidable schedule. (1st-Bukit Jalil, 2nd-Desa)
Left my house around 8am, and reach Taman Melawati around 9am.. after almost everyone have gathered, we set out for the destination, somewhere in Gombak in 9 cars, with 34 person.
Hang around awhile as they was preparing the 'weapons', and had a short briefing on the rules and how to play, particularly the safety measures which have to be observe due to the danger involved.
Thee first game. 2 groups, each 16. We played in 2 large interconnected field, so were 8 vs 8, with 8 vs 8, have to get both flags within 15 minutes to win. . Initially had discomfort with the mask due to spectacles, another problem was when playing the game, it frost up very easily, making everything blur and cannot be seen.
My virgin paintball shot was in on the eye area.. Maybe coz they aim for the head, like in counter strike, "Headshot!!" Anther shot landed on the mouth area, with the 'orange juice' splashing into my mouth.. the liquid tasted bitter... First round was won by my team.
Then we switch sides, this time, i hid in the house.. There was always shots being fired towards us, we can feel the impact, but was hiding behind those wood. the mask began to frost, and i was hit on the knee when i tried to return fire. After that, shots came from both, the front and sides, ended was cornered in the house..
Rested for awhile before the next game, putting up the flag in the middle, and make it stand for 1 minute, during which it can be push away. I hid behind a big tree, which is near the middle, which i enjoyed firing those who came to put the flag, but was hit by a dropping shot, i wonder how did they aim leh.. and it hit me on the head, just above the mask area. I guess its like a souvenir for me lo, coz a little swollen.
After that we had our lunch which was a super small packet of super spicy fried rice, it was cooked with large cili and cili padi fry together. . But then when hungry, whatever also will just eat la..
After came 4 vs 4 (not by group, but any random 8 person who want to play, 50 shots each), in the smaller field. . . Its much exciting than the big jungle setting.
Actually i didn't wanted to play, since sure will get shot at close range, but the 1st 8 people, 2nd 8 people. . Then another round, so i just went ahead coz it seems nice. . . My side had 2 boys and 2 girls. Just awhile after the game started, i was shot in the body. =(
Change sides play, not really ready to play, then it was started, so ended with 3 in the same hiding place. . harder to play, unless can move very fast..
After that was another game of 32 people . . This time i was at the upper level of the house, but the mask became blur soon, and was shot in the head again.. so high also kena so accurately.
I thought didn't got shot many time, but after shower, i realize that i kena on head, wrist, arm, body, with some on the legs. .
It was the 3rd time it was organized by the same person, but the first and second time, it clash with some of my unavoidable schedule. (1st-Bukit Jalil, 2nd-Desa)
Left my house around 8am, and reach Taman Melawati around 9am.. after almost everyone have gathered, we set out for the destination, somewhere in Gombak in 9 cars, with 34 person.
Hang around awhile as they was preparing the 'weapons', and had a short briefing on the rules and how to play, particularly the safety measures which have to be observe due to the danger involved.
Thee first game. 2 groups, each 16. We played in 2 large interconnected field, so were 8 vs 8, with 8 vs 8, have to get both flags within 15 minutes to win. . Initially had discomfort with the mask due to spectacles, another problem was when playing the game, it frost up very easily, making everything blur and cannot be seen.
My virgin paintball shot was in on the eye area.. Maybe coz they aim for the head, like in counter strike, "Headshot!!" Anther shot landed on the mouth area, with the 'orange juice' splashing into my mouth.. the liquid tasted bitter... First round was won by my team.
Then we switch sides, this time, i hid in the house.. There was always shots being fired towards us, we can feel the impact, but was hiding behind those wood. the mask began to frost, and i was hit on the knee when i tried to return fire. After that, shots came from both, the front and sides, ended was cornered in the house..
Rested for awhile before the next game, putting up the flag in the middle, and make it stand for 1 minute, during which it can be push away. I hid behind a big tree, which is near the middle, which i enjoyed firing those who came to put the flag, but was hit by a dropping shot, i wonder how did they aim leh.. and it hit me on the head, just above the mask area. I guess its like a souvenir for me lo, coz a little swollen.
After that we had our lunch which was a super small packet of super spicy fried rice, it was cooked with large cili and cili padi fry together. . But then when hungry, whatever also will just eat la..
After came 4 vs 4 (not by group, but any random 8 person who want to play, 50 shots each), in the smaller field. . . Its much exciting than the big jungle setting.
Actually i didn't wanted to play, since sure will get shot at close range, but the 1st 8 people, 2nd 8 people. . Then another round, so i just went ahead coz it seems nice. . . My side had 2 boys and 2 girls. Just awhile after the game started, i was shot in the body. =(
Change sides play, not really ready to play, then it was started, so ended with 3 in the same hiding place. . harder to play, unless can move very fast..
After that was another game of 32 people . . This time i was at the upper level of the house, but the mask became blur soon, and was shot in the head again.. so high also kena so accurately.
I thought didn't got shot many time, but after shower, i realize that i kena on head, wrist, arm, body, with some on the legs. .
Saturday, October 30, 2010
女生拒绝的台詞
1.我們還是當朋友好了（其實你還有可以利用的價值）
2.我想我真的不適合你（我根本就不喜歡你！）
3.其實你人真的很好（可是我不想和你在一起）
4.你人真的很好（我是真的不想和你在一起）
5.你人真的真的很好….真的（豬頭,離我遠一點！）
6.我暫時不想交男朋友（閃邊啦！你還不到我心中帥哥標準的一半）
7.我不想傷害我們之間的友誼（我們之間也只會有友誼）
8.我心中牽掛著一個人（那個人是我專門為你這種人虛構的）
9.我從來沒想過這個問題（這是根本不可能的.還用想嗎？）
10.我不適合當個情人（廢話,沒人會適合當你的情人的）
11.你給我一段時間考慮（不給我時間,我怎麼溜啊）
12.你的條件真的很好（可是還沒好到我想要的地步）
13.可是這樣的感覺好怪（你這醜八怪,怪到這樣還想吃天鵝肉？）
14.你的溫柔我會銘記在心的（拜託,情聖！光溫柔是沒用的,還要有錢！）
15.其實我一直沒勇氣接受你（看到你差點嚇死,哪還有勇氣？）
16.你真的很可愛（你真的很幼稚）
17.你真的是超級可愛啦（豬頭,不要象小孩那樣纏著我！）
18.遇到你,總會讓我重溫童年的快樂（就象阿姨遇到小弟弟那樣）
19.我們應該給彼此一點緩衝時間（給你時間快滾,再不走我要翻臉啦！）
20.別人都說你條件不錯啊（可我從來沒這樣認為！）
21.如果我們早點認識就好了（可以讓你早點覺悟！）
22.別急嘛,我們可以做朋友（趁這個時候我要找到我的白馬王子啊.你就做后备马）
2.我想我真的不適合你（我根本就不喜歡你！）
3.其實你人真的很好（可是我不想和你在一起）
4.你人真的很好（我是真的不想和你在一起）
5.你人真的真的很好….真的（豬頭,離我遠一點！）
6.我暫時不想交男朋友（閃邊啦！你還不到我心中帥哥標準的一半）
7.我不想傷害我們之間的友誼（我們之間也只會有友誼）
8.我心中牽掛著一個人（那個人是我專門為你這種人虛構的）
9.我從來沒想過這個問題（這是根本不可能的.還用想嗎？）
10.我不適合當個情人（廢話,沒人會適合當你的情人的）
11.你給我一段時間考慮（不給我時間,我怎麼溜啊）
12.你的條件真的很好（可是還沒好到我想要的地步）
13.可是這樣的感覺好怪（你這醜八怪,怪到這樣還想吃天鵝肉？）
14.你的溫柔我會銘記在心的（拜託,情聖！光溫柔是沒用的,還要有錢！）
15.其實我一直沒勇氣接受你（看到你差點嚇死,哪還有勇氣？）
16.你真的很可愛（你真的很幼稚）
17.你真的是超級可愛啦（豬頭,不要象小孩那樣纏著我！）
18.遇到你,總會讓我重溫童年的快樂（就象阿姨遇到小弟弟那樣）
19.我們應該給彼此一點緩衝時間（給你時間快滾,再不走我要翻臉啦！）
20.別人都說你條件不錯啊（可我從來沒這樣認為！）
21.如果我們早點認識就好了（可以讓你早點覺悟！）
22.別急嘛,我們可以做朋友（趁這個時候我要找到我的白馬王子啊.你就做后备马）
Friday, October 22, 2010
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
以前的女人 vs 现在的女人
以前的女人都是随便挑个都是处女的---现在的女人你要处女就要去幼儿园的
以前的女人都是结婚以后才能上床的---现在的女人都是不谈恋爱就可上床的
以前的女人把纯洁看的比生命重要的---现在的女人把XXXX天天挂在嘴边的
以前的女人都是一个男人赚钱养她的---现在的女人都是许多男人赚钱养她的
以前的女人都是把婚姻当一种责任的---现在的女人都是把婚姻当金钱筹码的
以前的女人都是结婚以后相夫教子的---现在的女人都是结婚以后想分家产的
以前的女人都是结婚以后善待公婆的---现在的女人都是结婚以后虐待公婆的
以前的女人都是要求男女理性平等的---现在的女人都是只知索取不愿付出的
以前的女人怀孕清楚谁是孩子父亲的---现在的女人怀孕不明白是谁的孩子的
以前的女人都是下班就赶回家做饭的---现在的女人都是老公和婆婆给做饭的
以前的女人都是躲在老公怀里撒娇的---现在的女人都是躲在大款怀里发情的
以前的女人都是老公出门都很担心的---现在的女人都是你去哪管她们个B事的
以前的女人都是说话轻声细语温柔的---现在的女人都是恶声恶语夜叉投胎的
以前的女人相亲都是看男人的人品的---现在的女人你要有钱是王八她也嫁的
以前的女人给男人说我们一起奋斗的---现在的女人说你没钱要我嫁你做梦的
以前的女人天冷了给爱人都织毛衣的---现在的女人只会怨你买不起这和那的
以前的女人和你见面只问你的工作的---现在的女人和你见面只问房子存款的
以前的女人的心是天上的白云纯净的---现在的女人的心都是市侩狡诈毒辣的
以前的女人和男友分手了是要痛哭的---现在的女人和男友分手要哈哈大笑的
以前的女人和老公离婚了是要独居的---现在的女人和老公离婚前就有预备的
以前的女人都是穿衣服要淑女雅致的---现在的女人学生像小姐小姐像学生的
以前的女人把岳母和婆婆都当亲娘的---现在的女人把婆婆就当老妈子使唤的
以前的女人持家把一分钱掰两半花的---现在的女人交给她多少钱也不够用的
上述言论纯粹分享，不针对任何的观众，如有雷同，纯粹巧合
以前的女人都是结婚以后才能上床的---现在的女人都是不谈恋爱就可上床的
以前的女人把纯洁看的比生命重要的---现在的女人把XXXX天天挂在嘴边的
以前的女人都是一个男人赚钱养她的---现在的女人都是许多男人赚钱养她的
以前的女人都是把婚姻当一种责任的---现在的女人都是把婚姻当金钱筹码的
以前的女人都是结婚以后相夫教子的---现在的女人都是结婚以后想分家产的
以前的女人都是结婚以后善待公婆的---现在的女人都是结婚以后虐待公婆的
以前的女人都是要求男女理性平等的---现在的女人都是只知索取不愿付出的
以前的女人怀孕清楚谁是孩子父亲的---现在的女人怀孕不明白是谁的孩子的
以前的女人都是下班就赶回家做饭的---现在的女人都是老公和婆婆给做饭的
以前的女人都是躲在老公怀里撒娇的---现在的女人都是躲在大款怀里发情的
以前的女人都是老公出门都很担心的---现在的女人都是你去哪管她们个B事的
以前的女人都是说话轻声细语温柔的---现在的女人都是恶声恶语夜叉投胎的
以前的女人相亲都是看男人的人品的---现在的女人你要有钱是王八她也嫁的
以前的女人给男人说我们一起奋斗的---现在的女人说你没钱要我嫁你做梦的
以前的女人天冷了给爱人都织毛衣的---现在的女人只会怨你买不起这和那的
以前的女人和你见面只问你的工作的---现在的女人和你见面只问房子存款的
以前的女人的心是天上的白云纯净的---现在的女人的心都是市侩狡诈毒辣的
以前的女人和男友分手了是要痛哭的---现在的女人和男友分手要哈哈大笑的
以前的女人和老公离婚了是要独居的---现在的女人和老公离婚前就有预备的
以前的女人都是穿衣服要淑女雅致的---现在的女人学生像小姐小姐像学生的
以前的女人把岳母和婆婆都当亲娘的---现在的女人把婆婆就当老妈子使唤的
以前的女人持家把一分钱掰两半花的---现在的女人交给她多少钱也不够用的
上述言论纯粹分享，不针对任何的观众，如有雷同，纯粹巧合
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Emotional healing after a break-up
Reviewing
Looking back into what went wrong ,what did you learn from it, how to grow and make it better. By acknowledging the mistake you can avoid it in the future, moving forward hereon.
Be responsible
Be responsible for your part in the breakup. Even if you didn't end it or they cheated, you had a role to play. Don’t point the finger and blame as it manifests resentment which you will carry with you.
Move on
By not letting go, you can't move on. The only way to be able to fall in love again is to fully let go of what happened and your ex. Make sure you discharge the negative feelings before starting the new journey.
Renew you
Be the best that you can be and concentrate on the strengths you have. Create a plan to fill in what is missing or needs developing so that you can be the best datable version of yourself.
Deserving
Realise that no matter what happened in the past, you deserve love, just like anybody else.
You are ready to start anew, but do not rush into it, take your time and do your own research.
Good luck, and may GOD guide you in your decisions.
Looking back into what went wrong ,what did you learn from it, how to grow and make it better. By acknowledging the mistake you can avoid it in the future, moving forward hereon.
Be responsible
Be responsible for your part in the breakup. Even if you didn't end it or they cheated, you had a role to play. Don’t point the finger and blame as it manifests resentment which you will carry with you.
Move on
By not letting go, you can't move on. The only way to be able to fall in love again is to fully let go of what happened and your ex. Make sure you discharge the negative feelings before starting the new journey.
Renew you
Be the best that you can be and concentrate on the strengths you have. Create a plan to fill in what is missing or needs developing so that you can be the best datable version of yourself.
Deserving
Realise that no matter what happened in the past, you deserve love, just like anybody else.
You are ready to start anew, but do not rush into it, take your time and do your own research.
Good luck, and may GOD guide you in your decisions.
Thursday, October 14, 2010
Outing with 8 Jap boys
今天带８个日本男学生出去玩。
这个已经是第３次了。。也许是最后一次了，因为我要毕业了，朋友（接的）也要毕业了。
跟他们讨论有点乱，因为双方都不明白，而且一直有意识混乱。
一直走下走下就跟他们讨论。最后从TS去了central market。
在Pasar Seni的lrt，其中一个人被＂卡在里面＂因为他把card放了，却没有走出来，而另个也放了进去就走出来，变成一个没有卡＂开门＂。
哪个guard就乱来，说去跟counter说，counter却说叫guard拿卡出来，让他再放进去。之后supervisor来了，我就讲讲讲讲讲讲，过后她也懒得理，我就叫他直接跟紧走出来。
过后在central market没有几下就给他们走完了，也没买什么东西，就说要换地方（又接近下班时间了，lrt肯定塞），就带他们去china street，走个圈就出来了。
过后就过去the mall，他们住附近。
吃了McD，也拍了几张照片。
离别时，他们一直不想走将，因为才刚熟悉而已哦。
这个已经是第３次了。。也许是最后一次了，因为我要毕业了，朋友（接的）也要毕业了。
跟他们讨论有点乱，因为双方都不明白，而且一直有意识混乱。
一直走下走下就跟他们讨论。最后从TS去了central market。
在Pasar Seni的lrt，其中一个人被＂卡在里面＂因为他把card放了，却没有走出来，而另个也放了进去就走出来，变成一个没有卡＂开门＂。
哪个guard就乱来，说去跟counter说，counter却说叫guard拿卡出来，让他再放进去。之后supervisor来了，我就讲讲讲讲讲讲，过后她也懒得理，我就叫他直接跟紧走出来。
过后在central market没有几下就给他们走完了，也没买什么东西，就说要换地方（又接近下班时间了，lrt肯定塞），就带他们去china street，走个圈就出来了。
过后就过去the mall，他们住附近。
吃了McD，也拍了几张照片。
离别时，他们一直不想走将，因为才刚熟悉而已哦。
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